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Ep43 From Conflict to Connection: Process Over Content
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"Pure love is capable of great deeds, and it is not broken by difficulty or adversity."
~ St. Faustina
Do you have the same arguments over and over again? Are you frustrated by a lack of connection in your relationship? Is it possible to still be connected when you disagree with the person you love?
In this episode, Kenna and Pat Millea explore the transformative power of prioritizing Process over Content in communication and relationships. They delve into the significance of empathy and vulnerability in fostering genuine connection, especially during times of hardship or conflict. Through personal anecdotes from their own marriage, Kenna and Pat demonstrate the healing potential of empathy and authenticity in a relationship. The truth is that our arguments aren't really about the content: the thing that happened or what someone said. On a deeper level, our conflicts are about the process: how we were affected, and how badly we desire to be loved, known, and understood, even in times of conflict.
Join Pat & Kenna for a fun and fruitful episode and take the next step toward conflict that connects!
Episode 43 Show Notes
Chapters:
00:00: Introduction and Highs & Hards
13:52: Empathy creates connection
22:24: Process over Content
28:59: Fostering connection by focusing on Process
41:15: Challenge By Choice
Questions for Reflection & Discussion:
- What is one thing that is sticking with you from this episode?
- What is a time that someone has truly empathized with you and worked to understand your feelings? How did that make you feel?
- When have you fallen into the trap of prioritizing being "right" over fostering understanding and connection in a conflict? How might a focus on Process over Content have led to a different outcome?
- When is it most tempting to get bogged down in content? How can you focus on process instead?
- What is a first step you can make to prioritizing process over content moving forward?
Send us a text. We're excited to hear what's on your mind!
Thank you for listening! Visit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an email with your thoughts, questions, or ideas.
Check us out on Instagram & Facebook
Interested in more faith-filled mental health resources? Check out the Martin Center for Integration
Music: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.
فصول
1. Introduction and Highs & Hards (00:00:00)
2. Empathy creates connection (00:13:52)
3. Process over Content (00:22:24)
4. Fostering connection by focusing on Process (00:28:59)
5. Challenge By Choice (00:41:15)
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Manage episode 406872591 series 3371228
"Pure love is capable of great deeds, and it is not broken by difficulty or adversity."
~ St. Faustina
Do you have the same arguments over and over again? Are you frustrated by a lack of connection in your relationship? Is it possible to still be connected when you disagree with the person you love?
In this episode, Kenna and Pat Millea explore the transformative power of prioritizing Process over Content in communication and relationships. They delve into the significance of empathy and vulnerability in fostering genuine connection, especially during times of hardship or conflict. Through personal anecdotes from their own marriage, Kenna and Pat demonstrate the healing potential of empathy and authenticity in a relationship. The truth is that our arguments aren't really about the content: the thing that happened or what someone said. On a deeper level, our conflicts are about the process: how we were affected, and how badly we desire to be loved, known, and understood, even in times of conflict.
Join Pat & Kenna for a fun and fruitful episode and take the next step toward conflict that connects!
Episode 43 Show Notes
Chapters:
00:00: Introduction and Highs & Hards
13:52: Empathy creates connection
22:24: Process over Content
28:59: Fostering connection by focusing on Process
41:15: Challenge By Choice
Questions for Reflection & Discussion:
- What is one thing that is sticking with you from this episode?
- What is a time that someone has truly empathized with you and worked to understand your feelings? How did that make you feel?
- When have you fallen into the trap of prioritizing being "right" over fostering understanding and connection in a conflict? How might a focus on Process over Content have led to a different outcome?
- When is it most tempting to get bogged down in content? How can you focus on process instead?
- What is a first step you can make to prioritizing process over content moving forward?
Send us a text. We're excited to hear what's on your mind!
Thank you for listening! Visit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an email with your thoughts, questions, or ideas.
Check us out on Instagram & Facebook
Interested in more faith-filled mental health resources? Check out the Martin Center for Integration
Music: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.
فصول
1. Introduction and Highs & Hards (00:00:00)
2. Empathy creates connection (00:13:52)
3. Process over Content (00:22:24)
4. Fostering connection by focusing on Process (00:28:59)
5. Challenge By Choice (00:41:15)
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