Living Life on Your Own Terms Without Children w/ Meenu

Babbles Nonsense

#187: The decision not to have children isn't made lightly, yet it's often dismissed as selfish or temporary. In this candid conversation, we pull back the curtain on what it truly means to be child-free by choice in 2025, starting with an important distinction – the difference between being "childless" versus "child-free." This isn't about what's missing from our lives; it's about defining life on our own terms.
We share our personal journeys to becoming child-free women, revealing how neither of us started with an absolute "no" to motherhood. Instead, our paths evolved through self-reflection, witnessing others' experiences, and honestly assessing what we wanted from life. The statistics back up what we're experiencing – nearly one in three adults without children now say they never want them, with women leading this cultural shift.
The financial reality of raising children today is staggering. We break down the numbers: $18,865 for pregnancy and delivery, childcare costs rising over 50% in just two years, and approximately $300,000 to raise a child to age 17. Beyond finances, we explore the other top reasons women choose not to have children – from valuing personal freedom to concerns about climate change, and the persistent lack of societal support for parents. The conversation gets real when we address the myth that being child-free means being anti-child. As we explain, many of us absolutely adore children – we just don't want the 24/7 responsibility.
Whether you're child-free, a parent, or somewhere in between, this episode invites you to challenge assumptions and embrace the idea that there's no single right path to a fulfilled life. Join us for this thoughtful exploration of choice, stigma, and finding joy in the life you design. Then share your thoughts – have you faced judgment for your reproductive choices?

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1. Introducing Child-Free By Choice (00:00:00)

2. Child-Free vs. Childless: Language Matters (00:06:39)

3. Personal Journeys to Being Child-Free (00:12:07)

4. The Rising Cost of Raising Children (00:24:42)

5. Top Reasons Women Choose Child-Free (00:34:07)

6. Child-Free Doesn't Mean Anti-Child (00:44:30)

7. Changing Social Attitudes and Final Thoughts (00:50:39)