The Matadoras No More Bull Podcast: Two Women, One Narcissist – Harrowing Stories Of Escape, Survival, And Healing" podcast

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The Matadoras No More Bull Podcast: Two Women, One Narcissist – Harrowing Stories of Escape, Survival, and Healing"

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Two Women, One Narcissist, and the Journey to Freedom

In this raw and gripping podcast, Lizzie and Deana—two women who share the painful bond of having been married to the same narcissistic abuser—pull back the curtain on the devastating cycle of manipulation, betrayal, gaslighting, and trauma they endured. Together, they unravel the dark truths of sexual addiction, financial abuse, and double lives, while sharing how they found the courage to escape and reclaim their power.

Through candid storytelling, heartfelt conversations, and practical insights, Lizzie and Deana shed light on the devastating ripple effects of narcissistic abuse, not just in their lives but in the lives of others who followed. More importantly, they offer hope, empowerment, and tools for healing to those who may feel trapped.

This podcast is not just about survival—it's about rising above the pain to build your best self and your best life. A must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration, solidarity, and the strength to break free.

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The Matadoras No More Bull Podcast: Two Women, One Narcissist – Harrowing Stories of Escape, Survival, and Healing"

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Two Women, One Narcissist, and the Journey to Freedom

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Episode #46; Breaking The Generational Cycle of Trauma; Tina's Journey of Forgiveness and Self Love 32:00

منذ 4 أيام32:00

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In this conversation, Tina shares her profound journey from a traumatic childhood marked by abuse and a cult-like upbringing to a path of healing and self-discovery. She discusses the impact of generational trauma, the challenges of recognizing and breaking free from narcissistic relationships, and the importance of forgiveness and self-love. Tina emphasizes the necessity of inner work and the tools she used to heal, including journaling and meditation. Her story serves as an inspiration for those seeking to overcome their past and find their true selves. Takeaways: Tina's childhood was marked by trauma and abuse. Generational trauma can perpetuate cycles of pain. Forgiveness is essential but challenging to achieve. Healing requires introspection and self-awareness. Narcissistic relationships often stem from unresolved personal issues. The importance of finding the right tools for healing. Isolation during COVID allowed for deep personal reflection. Writing can be a powerful tool for healing. Recognizing one's worth is crucial in toxic relationships. Life begins anew after healing and self-discovery. To purchase Tina's book "Finding My Sovereignty" visit her website at https://www.sovereignandsage.com Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #45; Narcissistic Abuse: How to Recover & Heal (Strategies for Survivors) with Katherine Miura LMFT 29:55

منذ 13 يومًا29:55

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In this conversation, Katherine Miura, an author and marriage and family therapist, shares her personal journey of overcoming narcissistic abuse and her mission to help others heal from similar experiences. She discusses the complexities of narcissistic relationships, the importance of understanding trauma bonds, and the role of inner child work in recovery. Katherine also emphasizes the need for therapists to recognize narcissistic behaviors and the value of individual counseling over couples therapy. Her insights provide valuable guidance for survivors seeking to reclaim their identities and heal from the scars of toxic relationships. TAKEAWAYS: Katherine's personal experience with narcissistic abuse shaped her therapeutic approach. Understanding narcissism is crucial for healing from toxic relationships. Healing involves reconnecting with the inner child and addressing trauma bonds. Therapists often lack training in recognizing narcissistic behaviors. Parental alienation is a serious issue that can be addressed in therapy. Individual counseling is more effective than couples therapy for victims of narcissism. Education about narcissism helps clients gain clarity and reduce confusion. Support groups can play a vital role in the healing process. Katherine's books provide resources for understanding and overcoming narcissistic abuse. Empowerment and self-love are key components of recovery. To check out Katherine's current book "How To Turn Your Child Into A Doormat", as well as her upcoming book "The War On Narcissism", visit her website! www.katherinemiura.com Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Background of Catherine Miura 01:33 Catherine's Personal Journey with Narcissism 04:55 Healing Through Inner Child Work 10:03 Understanding Hoovering and Love Bombing 12:49 Parental Alienation and Its Impact on Children 15:51 Rediscovering Self After Narcissistic Relationships 19:29 Catherine's Resources and Upcoming Projects 20:24 Therapist Training on Narcissism 26:25 The Challenges of Couples Therapy with Narcissists 30:34 The Importance of Individual Counseling Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #44: The Red Flags Of Suicide Manipulation; Surviving Manipulation Abuse 18:27

منذ 23 يومًا18:27

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In this episode, The Matadoras delve into the complex and often misunderstood topic of emotional abuse through suicide manipulation. They share personal stories, discuss the red flags of manipulation, and provide practical advice on how to respond to threats of suicide. The conversation emphasizes the importance of awareness, setting boundaries, and seeking help, while also acknowledging the emotional toll such situations can take on individuals. The hosts aim to empower listeners to recognize toxic relationships and prioritize their own well-being. Emotional abuse can manifest through suicide manipulation. Recognizing red flags is crucial for self-protection. Personal stories can shed light on common manipulation tactics. Setting boundaries is essential in toxic relationships. It's important to differentiate between real threats and manipulation. Responding to suicide threats requires a delicate approach. You are not responsible for another person's actions. Seeking help from professionals is vital in crisis situations. Awareness and education empower individuals to take action. Your safety and well-being should always come first. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #43: You Can't Make This Sh*t Up! Laughing Through The Narcissistic Nightmare 43:37

منذ 28 يومًا43:37

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In this engaging conversation, the Matadoras and special guest Jennifer, share their personal stories of navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals. They explore the complexities of narcissistic personalities, recount their experiences, and discuss the healing process that follows. Through humor and shared understanding, they aim to empower others who may be facing similar challenges, emphasizing that healing is possible and that there is light at the end of the tunnel. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of toxic relationships, particularly focusing on the behaviors of narcissists and the impact of their actions on their partners. They explore themes of childhood trauma, the cycle of chaos in relationships, the consequences of anger and entitlement, and the illusion of change. The discussion emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, finding strength in anger, and moving beyond victimhood to achieve healing. The speakers share personal anecdotes and insights, highlighting the significance of shared experiences in the recovery process. Takeaways: Healing from narcissistic relationships often involves finding humor in the pain. It's common for narcissists to manipulate situations to appear as victims. Empowerment comes from understanding and sharing experiences with others. There is hope and healing after the trauma of narcissistic relationships. Toxic individuals often have troubled childhoods that they use to justify their behavior. Empathy can lead to enabling toxic behavior in relationships. Recognizing the cycle of chaos is crucial for healing. Setting boundaries is essential for self-preservation. Anger can be a powerful motivator for change and healing. It's important to confront toxic behavior for personal survival. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #42: Interview with Dr. Sam Vaknin, Professor of Psychology; Breaking the Manipulation & Aggression Cycle 49:26

منذ 5 weeks49:26

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In this engaging episode, Dr. Sam Vaknin, a renowned expert on narcissism, author, and Professor of Psychology provides invaluable insights into the warning signs of abusive behavior, the psychological tactics employed by abusers, and effective strategies for healing and recovery. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and the necessity of establishing boundaries to protect oneself and loved ones from further harm. Takeaways Narcissistic abuse often involves a cycle of manipulation and control. Recognizing the signs of aggression and withdrawal is crucial. Trusting your intuition can help identify dangerous situations. Abusers often use gaslighting to distort reality for their victims. It's important to make the abuse public to begin the healing process. Self-care and prioritizing one's own well-being is essential during recovery. Minimizing contact with the abuser can help in the healing process. Education about abuse can empower victims to break free from toxic relationships. Victims should work on emotional regulation to regain control over their lives. Building a supportive social network is vital for recovery. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #41: The Power Shift: Recognizing & Breaking Free from the Victim Role 41:26

منذ 6 weeks41:26

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In this conversation, Lizzie and Deana explore the concept of victim mentality, discussing its origins, signs, and how it manifests in relationships and life circumstances. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and breaking free from this mindset to reclaim personal power and foster growth. The discussion includes practical strategies for overcoming victimhood, such as setting boundaries, focusing on self-care, and building a supportive network. The conversation concludes with a call to action for listeners to empower themselves and take control of their lives. Takeaways Victim mentality often stems from childhood trauma or neglect. Recognizing signs of victim mentality is the first step to change. Focusing on self-care and personal growth is crucial. Setting boundaries is essential in toxic relationships. Building a supportive network helps in overcoming victimhood. Letting go of past grievances is necessary for healing. Fear and anxiety should not dictate your life choices. Empowerment comes from taking responsibility for your own happiness. Positive affirmations can help combat negative self-talk. Creating a battle plan is vital for overcoming life challenges. Key Words: victim mentality, empowerment, personal growth, relationships, overcoming fear, self-worth, mental health, resilience, healing, self-acceptance Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #40; The Lonely Dark; Finding Your Way Out of Depression. 42:33

منذ 8 weeks42:33

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In this conversation, Deana and Lizzie discuss the profound themes of grief, loneliness, and depression, particularly as they navigate personal struggles and the importance of vulnerability. They share their experiences and insights on how to cope with these feelings, emphasizing the need for support, self-care, and community. The discussion highlights the significance of evaluating life changes, seeking help, and finding ways to combat loneliness while fostering connections with others. Takeaways Grief and loneliness are universal experiences that many face. Acknowledging depression is a crucial first step in healing. Personal struggles can often feel isolating, but sharing can help. Support from friends and family is vital during tough times. Making lifestyle changes can significantly impact mental health. Finding joy in small daily positives can aid in recovery. It's important to seek professional help when needed. Cutting out stressors can lead to a healthier mindset. Building a supportive community can alleviate feelings of loneliness. Self-care is essential for emotional well-being. Keywords: grief, loneliness, depression, mental health, support, personal struggles, self-care, community, emotional health, resilience Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #39: The Weight Of "What If's"-Navigating Grief, Loss & Regret 38:50

منذ 12 weeks38:50

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In this episode of The Matadoras, hosts Deana and Lizzie delve into the complex and often painful topic of grief. They share personal stories of loss, including the impact of losing friends and family members, and discuss the various ways individuals cope with grief. The conversation emphasizes the importance of healthy grieving practices, the necessity of communication, and the significance of supporting others who are grieving. Through their experiences, they highlight the inevitability of grief and the importance of finding ways to heal and give back in the face of loss. Takeaways Grief is a universal experience that everyone faces. It's important to have tools to cope with grief. Grief can manifest in unexpected ways, even years later. Talking about grief can aid in the healing process. Guilt and blame often accompany grief, but they are unproductive. Healthy grieving involves facing emotions rather than suppressing them. Support from others is crucial during the grieving process. Regret can be a heavy burden; it's important to let it go. Grief can change how we view relationships and life. Finding ways to give back can be a cathartic part of healing. grief, loss, healing, emotional health, support, coping mechanisms, personal stories, mental health, relationships, healing process Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #38: 3 Critical Elements To Move You From Confused To Confident 46:06

منذ 15 weeks46:06

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In this conversation, Bre Wolta, a relationship clarity coach, shares her personal journey of healing from a toxic relationship and the essential elements needed for recovery. She emphasizes the importance of clarity, feeling, and connection in the healing process, and discusses the challenges faced by individuals recovering from narcissistic abuse. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding one's emotions, the role of community support, and the journey of self-discovery after leaving an unhealthy relationship. Takeaways Clarity is crucial for understanding past relationships. Healing involves feeling emotions rather than avoiding them. Connection with others who understand your experience is vital. Narcissistic relationships often lead to confusion and self-doubt. It's important to recognize and address codependency in relationships. Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) can help regulate emotions. Healing is a layered process that takes time and patience. Self-discovery is essential after leaving a toxic relationship. Creating a list of personal likes and values aids in self-identity. The cocoon phase of healing is necessary for personal growth. Here is how to find Bre with Lucid Living! Website: www.brewolta.com - Heartbreak to Wholeness Podcast, Episode 47 - Was Any Of It Real? Signs You've Been Deceived In A Narcissistic Relationship & How To Finally Understand It https://tinyurl.com/ep47htw-thematadoras - Find Yourself Again (A self-guided course to help you identify your values, needs and wants so you can enter into healthy relationships confidently) Use discount code PODCAST10: https://tinyurl.com/fya-thematadoras relationship coaching, narcissistic abuse, healing, clarity, emotional freedom techniques, self-discovery, connection, personal growth, mental health, empowerment Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #37: Safe Holidays, Strong Families 21:32

منذ 16 weeks21:32

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Join Lizzie and Deana as they address the challenges faced during the holiday season, particularly for those in abusive relationships, those who are separated, and those with blended families. We discuss the increase in domestic violence during the holidays, the importance of emotional and physical safety, and how to help your children during the stressful transition of separate homes during the holiday season. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #36: Hidden Harm; The Enablers Role In Abuse 43:29

منذ 17 weeks43:29

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Ever thought about the role an abuser's friends and family play in the cycle of harm? Join us with returning guests Tiffany and Alexis as they reveal their powerful stories of re-victimization—not just from the abuser, but from those who stood by their side. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #35: Bright Minds, Dark Deceptions: How Even the Smartest Get Fooled by Narcissists 1:20:22

منذ 18 weeks1:20:22

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Join us today for Jen's story. Jen is a highly accomplished, ultra bright PH.D educator who fell for a Narc. Her message to you is that it doesn't matter how smart or educated you are....we all have vulnerabilities! Oh, and stick around for the SURPRISE REVEAL at the end!!! Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #34: Are You Aligning With Your Ideal Self, Or Stuck In Your Lowest Habits? 31:29

منذ 21 weeks31:29

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What gives you value? What makes you feel proud of yourself? What do you do that makes you feel confident? What actions in your life cause you to hate who you are? Are there areas in your life that rob you of becoming your ideal self? Join Lizzie and Deana for some thoughtful musings about becoming the best version of yourself, versus giving in to your lower nature. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #33: Beating The Narc At His Own Game-Trish's Story 39:10

منذ 23 weeks39:10

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Join Lizzie and I with our special guest Trish from "The TLC". Trish shares her story about being in an abusive relationship, and having to plan her exit for years in order to leave safely, and with the ability to support herself & her family. After leaving, Trish started her new life and a valuable mission helping women start their own businesses after leaving a toxic relationship. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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Episode #32: My Ex Tracked Me, Stalked Me, And Hired People To Hurt Me (So Why Am I Thankful?) 57:57

منذ 28 weeks57:57

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Join Lizzie and I to uncover Sally's riveting story of the Ex who did everything he could to isolate, dominate, and control her, even hiring a hit man posing as a landscaper, to end her life. After all of this horrible-ness, Sally is actually thankful for the experience, as she re-framed it, saw it for what it was, and used this as the foundation for a brand new life. Check out our website! Thematadoras.com Drop us a line, anytime! Thematadoras@gmail.com Like and follow us on YouTube, Tik Tok, and Instagram @thematadoras We would love to have you join us on our public FB group; Women of Faith; Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships, or request to join our private FB group; The Matadoras.…

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