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Exile

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Welcome to Exile, a podcast about Jewish lives under the shadow of fascism. Narrated by award-winning screen and stage actor, Mandy Patinkin. Untold stories and firsthand accounts drawn from intimate letters, diaries and interviews found in the Leo Baeck Institute’s vast archive. Each episode, a story of beauty and danger that brings history to life. Because the past is always present. Starting November 1, episodes are released weekly every Tuesday. The Leo Baeck Institute, New York | Berlin is a research library and archive focused on the history of German-speaking Jews. Antica Productions produces award-winning non-fiction podcasts, films and series which inform and inspire audiences around the world.

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Ever wondered how to stay calm and perform your best under pressure? This episode is packed with practical tips from a leading performance psychologist that you won't want to miss!

Welcome to this episode, where have an engaging conversation with Dr. Dana Sinclair, a performance psychologist renowned for her expertise in managing high-pressure situations. Together, we explore how focusing on task-related actions can help you stay composed and excel when it matters most.

By listening to this episode, you can:

Learn Strategies to Manage Pressure: Discover how to focus on tasks instead of getting overwhelmed by emotions like anxiety or self-doubt.
Enhance Performance with Mental Preparation: Explore techniques like visualization and mental rehearsals to be mentally and emotionally ready for crucial moments.
Improve Through Self-Evaluation: Understand the importance of post-performance evaluations to identify strengths and areas for improvement.

Three Benefits You'll Gain:

Effective Self-Talk Techniques: Learn about "smart talk" to transform negative self-talk into positive affirmations based on factual evidence.
Action-Oriented Focus: Discover why focusing on actions rather than feelings can lead to better performance under pressure.
Personalized Self-Talk Strategies: Understand how to tailor self-talk approaches to fit your unique performance style.

Ready to master high-pressure situations and achieve peak performance? Scroll up and click play to join our insightful conversation with Dr. Dana Sinclair. Learn how to stay focused, confident, and action-oriented in the moments that matter most.

Exploring Key Concepts and Issues:

Managing High-Pressure Situations:

Task-Related Actions: Dr. Sinclair emphasizes the importance of focusing on what needs to be done rather than being overwhelmed by emotions.
Self-Evaluation: Post-performance evaluations help identify what went well and areas for improvement, fostering continuous growth.

Mental Preparation Techniques:

Visualization and Mental Rehearsals: These techniques prepare individuals mentally and emotionally for challenging situations, boosting readiness and confidence.
Smart Talk: Breaking down self-talk into facts and positive affirmations to combat negative thoughts and build self-compassion.

Reframing Negative Thoughts:

Constructive Self-Talk: Creating positive and task-oriented self-talk to enhance performance under pressure.
Third-Person Self-Talk: Adopting an objective perspective to distance oneself from subjective emotions during challenging situations.

Full Episode from S5 E18:
Stay Calm and Focused: Techniques to Enhance Performance Under Pressure.

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1. BiteSize - How to Stay Calm Under Pressure: Expert Strategies for High Performance from a Performance Psychologist. (00:00:00)

2. Introduction to It's an Inside Job Bite Size Fridays (00:00:08)

3. Delving into Practical Performance Psychology with Dr. Dana Sinclair (00:00:35)

4. Analyzing Self-Talk and Smart Talk with Dr. Dana Sinclair (00:01:43)

5. Balancing Speculation and Strategy for Success (00:07:12)

6. Reframing Negative Self-Talk for Better Performance (00:08:36)

7. Using Third-Person Perspective in Self-Talk (00:11:43)

8. The Misconception of Confidence in Performance (00:13:17)

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BiteSize - How to Stay Calm Under Pressure: Expert Strategies for High Performance from a Performance Psychologist.

It's an Inside Job

published منذ عام واحد

MP3•منزل الحلقة

Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments.

Ever wondered how to stay calm and perform your best under pressure? This episode is packed with practical tips from a leading performance psychologist that you won't want to miss!

By listening to this episode, you can:

Learn Strategies to Manage Pressure: Discover how to focus on tasks instead of getting overwhelmed by emotions like anxiety or self-doubt.
Enhance Performance with Mental Preparation: Explore techniques like visualization and mental rehearsals to be mentally and emotionally ready for crucial moments.
Improve Through Self-Evaluation: Understand the importance of post-performance evaluations to identify strengths and areas for improvement.

Three Benefits You'll Gain:

Effective Self-Talk Techniques: Learn about "smart talk" to transform negative self-talk into positive affirmations based on factual evidence.
Action-Oriented Focus: Discover why focusing on actions rather than feelings can lead to better performance under pressure.
Personalized Self-Talk Strategies: Understand how to tailor self-talk approaches to fit your unique performance style.

Exploring Key Concepts and Issues:

Managing High-Pressure Situations:

Task-Related Actions: Dr. Sinclair emphasizes the importance of focusing on what needs to be done rather than being overwhelmed by emotions.
Self-Evaluation: Post-performance evaluations help identify what went well and areas for improvement, fostering continuous growth.

Mental Preparation Techniques:

Visualization and Mental Rehearsals: These techniques prepare individuals mentally and emotionally for challenging situations, boosting readiness and confidence.
Smart Talk: Breaking down self-talk into facts and positive affirmations to combat negative thoughts and build self-compassion.

Reframing Negative Thoughts:

Constructive Self-Talk: Creating positive and task-oriented self-talk to enhance performance under pressure.
Third-Person Self-Talk: Adopting an objective perspective to distance oneself from subjective emotions during challenging situations.

Full Episode from S5 E18:
Stay Calm and Focused: Techniques to Enhance Performance Under Pressure.

Support the show

Sign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER

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فصول

1. BiteSize - How to Stay Calm Under Pressure: Expert Strategies for High Performance from a Performance Psychologist. (00:00:00)

2. Introduction to It's an Inside Job Bite Size Fridays (00:00:08)

3. Delving into Practical Performance Psychology with Dr. Dana Sinclair (00:00:35)

4. Analyzing Self-Talk and Smart Talk with Dr. Dana Sinclair (00:01:43)

5. Balancing Speculation and Strategy for Success (00:07:12)

6. Reframing Negative Self-Talk for Better Performance (00:08:36)

7. Using Third-Person Perspective in Self-Talk (00:11:43)

8. The Misconception of Confidence in Performance (00:13:17)

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Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. "By challenging established fears and mindsets, we unlock the door to greater resilience, clarity, and the ability to thrive in life’s uncertainties." In this Bite Size Fridays episode of It’s an Inside Job , Jason Liem dives into the fourth and final skill in the Mastering Self cluster of the contrarian mindset: embracing uncertainty. Jason explores why humans have an inherent drive for certainty and how the contrarian mindset equips us to face life’s unpredictability with resilience and strength. This episode provides practical steps to overcome our fears of the unknown, helping listeners build a life marked by courage, adaptability, and a sense of inner peace. Key Takeaways: Understanding the Need for Certainty: Jason explains the evolutionary roots of our need for certainty and how, while no longer essential for survival, this drive affects our modern lives. By redefining our relationship with uncertainty, we open ourselves up to growth and resilience. Embracing Uncertainty as a Pathway to Growth: Success often requires venturing into the unknown. Rather than viewing uncertainty as a barrier, Jason reframes it as an opportunity for innovation, creativity, and self-discovery. Practical Steps to Cultivate Comfort with Uncertainty: Jason provides actionable strategies such as setting flexible goals, practicing mindfulness, seeking diverse experiences, and building a supportive network. These steps help us move forward even when the outcome is unclear, reinforcing the contrarian principle of mastering self. Episode Highlights: The Paradox of Certainty in Modern Life: Jason discusses how, despite providing comfort, an over-reliance on certainty can stifle personal growth. He encourages listeners to find a balance between routine and the courage to explore beyond the “castle walls.” Developing Resilience through a Learning Mindset: Facing uncertainty activates creativity, adaptability, and resilience. By viewing challenges as learning opportunities, we empower ourselves to navigate life’s inevitable ups and downs. Practical Tools for Embracing Uncertainty: Jason shares techniques to help listeners face uncertainty more comfortably, such as focusing on effort over outcome, practicing mindfulness, and seeking diverse experiences that push them out of their comfort zones. Additional Resources: Interested in building a contrarian mindset for resilience, fortitude, and psychological strength? Check out the other episodes in this series linked in the show notes, and subscribe to It’s an Inside Job for more insights on resilience, well-being, and personal growth. Part 1 – Discover the Power of The Contrarian Mindset: A New Approach to Rewiring Your Brain for Resilience and Growth Part 2 – Discover the Power of The Contrarian Mindset: A New Approach to Rewiring Your Brain for Resilience and Growth Support the show Sign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday…

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Are You a Technical Expert Feeling Stuck? Discover the Expertship Framework for Career Growth & Resilience. 1:01:46

منذ 5 weeks1:01:46

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Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. "Technical experts are the backbone of organisations, but their full potential remains untapped without the right support." – Alistair Gordon In this episode, I sit down with Alistair Gordon , an expert in training and coaching technical subject matter experts (SMEs) worldwide. We discuss the unique challenges SMEs face when transitioning into leadership roles and how traditional leadership programs often fall short in addressing their needs. Alistair introduces the concept of "expertship" as a transformative framework to help SMEs break out of their technical bubbles and thrive in broader organizational roles . This conversation dives deep into strategies for enhancing the value SMEs bring to organizations , including practical tools for developing enterprise skills like emotional intelligence, stakeholder engagement, and strategic thinking . Whether you're an SME looking to grow or a leader aiming to support your technical experts, this episode is packed with actionable insights . Resources: The Master Expert Book is 50 chapters of easy to digest, easy to implement processes and behaviours that elevate SMEs from mere Experts to guru Master Experts. Essential reading for technical subject matter experts who want to advance their career, have more fulfilling professional lives, and make a difference to their organisation. Website: https://www.expertunity.global/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alistair-gordon-5a69349/ Support the show Sign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday…

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Solo - The Contrarian Mindset Skill 3: Letting Go Of Fixed & Desired Outcomes 14:56

منذ 5 weeks14:56

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Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. In this Bite Size Fridays episode of It's an Inside Job , Jason White Birkevold Liem explores the third skill of the contrarian mindset—letting go of fixed outcomes and focusing on our actions and efforts. Jason delves into how this principle empowers us to live authentically and fully, embracing life’s uncertainties with grace. By emphasizing effort over outcome, we build resilience, develop a growth mindset, and find fulfillment in the journey rather than just the destination. Three Key Takeaways from This Episode: Effort Over Outcome as a Mindset Shift: Jason discusses how valuing the process over fixed outcomes allows us to approach life’s challenges with a resilient and adaptable mindset. By focusing on our actions rather than the results, we can better navigate the unpredictable nature of life. Fostering Resilience and Adaptability: The contrarian principle of focusing on effort cultivates resilience and fortitude, enabling us to face setbacks with courage and tenacity. This approach ensures that we remain open to possibilities even in adversity. Living with Intentionality and Gratitude: Jason emphasizes that focusing on the journey and the effort itself enhances our appreciation for life. Living with presence, authenticity, and gratitude enriches our experience and creates a ripple effect that positively influences those around us. Episode Highlights: The Contrarian Mindset of Letting Go of Fixed Outcomes: Jason introduces the idea that focusing more on effort and less on specific outcomes allows for greater flexibility and inner peace, fostering an empowered approach to challenges. Personal Reflections on Effort Over Outcome: Drawing from his personal journey, Jason shares how this mindset has helped him confront recent life challenges, fueling a positive and optimistic outlook. Practical Steps to Apply Effort Over Outcome: Jason encourages listeners to celebrate small wins, find satisfaction in taking meaningful actions, and approach setbacks as opportunities for growth. Impact Beyond Personal Growth: By embodying this principle, we can inspire others, creating a ripple effect that promotes resilience and adaptability in our communities and workplaces. Additional Resources: Interested in building a contrarian mindset for resilience, fortitude, and psychological strength? Check out the other episodes in this series linked in the show notes, and subscribe to It’s an Inside Job for more insights on resilience, well-being, and personal growth. Part 1 – Discover the Power of The Contrarian Mindset: A New Approach to Rewiring Your Brain for Resilience and Growth Part 2 – Discover the Power of The Contrarian Mindset: A New Approach to Rewiring Your Brain for Resilience and Growth Support the show Sign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday…

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Thriving in Complexity: Resilient Leadership Strategies for Uncertain Times 1:02:27

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Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. "Power within is the foundation—it’s about self-confidence and agency, and without it, collaboration and innovation cannot thrive." – Simona Costanzo Sow In this episode, I sit down with Simona Costanzo Sow , Chief of Academic Partnerships at the UN System Staff College (UNSSC), to explore leadership strategies in addressing global complexities. We dive into the evolving nature of leadership in a world of "polycrisis," the value of collaboration across cultures and sectors, and the importance of fostering creativity and trust to navigate uncertainty. Simona shares her deep insights into resilient leadership , adaptive systems , and building the "power within" to create meaningful change. This conversation offers valuable lessons for leaders at all levels, whether you're working within an organization, leading a team, or managing your personal development. Key Topics Discussed: Leadership in Complexity: The shift from domain-specific expertise to holistic, collaborative approaches in addressing interconnected global challenges. Breaking cognitive biases and fostering a mindset of trust, adaptability, and openness to uncertainty. Power Dynamics in Leadership: Power Over : Traditional hierarchical power. Power To : The ability to make impactful decisions. Power With : Building collective influence through collaboration and shared goals. Power Within : Developing self-confidence, agency, and self-worth to drive personal and collective transformation. Strategies for Leading in Crisis: Creating safe spaces for reflection and peer support. Recognizing the importance of taking time to reconnect with purpose and motivation. The role of mindfulness and emotional awareness in staying grounded under pressure. The Quintet of Change (UN Framework for Leadership): Data-driven insights: Leveraging information to guide decisions. Digital transformation: Enhancing collaboration through technology. Innovation: Encouraging risk-taking and iterative learning. Foresight: Proactively identifying trends and shaping the future. Behavioral science: Understanding human behavior to drive effective strategies. The Value of Vulnerability in Leadership: Embracing vulnerability as a strength to build trust and adaptability. Seeking help, fostering diverse teams, and creating psychological safety. Actionable Takeaways: Foster a Learning Mindset: Reflect on your own leadership style. How can you embrace adaptability and creativity to address complex challenges? Build a Collaborative Culture: Encourage divergent thinking by welcoming diverse perspectives and facilitating open dialogue. Reconnect with Your Purpose: Reflect on your core values and motivations to stay resilient during times of uncertainty. Focus on Incremental Progress: When tackling complex problems, prioritize small, meaningful steps over immediate solutions. Empower Your Team: Cultivate "power within" by building psychological safety and encouraging agency among team members. Support the show Sign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday…

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Solo - The Contrarian Mindset Skill 2: Focusing on Reality Over Emotional Reality for Resilience 16:37

منذ 6 weeks16:37

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Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. In this Bite Size Fridays episode of It's an Inside Job , host Jason Liem continues the series on the contrarian mindset by exploring the second skill: focusing on reality over emotional reality. Jason delves into how we can use emotional wisdom and disciplined perception to interpret life events more accurately. By understanding emotions as valuable messengers rather than obstacles, we learn to make informed decisions and build resilience, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. Three Key Takeaways from This Episode: Distinguishing Reality from Emotional Reality: Jason emphasizes the importance of perceiving situations as they are, rather than through the lens of emotions and biases. By adopting a disciplined approach to perception, we can make clear-headed decisions rooted in both rational thought and emotional insight. Practices for Developing Emotional Wisdom: To harness the full potential of our emotions, Jason shares practical strategies like reflective practices, emotional literacy, seeking multiple perspectives, and building a strong mind-body connection. These skills help us understand our emotions deeply and use them as guides in decision-making. Integrating Emotional Wisdom in Decision-Making: Jason discusses ways to incorporate emotions into decision-making, such as through emotional check-ins, balancing emotion with reason, scenario analysis, and building resilience. This balanced approach ensures our choices reflect our values and promote long-term well-being. Episode Highlights: Understanding the Contrarian Mindset: Jason defines the contrarian mindset as an approach that encourages questioning ingrained responses to challenges, aiming to foster resilience and adaptability. Skill 2: Focusing on Reality, Not Emotional Reality: Jason explores how disciplined perception allows us to see situations clearly, free from emotional distortions. He underscores the value of viewing emotions as informative signals rather than barriers. Practical Strategies for Cultivating Emotional Wisdom: Jason shares tools to develop emotional wisdom, including reflective practices like journaling, enhancing emotional vocabulary, reframing perspectives, and exploring physical responses to emotions. Applying Emotional Wisdom to Decision-Making: Jason provides actionable tips for using emotional insights in decisions, such as emotional check-ins, balancing feelings with logic, and visualizing the potential outcomes of choices. Additional Resources: Interested in building a contrarian mindset for resilience, fortitude, and psychological strength? Check out the other episodes in this series linked in the show notes, and subscribe to It’s an Inside Job for more insights on resilience, well-being, and personal growth. Part 1 – Discover the Power of The Contrarian Mindset: A New Approach to Rewiring Your Brain for Resilience and Growth Part 2 – Discover the Power of The Contrarian Mindset: A New Approach to Rewiring Your Brain for Resilience and Growth Support the show Sign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday…

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Discover The Unlock Moment: Finding Clarity, Purpose & Resilience Through Life’s Turning Points 1:28:15

منذ 7 weeks1:28:15

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Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. "The Unlock Moment is not about discovering something new—it’s about revealing what’s been there all along." – Dr. Gary Crotaz In this long-form episode of It's an Inside Job , Jason sits down with Dr. Gary Crotaz, world-renowned executive coach, award-winning author, and host of The Unlock Moment podcast. From his journey as a medical doctor to professional ballroom dancer to a sought-after coach, Dr. Crotaz shares how pivotal moments of clarity—what he calls The Unlock Moment —can transform our lives. Together, Jason and Gary explore how identifying these moments can help us connect with our deepest sense of purpose, navigate life's complexities, and lead with authenticity and resilience. Key Topics Covered: The Unlock Moment Defined: A sudden and profound moment of clarity that reveals a deeper purpose or direction in life. Often tied to a specific place, time, and realization, but not always linked to action. Personal Stories of Transformation: Dr. Crotaz’s own Unlock Moment when he realized he had permission to leave medicine. Jason shares his profound Unlock Moment during his cancer diagnosis and the realization of family as his core value. Finding Clarity Through Questions: Asking the right questions is crucial in uncovering purpose and values. Quieting the mind and creating space for introspection often leads to breakthrough moments. Practical Tools for Uncovering Your Purpose: Needs, Wants, and Compromises Framework: Identify your non-negotiables, desires, and areas where you can adjust to align with your true priorities. The Spectrum of Control: Focus on areas where you have agency, no matter how small, to gain momentum in constrained situations. Applying the Unlock Moment in Leadership and Life: Leaders who embrace these moments foster authenticity, adaptability, and trust within teams. The ripple effect of living in alignment with purpose creates resilience and well-being. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might benefit from discovering their own Unlock Moment . Don’t forget to subscribe to It's an Inside Job for more actionable insights and inspiring conversations. Dr. Gary Crotaz: Dr Gary Crotaz is an inspirational keynote speaker, a world-leading executive coach to top leaders in over 25 countries, an award-winning author and the host of The Unlock Moment leadership podcast. Originally trained as a medical doctor, his extraordinary career journey took him from the ballroom to the boardroom, as both a professional dancer and also an executive director at Mothercare and Selfridges Group. He has been featured in the Telegraph, the Sunday Times, Stylist and Forbes and his coaching content on TikTok has been viewed over 8 million times. Website: https://garycrotaz.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/garycrotaz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drgarycrotaz/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drgarycrotaz Support the show Sign up for the weekly IT'S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday…

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1. BiteSize - How to Stay Calm Under Pressure: Expert Strategies for High Performance from a Performance Psychologist. (00:00:00)

2. Introduction to It's an Inside Job Bite Size Fridays (00:00:08)

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5. Balancing Speculation and Strategy for Success (00:07:12)

6. Reframing Negative Self-Talk for Better Performance (00:08:36)

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