Winding Down from Florida Roundup '24 (#193)

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Tag Team Talent Bonus Show #1 "Mack & Jamie" 5:37

منذ 12 يومًا5:37

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Great short Bonus Show for all our loyal podcast fans. This week a tremendous comedy team shares comedy and music...it's "Mack & Jamie" , stars of TV's "Comedy Break"; sharing loads of musical humor. Enjoy!

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Steve shares a bonus audio diary episode about his experiences at this years Florida Roundup, with takeaways such as...

What the heck is a roundup?
Not letting travel difficulties impact the experience at your destination.
Overcoming social insecurities like judgement and rejection.
The positive experiences from workshop and social events on site.
Adventuring out for firsts and letting go of "I can't"s

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1. Winding Down from Florida Roundup '24 (#193) (00:00:00)

2. Queer Sober Conference Highlights (00:00:01)

3. Navigating Social Anxiety at Workshops (00:07:30)

4. Journey to Self-Acceptance and Connection (00:16:37)

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Winding Down from Florida Roundup '24 (#193)

gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show

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Steve shares a bonus audio diary episode about his experiences at this years Florida Roundup, with takeaways such as...

What the heck is a roundup?
Not letting travel difficulties impact the experience at your destination.
Overcoming social insecurities like judgement and rejection.
The positive experiences from workshop and social events on site.
Adventuring out for firsts and letting go of "I can't"s

Support the show

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1. Winding Down from Florida Roundup '24 (#193) (00:00:00)

2. Queer Sober Conference Highlights (00:00:01)

3. Navigating Social Anxiety at Workshops (00:07:30)

4. Journey to Self-Acceptance and Connection (00:16:37)

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Finding Light in the Darkness ft. Dillon 17:57

منذ 13 يومًا17:57

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Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, we’re back with another in-person interview, and this week, I’m sitting down with my friend Dillon! 🏳️‍🌈💜 Dillon opens up about his journey to sobriety, how a birthday wake-up call led him to quit drinking, and the powerful role of resilience in his recovery. We talk about: ✨ The moment he knew he had to change ✨ How sobriety has transformed his life and relationships ✨ Finding strength in grief after loss ✨ Navigating the queer community as a sober person ✨ His go-to mindset shifts & coping strategies Dillon’s story is a reminder that it gets better —and that we are stronger than we ever imagined. 💪 Listen now on all podcasting platforms! 🎧✨ 📲 Follow Dillon: @OGDillyDilly91 📲 Follow gAy A Podcast: @gAyApodcast #QueerSobriety #SoberQueer #LGBTQRecovery #SoberLife #RecoveryJourney #QueerCommunity #GriefAndRecovery #ItGetsBetter #SoberCurious #GaySobriety Support the show…

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Living Fearlessly Queer & Sober with India X Miller 32:21

منذ 20 يومًا32:21

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Send us a text Hey there, Super Sober Heroes ! Your host Sober Steve is here with 1,357 days sober , and this episode is extra special because we are recording in person for the first time! I’m thrilled to welcome India X Miller , a powerful advocate, trans activist, and sober warrior who has been navigating the world of recovery for over 40 years. India shares their incredible journey of sobriety , from getting clean as a teenager to experiencing relapse and reclaiming their recovery. We talk about the unique challenges of being trans and sober, the fight for LGBTQ+ rights in Florida , and how to stay strong and connected in recovery despite all the obstacles. From navigating gender identity to breaking barriers in 12-step spaces , India opens up about resilience, authenticity, and fighting for visibility and acceptance in both recovery and the world at large. ✨ Topics Covered: India’s journey through addiction, relapse, and long-term sobriety The power of visibility as a trans person in recovery How to navigate religious trauma in 12-step spaces The importance of gender-inclusive language in recovery Finding strength in community and creating LGBTQ+ safe spaces India’s work in media & advocacy , including their radio show Connect with India X Miller: 📲 Instagram: @IndiaXMiller 📲 Tik-Tok: @IndiaXMiller 📻 Radio Show: Trans Cis Her on WSLR ( WSLR Website ) Want More Queer Sober Community? 🌈 Join Here Queer Sober! We’re hosting a sober LGBTQ+ conference in NYC this September! Connect, learn, and celebrate with us. Learn More & Register Here 🔗 Follow gAy A on Instagram: @gAyApodcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday! Hit subscribe so you never miss a show. 💬 Have a topic or guest suggestion? DM me on Instagram or email gayapodcast@gmail.com ! Thank you for tuning in, and remember: Stay queer. Stay sober. Stay unapologetically YOU. 💖✨ Support the show…

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The AI Interview – Answering Big Questions About Queer Sobriety with Phil B 15:50

منذ 27 يومًا15:50

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Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, we're back for Part 2 with Phil B, co-founder of Here Queer Sober ! 🎉 And this time, we’re shaking things up—AI is asking the questions! Phil and I tackle some of the biggest misconceptions and deeper truths about queer sobriety, including: ✨ Can queer and sober people actually have fun? (Spoiler: YES.) ✨ What’s it like dating and navigating relationships in sobriety? ✨ How do chosen families evolve in recovery? ✨ What’s one piece of wisdom we wish we knew in our first year? ✨ How to respond when someone says, ‘I can’t imagine being queer and sober.’ Plus, we chat more about the first-ever Hear Queer Sober Conference coming September 27-29, 2024, in NYC —and how you can be part of it! 🌈✨ Resources & Links: 📍 Register for the Here Queer Sober Conference: ➡️ Find the link pinned in the Here Queer Sober Facebook Group 📧 Email Phil at philip@hearqueersober.org 📢 Want to lead a workshop or panel? 🎤 DM me on Instagram @gAyApodcast 📍 Follow Phil & Here Queer Sober: 📲 Instagram: @herequeersober 🎧 Listen now & join the conversation! And as always—stay sober, friends. 💖✨ Support the show…

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Coming Out the Other Side with Phil B – Career, Recovery & Here Queer Sober 19:18

منذ 5 weeks19:18

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Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, welcome back! Today, I’m joined once again by my dear friend and co-founder of Here Queer Sober , Phil B! With 7 years, 9 months, and 24 days sober , Phil shares about his whirlwind year—completing his master’s degree in counseling , navigating job offers, moving into his own apartment, and embracing the next chapter of his recovery and career. We also dive into: ✨ The big life transitions that tested his recovery—and how he stayed grounded ✨ Balancing sobriety & career in addiction counseling ✨ Finding the right meeting routine after so much change ✨ The first-ever Here Queer Sober Conference (coming September 27-29, 2024 ) and how you can get involved! Phil reminds us that sobriety isn’t about avoiding life—it’s about showing up fully, embracing change, and creating something meaningful. 🌈💪 Resources & Links: 📍 Register for the Here Queer Sober Conference: ➡️ Find the link pinned in the Here Queer Sober Facebook Group 📧 Email Phil at philip@herequeersober.org 📢 Want to lead a workshop or panel? 🎤 DM me on Instagram @gAyApodcast 📍 Follow Phil & Here Queer Sober: 📲 Instagram: @herequeersober 🎧 Listen now & get ready for part two with Phil coming soon! And as always—stay sober, friends. 💖✨ Support the show…

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Feeling the Feelings ft. Holland 23:30

منذ 6 weeks23:30

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Send us a text In this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show , host Steve is joined by the amazing Holland, who shares his journey to recovery, approach to spirituality, and how sobriety has transformed his life. Holland, who celebrates a sobriety date of February 2, 2022, opens up about growing up in Hawaii and Alaska, their struggles with addiction, and finding their way back to recovery after a series of challenges. Holland also discusses the importance of service, humility, and staying connected to their queer and recovery communities. Key Topics Discussed: Holland’s early years in Hawaii and Alaska and their experience with addiction starting at a young age. The challenges of balancing recovery and spirituality and how embracing ambiguity with their higher power has been a game-changer. How sobriety has allowed them to process big feelings and lean on tools like therapy, service, and community connection. The power of service in recovery, from giving rides to newcomers to being active in the service structure of AA. Navigating friendships, relationships, and dating as a queer person in recovery and the importance of setting boundaries and standards. Holland’s daily practices for maintaining sobriety, including meditation, gratitude, and embracing humility in their professional and personal life. A focus on progress over perfection and the mantra, “Let go, let God,” that keeps them grounded. Memorable Quotes: “Being sober means I get to feel all the big feelings and then rely on tools to not do the crazy next steps.” “I never want to be too big to clean up chairs because that’s where I meet future sponsees.” “You don’t have to pay back taxes for the person you were. You deserve good things now.” Resources Mentioned: Book : Every Feeling Is Big – A poetry book about heartbreak and relationships in recovery. [Available on Amazon.] Stay Connected: Follow us on Instagram @gAyApodcast for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and more. Support the show…

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Sober Gay Adventures ft. Johnny 18:45

منذ 7 weeks18:45

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Send us a text Episode Highlights 🌍 Traveling Sober & Building Community: Johnny shares how he founded Sober Gay Adventures , offering intimate, 10-day trips for queer sober travelers to explore the world with accountability and connection. His goal was to create meaningful travel experiences for those in recovery, providing fellowship in small groups across the globe. 🏳️‍🌈 Embracing Queer Joy: Johnny talks about loving the vibrant, campy, and dramatic aspects of queer culture and how that community connection has deepened in his sobriety. 💔 Navigating Loss & Addiction: Johnny opens up about how the sudden passing of his best friend led to years of heavy drinking and eventual morning drinking. His breaking point came after a health scare that led him to fully commit to recovery. 🛠️ Sobriety Tools: Johnny highlights the importance of daily meetings, meditation, gratitude lists, and building authentic connections as essential tools in his recovery. 🌿 Sober Gay Adventures in 2025: Johnny shares upcoming travel experiences including: London to Paris : Iconic city exploration with day trips to Stonehenge and Mont-Saint-Michel. Italy Tour : Rome, Florence, Venice with immersive food tours and Tuscany day trips. Crete, Greece Retreat : A yoga and meditation retreat with daily excursions, evening sharing circles, and themed celebrations. Connect with Johnny 🔗 Website: sobergayadventures.com 📸 Instagram: @sobergayadventures 📘 Facebook: Sober Gay Adventures Stay Connected with gAy A 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @gAyApodcast 💌 Want to share your story or ask a question? Send a DM on Instagram or visit sobersteve.com to guest or connect! 🎧 New episodes every Thursday! Until next time, stay sober, friends! 🌈✨ Support the show…

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Stay Strong, Do Good, Be Brave ft. Adam S 19:53

منذ 8 weeks19:53

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Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, today I’m joined by Adam Schuler , a writer and advocate for addiction recovery, who shares his powerful journey through relapse, resilience, and ultimately rediscovering joy in sobriety. Adam gets candid about: ✨ The role of relapse in his recovery journey —and why it's not a failure, but a teacher ✨ How connection & community helped him finally break free from addiction ✨ The unexpected realization that changed his recovery: joy matters ✨ His approach to structure, accountability, and rebuilding a sober life ✨ How writing became his creative outlet and a tool for healing Plus, we talk about his new book, Trudge: The Road to Happy Destiny 📖, a collection of parables, prose, and meditations on addiction and recovery. Resources & Links: 📚 Check out Adam’s book: Trudge: The Road to Happy Destiny ➡️ Available on Amazon (Kindle & Paperback) 📚 Upcoming Memoir: Adam and Everything —Coming March 2024! 📲 Follow Adam on Instagram: @adamschulerwrites 🎧 Listen now & join the conversation! And as always—stay sober, friends. 💖✨ Support the show…

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Aging into Authenticity in Recovery ft. Mark V 25:27

منذ 9 weeks25:27

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Send us a text Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A , I’m joined by returning guest and podcast favorite, Mark, as we dive into the transformative power of sobriety and how it’s helped him embrace his authentic queer self. From growing up in a Catholic family with strict gender norms to navigating the complexities of being openly gay in the workplace, Mark shares his journey of self-discovery, healing, and unapologetically owning his queerness—brooches, skirts, and all! We also discuss: 🌈 Reconnecting with queerness after decades of societal and self-imposed barriers 🌟 How sobriety teaches us to relearn lessons we’ve forgotten 💔 The impact of loss on sobriety and self-growth 💪 Why authenticity is a practice, not a destination Whether you’re navigating your own queer identity, seeking inspiration to live authentically, or just here for Mark’s fabulousness, this episode is a must-listen! Connect with Mark: Follow him on Instagram: @HeyMarko8 Join the Conversation: 🌟 What steps have you taken to live your most authentic self? 🌟 How has sobriety helped you reconnect with your identity? Let us know! Email us or connect on socials @GayAPodcast. Don’t Miss Out! Follow Gay A wherever you listen to podcasts for new episodes every Thursday! #GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #LivingAuthentically #LGBTQRecovery #SobrietyJourney #QueerCommunity #SoberLife Support the show…

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Sober Holiday Tips and Tricks from the Vault 24:57

منذ 12 weeks24:57

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Send us a text In this episode of gAy A , your queer sober hero show, I’m sharing holiday tips and tricks to help you navigate the festive season while staying sober. Whether you’re celebrating your first holiday in recovery or just looking for a little extra support, this episode dives into advice from listeners and my own experience on avoiding triggers, setting boundaries, and thriving through the season. I’m also celebrating 1300 days of continuous sobriety and reflecting on the tools and community that have helped me along the way. If the holidays feel overwhelming, you’re not alone, and we’ve got you covered! Episode Highlights: Why the Holidays Are Challenging for Sobriety: Unrealistic expectations for joy and happiness can amplify feelings of isolation. Family dynamics and alcohol-heavy work events can be major triggers. Reflection on the past year may bring up both positive and difficult emotions. Listener Advice for Staying Sober: “If you feel stressed or tempted, just leave. You always have a way out.” – Laura “Avoid triggers at all costs. Prepare mentally for difficult situations.” – J Dusty Grimes “Sobriety is the best gift you’ll ever receive. Stay humble and grateful.” – Charlie Gray Practical Sobriety Tips: Use HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) to avoid emotional pitfalls. Set boundaries for yourself and plan an exit strategy for challenging events. Lean on sober support systems like meetings, literature, or sobriety podcasts. Focus on mindfulness and breathing exercises to manage stress in real-time. My Reflections on Celebrating Without Alcohol: Learning to embrace sobriety as a gift. How recovery tools and planning have helped me navigate triggers. The joy of celebrating milestones and holidays sober and authentically. Want to Share Your Story? I’d love to feature you on the show in the new year! Send me an email at gayapodcast@gmail.com or DM me on social media @gayapodcast to share your experiences with sobriety and recovery. Thank You for Listening! Thank you for tuning in to gAy A . Wishing you a safe, happy, and sober holiday season. I’ll be taking a short break over the holidays but will return with fresh episodes in the new year. Until then, stay safe, stay grounded, and most importantly— stay sober, friends. Support the show…

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Still Fucked and Insane ft. Scott G 41:42

منذ 13 weeks41:42

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Send us a text In this episode, originally released on April 22nd, 2022, Steve welcomes Scott to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Scott on Instagram @scotttgrasso and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out their website: https://www.scottgrasso.com/ Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show…

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Addiction and Zodiac Signs Revisited 12:17

منذ 14 weeks12:17

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Send us a text Episode Description: Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A , I’m diving back into the vault to revisit one of my earliest episodes on astrology and addiction. Originally recorded at just 105 days sober, this episode explores how our zodiac signs might influence our relationship with alcohol. But that’s not all—I'm adding fresh insights and exploring a new article on zodiac signs and their connections to other addictive tendencies. Whether you’re a Leo who loves to splurge (looking at you, Amazon cart), or a Pisces drawn to emotional escapism, there's something here for everyone. So, does your sign align with your past or present tendencies? Let's break it down together! What’s Next? ✨ Listen to the full episode and share your thoughts on how your zodiac sign aligns with your past habits. ✨ Join the conversation: Email me, text the show, or connect on socials @GayAPodcast. ✨ Don’t forget to follow Gay A for weekly episodes every Thursday! Resources Mentioned: Original Zodiac and Alcohol Article New Zodiac and Addiction Article #GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #AstrologyAndAddiction #ZodiacSigns #SoberCurious #LGBTQRecovery #SoberJourney #AddictionRecovery Support the show…

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Sober, Queer, & Kinky ft. Ralf: Embracing Recovery and Authenticity 24:57

منذ 15 weeks24:57

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Send us a text Sober Steve is joined by Ralf Rasmussen, host of RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! Ralf shares his journey from addiction to seven years of sobriety, delving into the challenges and triumphs of navigating the intersection of recovery, kink, and queer identity. We discuss: 🌈 The power of embracing authentic queer identity in sobriety. 🖤 Ralf’s journey through addiction, recovery, and reclaiming his kink life without substances. 🎤 How creating a podcast and a sober kink community became pillars of his recovery. 💡 Insights on navigating mental health and ADHD in recovery. Whether you’re curious about sober kink, need inspiration for your recovery journey, or want to hear from someone living their truth, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and hope. Guest Info: Find Ralf’s podcast, Real Clear Fetish Talks , on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. Follow him on social media @realclearfetish or email at realclearfetish@gmail.com. What’s Next? Hit play to hear Ralf’s inspiring journey! Don’t forget to follow gAy A for weekly episodes, and leave a review to help other sober queer heroes find us. #GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #SoberKink #RecoveryJourney #RealClearFetish #LGBTQRecovery #SoberHeroes Photo of Ralf by @joshidotphoto Support the show…

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Steve on RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! 54:03

منذ 16 weeks54:03

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Send us a text Check out my guest appearance on RealClearTalk this week, and check out the show wherever you find this podcast!! Show notes from the episode: Steve B has been sober since May 28th, 2021, and is the host of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show. Having isolating during his drinking, he has only begun embracing his interests in leather, fetish, and kink in sobriety- something he believes is necessary for him in order to live a full, happy, and sober life. He is forever grateful for his sober family, his podcasting community, and kinksters like you! #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: @gayapodcast Instagram: @juststevesrq All podcast platforms: gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 17th October 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q0aY-8QvW6U Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show…

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Stay Connected, Stay Sober ft. Richard D 24:40

منذ 17 weeks24:40

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Send us a text In this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show , host Sober Steve welcomes Richard Dean, a fellow sober friend, to share his inspiring journey through addiction, recovery, and the exploration of codependence. Richard opens up about the challenges he faced in early sobriety, the lessons he learned from relapse, and the powerful transformation he experienced through programs like Alcoholics Anonymous and Codependents Anonymous. Together, they discuss the unique aspects of queer sobriety, the importance of finding balance in relationships, and the pivotal role of fellowship in maintaining sobriety. Topics Covered: Richard’s journey from addiction to recovery, including relapses and the turning points that inspired lasting change. Navigating queer identity in sobriety and the importance of community connection. The impact of codependency in relationships and how Codependents Anonymous helped Richard find balance. Staying close to program practices, the role of daily routines, and how meditation, prayer, and fellowship play into Richard’s recovery. Richard’s advice on staying connected and finding joy in the present, along with embracing authenticity and freedom in life. What's Next? Hear the full episode to dive into Richard’s story and gain valuable insights into navigating recovery and codependence as part of the queer sober community. Make sure to follow Gay A on your favorite podcast platform to catch new episodes every Thursday! Follow Richard Dean: Instagram: @richarddean326 Support the show…

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Blank Spaces, Brave Faces, and Swift Steps ft. Julianne Griffin 20:50

منذ 18 weeks20:50

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Send us a text In this episode of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show , Sober Steve welcomes back Julianne Griffin, aka Jewels, the founder of Swift Steps—a unique sober community for Swifties in recovery. They dive deep into the therapeutic power of journaling, finding balance in sobriety, and the challenges of staying accountable in recovery. Jules shares how the love for Taylor Swift’s music, lyrics, and journey has become a powerful anchor for Swift Steps members to connect, support each other, and grow. What’s Covered in This Episode: Swift Steps 101 : For those unfamiliar with Swift Steps, Jules provides an overview of this inspiring recovery community for Swifties. Journaling with Taylor : Discover how the Swift Steps course, Blank Spaces and Brave Faces , uses Taylor Swift's music and lyrics as a journaling framework, encouraging members to explore their recovery journeys, release shame, and embrace self-compassion. Personal Growth and Accountability : Jules reflects on the challenges of showing up for herself, balancing self-care with the demands of community leadership, and the importance of support networks in recovery. Navigating Family Triggers : From co-dependency to challenging family relationships, Jules opens up about the struggles of setting boundaries and seeking personal growth within recovery. The Power of Swift Steps Community : Hear how Swift Steps members inspire each other, keep each other accountable, and bring a shared purpose that continues to enrich Jules’ own journey in sobriety. What’s Next? Curious to learn more about Swift Steps or join this vibrant community? Head over to their social media @swiftsteps13 or check out swiftsteps.org to join the mailing list and receive all the details. Tune in for insights, laughs, and a whole lot of Taylor-inspired recovery wisdom, and don’t forget to hit "follow" so you never miss an episode of gAy A ! 🌈✨ Support the show…

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Traveling in Sobriety ft. Frankie 22:17

منذ 19 weeks22:17

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Send us a text Hey there, super sober heroes! 🦸🏽‍♂️ This week on Gay A, Sober Steve is thrilled to welcome back a fan-favorite guest and globetrotter, Frankie New! Steve and Frankie dive into a topic close to Frankie's heart: Traveling in Sobriety. In This Episode: Join Steve and Frankie as they discuss the unique adventures and perspectives that come with sober travel. From finding queer-friendly destinations and the occasional surprise doll museum to embracing the joy of being fully present in each moment, Frankie shares insights on the empowering freedom that sobriety brings to his journeys. Here’s what else to look forward to: 🎒 Sober Travel Tips: How to stay grounded, prioritize safety, and find enjoyment—wherever in the world you are. 🌏 Navigating Different Cultures: Frankie's experiences with queer and sober spaces across continents and why he feels more comfortable than ever traveling solo. 💫 Rediscovering Fun and Connection: How being sober has allowed Frankie to connect more deeply with the places he visits and the people he meets. Follow Frankie on Instagram and TikTok at @FashionQueerHistorian to keep up with his latest journeys and fascinating research! Follow Us Here, and on all the Socials @gAyApodcast Support the show…

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Sobriety, Social Media, and Self Care ft. Jaycee K Clark 19:59

منذ 20 weeks19:59

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Send us a text Hey, Super Sober Heroes! In this episode of gAy A , Sober Steve welcomes back Jaycee K. Clark for a powerful conversation on the impact of social media on mental health and sobriety. With over 1,227 days sober, Steve sits down with Jaycee to discuss how social media plays a dual role in our lives—both as a tool for connection and a source of distraction. Jaycee, who will be one of the keynote speakers at the Here, Queer, Sober event next September, shares personal insights from her recent social media hiatus and how it transformed her recovery and self-care routine. Key Takeaways from the Episode : Social Media Hiatus : Jaycee opens up about taking a break from social media to focus on her mental health and emotional well-being. She highlights the importance of recognizing when social media becomes a distraction and how taking a step back helped her reconnect with herself. The Power of Disconnecting : How disconnecting from the online world can create space for deep emotional healing, self-reflection, and improved mental health in sobriety. Being Intentional : Jaycee emphasizes the need to be intentional with social media use—knowing when to engage, when to take a break, and how to create healthy boundaries. Balancing Creation and Consumption : As someone who uses social media for activism and sobriety advocacy, Jaycee shares tips on balancing content creation and consumption while staying grounded and present. Lessons in Recovery : They dive into the parallels between social media dependency and addiction, discussing how both require self-awareness and personal boundaries to maintain balance. Being Vulnerable and Staying Connected : Jaycee talks about the importance of staying connected with her recovery community, even when offline, and how being open with others about her struggles helps her stay grounded. Key Moments : Jaycee explains how her relationship with social media changed after entering recovery. How taking a break from social media empowered her to focus on her mental health and sobriety. Steve and Jaycee discuss the pros and cons of social media in the recovery space and how to navigate the pressures of being online. Jaycee talks about using social media as a tool for advocacy and sharing her recovery journey out loud. Connect with Jaycee : Follow Jaycee Clark on Instagram: @officialjayceek Resources Mentioned : Here, Queer, Sober event in NYC, September 2024 Stay Connected : Follow us on Instagram: @gAyApodcast Find more resources and episodes at www.sobersteve.com . Tune in Every Thursday : Make sure to hit Follow so you don’t miss new episodes of gAy A every Thursday! If you enjoyed this episode : Please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us reach more people in the LGBTQ+ recovery community. Stay Sober, Friends! Support the show…

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Being "Out" in Sobriety ft. Danielle 24:10

منذ 21 weeks24:10

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Send us a text Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! In today’s episode of gAy A, host Sober Steve (with 1,227 days sober!) welcomes back Danielle—one of our long-time pod family members, to dive into a topic that many in the LGBTQ+ community can relate to: Being “Out” in Sobriety . What you’ll hear in this episode : Danielle reflects on her experiences of coming out in college and how it mirrors her sobriety journey. They discuss the importance of recovering out loud and the impact of living authentically in both your sexuality and your recovery. The connection between vulnerability and community, and how being open helps others feel less alone. Danielle shares how running is part of her self-care routine in sobriety and how she finds both mental and physical health benefits from it. Why it’s so crucial to be present and how sobriety allows Danielle and Steve to fully embrace life’s ups and downs. The societal assumptions about the queer community and sobriety, and how the LGBTQ+ community continues to evolve with more support and visibility. Danielle’s candid and insightful take on being open about sobriety, sexuality, and life is sure to inspire anyone struggling with the idea of coming out in any aspect of their life. The conversation highlights the importance of connection, community, and embracing your authentic self, no matter the fears or challenges you face. Key Moments : Danielle shares her personal story about coming out in college after a tragic event sparked her to live authentically. The parallel between coming out as LGBTQ+ and coming out as sober. The importance of vulnerability and how recovering out loud has helped others start their sobriety journeys. Reflections on how the queer community continues to grow stronger despite challenges. Connect with Danielle : Follow Danielle on Instagram at @DC_and_Rosie (closed account but accepting friends of Steve!) Resources Mentioned : Looking for support in your sobriety journey? Visit www.sobersteve.com for more resources and community connections. Make sure to hit Follow so you don’t miss any of our upcoming episodes, and don’t forget to tune in every Thursday for new content. Follow us on Social Media : Instagram: @gAyApodcast Facebook: gAy A Podcast If you enjoyed this episode : Leave us a rating or review on your favorite podcast platform! Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and grow this amazing community. Stay Sober, Friends! Support the show…

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Sober Support from The Vault (Part Two) 31:49

منذ 22 weeks31:49

31:49

Send us a text In this week’s episode, host Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, continues the dive into gAy A 's archives with Part 2 of "Sober Support from the Vault." After more than 225 episodes, Steve brings back some powerful early interviews that still resonate today. Whether you’re a new listener or a longtime fan, this episode offers a chance to revisit impactful stories from some of gAy A 's earliest guests who continue to make waves in the queer sober community. Featuring clips from early interviews with Charlie Gray, Danielle (Daisy Soul Child), Michael from Happy Without The Hooch , and Scott, this episode is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and inspiration. From exploring how sexuality intersects with addiction to understanding the deep support that the sober community provides, this episode is not one to miss. Key Takeaways : Charlie Gray on Vulnerability : Hear how Charlie used his memoir, At Least I'm Not a Frog , to be open and raw about his darkest moments, and why he believes it’s important to be honest about the "dirty" parts of addiction to help others feel less alone. Danielle (Daisy Soul Child) : In this clip, Danielle talks about coming out as a lesbian in the Black community and how hiding her true identity played a role in her addiction. She offers powerful advice on how accepting and loving yourself can be a key to recovery. Michael from Happy Without The Hooch : Michael shares how being gay impacted his relationship with alcohol, especially in a world where LGBT socializing often revolves around bars. He also reveals how he found new ways to build community and connection in sobriety. Scott's Legacy : In one of the most poignant clips of the episode, Steve reflects on Scott, a friend and fellow member of his home group who passed away sober. Scott’s wisdom and dedication to sobriety, despite life’s challenges, continues to inspire Steve and the gAy A community. Follow Us : Follow gAy A wherever you’re listening to make sure you never miss an episode—new episodes every Thursday! **Where to Find Us:** Me: - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ - Charlie Gray on Amazon Books - Charlie's Instagram 🔴 - Danielle's IG 🟢 - Michael on IG 🟢 Support the show…

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Sober Support from The Vault (Part One) 26:34

منذ 23 weeks26:34

26:34

Send us a text In this exciting two-part special, gAy A is diving into the archives! Host Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, takes you on a journey back to some of the earliest episodes of the show. With over 225 episodes and more than three years of content, it’s easy to miss some of the incredible stories shared by guests who have since become part of the gAy A family. So, Steve has pulled some of the best clips from his first solo episode, as well as his initial interviews with Joey, Gabriel, and Kristen, to revisit their early sobriety journeys. Listen in as Steve reflects on the growth of both the podcast and his own recovery, and enjoy hearing how these early guests have continued to thrive in their own sober lives. From navigating LGBTQIA+ sober living, to the impact of social media on recovery, to powerful insights on sexuality and sobriety, this episode is packed with wisdom, growth, and inspiration. Key Takeaways : Steve's Early Sobriety : Hear Steve’s raw and vulnerable story from his very first solo episode, where he talks about the end of his drinking career, how the pandemic impacted his addiction, and finding his way in recovery through LGBT+ Zoom meetings. Joey from Rainbow Hill : Revisit Joey’s first appearance on gAy A where he discusses the inspiration behind Rainbow Hill Sober Living and his tips for staying humble, cutting out toxic people, and staying accountable in recovery. Gabriel on Social Media and Sobriety : Gabriel shares how social media played a crucial role in his sobriety, offering connection and community, especially during the isolating days of the pandemic. Kristen on Gender Identity and Sobriety : Kristen, a non-binary member of the gAy A family, reflects on how their gender identity and sexuality impacted their addiction, and offers powerful advice for those navigating life, addiction, and recovery. Follow Us : Follow Steve on Instagram @GayAPodcast for updates, and don’t forget to subscribe wherever you’re listening so you get new episodes every Thursday **Where to Find Us:** Me: - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Joey: - Rainbow Hill Recovery 🏣 - Rainbow Hill Sober Living 🏡 - Totally Sober 🔴 - Joey’s IG 🟢 Gabriel: - Gabriel on IG 🟢 Support the show…

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Surviving Socializing Sober ft. Savanna 27:20

منذ 24 weeks27:20

27:20

Send us a text In this week’s episode of gAy A , Sober Steve the Podcast Guy sits down with his long-time sober sibling, Savannah. With 1,215 days sober for Steve and 1,365 days for Savannah, they share an honest conversation about surviving the challenges of sobriety—especially in a world where alcohol seems to be everywhere. From navigating social events and mocktails to processing personal triggers and using sobriety tools, this episode is packed with wisdom for anyone looking to go from simply surviving to truly thriving in sobriety. Key Takeaways : Surviving a World Full of Alcohol : Savannah and Steve discuss how they handle being surrounded by alcohol in everyday spaces—from grocery stores to Pride events—and how to stay grounded in sobriety. Tools for Thriving : Savannah shares how she stays strong in her recovery through the use of meetings, staying connected with her sober network, and never being afraid to ask for help. Triggers and Emotions : From dealing with life stressors like school and mental health to handling unexpected emotions, Savannah opens up about how she copes without turning to alcohol. Mocktails and Boundaries : Savannah shares a personal story about a mocktail mishap and gives advice on how to navigate the world of non-alcoholic drinks safely and confidently. Going From Surviving to Thriving : Tips for transitioning from just getting by in sobriety to embracing life fully—staying focused, working the program, and sharing openly in meetings. Connect with us! Don’t miss this empowering episode of gAy A ! Follow/Subscribe now wherever you listen for new episodes every Thursday! Follow Us - Savanna on Tik-Tok - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show…

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AI on Sobriety & Queerness: Steve interviews ChatGPT 27:06

منذ 25 weeks27:06

27:06

Send us a text In this exciting and unconventional episode of gAy A, Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, puts AI to the test! Can AI really understand the intersections of queerness and sobriety? Steve and ChatGPT dive into some of the most powerful themes shared by LGBTQIA+ individuals in recovery, exploring how technology can shed light on these deep, personal experiences. Plus, can you tell the difference between AI Steve and Real Steve? Tune in and find out! Key Takeaways: •Can AI Relate?: How AI reflects on the shared queer and sober experiences and the common challenges we face. •What’s Your Favorite Part of Being Sober?: Steve and ChatGPT discuss authenticity, self-acceptance, and the incredible connections formed in sobriety. •How Do Queerness and Sobriety Intersect?: A deep dive into how living authentically and staying sober are connected journeys. •AI’s Survival Guide for the First 90 Days: Practical tips on how to get through early sobriety and why support networks matter more than ever. •Can You Tell the Difference?: Steve challenges you—can you spot when it’s AI Steve talking? What's Next? Scroll up and text the show with what you thought of this episode! Also, ... - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Follow this show wherever you are listening for new episodes every Thursday morning! Support the show…

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Competitions in Sobriety ft. Chad 23:19

منذ 26 weeks23:19

23:19

Send us a text In this week's episode, host Steve, celebrating 1,202 days of sobriety, welcomes back Chad to continue their conversation on sobriety, fitness, and competition after bonding at OutSport's OutVivor event. Chad shares his experiences in various competitions, from marathons to soccer, and how pushing his limits has been a crucial part of his sober journey. He also provides insights into balancing fitness, fun, and personal growth while staying connected to recovery. The conversation delves into both solo and team competitions, how sobriety has transformed their approach to challenges, and the importance of a balanced social life inside and outside of recovery. Chad also reflects on his journey through sports leagues, OutVivor, and the growth he’s experienced from taking part in these events. Key Takeaways: Chad shares how competing against himself, rather than others, fuels his drive. Steve reflects on how pushing his limits in sobriety has transformed his relationship with fitness and competition. The importance of balance: staying active in both recovery and personal fitness goals. Chad's experiences with group sports, including joining sober leagues, and later expanding his circle in non-sober environments. The parallels between training for marathons and staying sober, focusing on taking things one step at a time. Advice for anyone interested in trying a new challenge like a marathon, sports league, or competition. If you’re curious about pushing your limits in sobriety, join Steve and Chad as they explore how competing can be a powerful tool for personal growth. What's Next? Follow Us! - Chad on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Follow this show wherever you are listening for new episodes every Thursday morning! Support the show…

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Be True to Yourself ft. Chad R 16:07

منذ 27 weeks16:07

16:07

Send us a text Host Steve celebrates 1,195 days of sobriety and welcomes Chad to share his powerful journey. Together, we explore the importance of self-discovery, overcoming toxic relationships, and building a life rooted in recovery and community. Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,195 days sober and introduces Chad to the show. Starting Early: Chad’s journey to sobriety and the struggles he faced along the way. Overcoming Challenges: From toxic relationships to personal growth, Chad opens up about the hardships he conquered in early recovery. Community & Transformation: Chad’s experiences in sober community activities and how they’ve shaped his recovery. Advice for Newcomers: Chad offers valuable insights and advice for those in early recovery or facing challenges. Looking Ahead: A teaser for a follow-up discussion on competing in fun events in sobriety. Tune in next episode for part two, where we discuss participating in competitions sober. - Chad on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show…

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Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families ft. Melinda 23:55

منذ 28 weeks23:55

23:55

Send us a text In this episode, Sober Steve celebrates 1,186 days of sobriety and welcomes Melinda Dixon, the first member from Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families (ACA) to join the show. Melinda shares her powerful journey toward emotional sobriety, shedding light on how ACA has profoundly shaped her life. The conversation explores the importance of emotional regulation through human connection, the power of community, and the impact of understanding one's core wounds on maintaining healthy relationships. Steve and Melinda also discuss the evolution of their queer identities in sobriety and the pride they’ve found in their unique personal journeys. - Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,186 days of sobriety and introduces Melinda as the first ACA guest. - Emotional Sobriety: Melinda’s journey to emotional regulation through connection and ACA meetings. - Understanding Core Wounds: How this understanding has helped Melinda establish healthy boundaries and relationships. - Queer Identity in Sobriety: The pride Steve and Melinda have found in their unique queer identities within and apart from the LGBT+ community. - Self-Care Practices: Exploring the role of gratitude lists, exercise, and fine dining in maintaining recovery. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation on emotional sobriety, queer identity, and personal growth in recovery, and leave a rating and review to pay it forward for the next person who might find the show! **Where to Find Us:** - More Information on ACA - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Email Melinda at: melindadixonpbc@gmail.com Support the show…

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Leather and Kink in Sobriety ft. Dale 18:39

منذ 29 weeks18:39

18:39

Send us a text Steve welcomes back Dale for part two of their interview to discuss their experiences exploring and embracing leather and kink after entering recovery. Warning- this episode is *very* sexually explicit! Opening Discussion: "How do YOU celebrate your birthdays in recovery?" Topics discussed include Our experiences (or lack thereof) with leather and kink before entering recovery. Unpacking and getting in touch with our kinks and fetishes in sobriety and step work. Ways the Leather and Kink community and Sober communities intersect, both socially and with their principles of safe, sane, and consensual fun. The importance of communication in sobriety and in leather and kink. Suggestions for getting started if you are new to leather and kink in recovery. And much more!! **Where to Find Us:** - Dale on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show…

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You Are Not Alone ft. Dale W 29:38

منذ 30 weeks29:38

29:38

Send us a text Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,172 days of sobriety and introduces Dale W., who is 205 days back in sobriety, sharing his powerful journey in this first part of a two-part episode. Dale opens up about his struggles with meth addiction, the isolation he faced, and the joy he found in building connections within the queer community. The conversation delves into overcoming emotional hurdles, finding acceptance, and the critical role of honesty in sobriety. Together, Steve and Dale explore the importance of authentic connections and offer a glimpse into their shared experiences within sober kink communities, which they’ll discuss more in the next episode. - Dale's Journey: From meth addiction and isolation to finding community and recovery. - Overcoming Emotional Hurdles: The challenges Dale faced and how he overcame them. - Building Authentic Connections: The importance of honesty and community in sobriety. - Sneak Peek: A preview of their upcoming discussion on sober kink communities. **Where to Find Us:** - Dale on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show…

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Turning Your Mess Into Your Message ft. Jaycee K. Clark 21:34

منذ 31 weeks21:34

21:34

Send us a text Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their support, highlighting the new fan mail option before welcoming Jaycee K. Clark, a 34-year-old trans woman, to share her experience, strength, and hope, along with her inspiration for activism today. Jaycee discusses her past struggles with addiction, her experiences in sex work, and her journey to sobriety. She emphasizes the importance of building connections, overcoming shame, and transforming past traumas into a source of hope and activism. Jaycee also talks about her experiences navigating healthcare and dental work as a recovering addict, offering valuable advice for newcomers on the impermanence of emotions. - **Celebrating Sobriety:** Steve marks 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their engagement. - **Listener Impact:** Nick made history as my first text fan mail! - **Jaycee's Story:** Her journey from addiction to recovery and activism. - **Overcoming Shame:** Turning past traumas into hope and activism. - **Navigating Healthcare:** Insights into managing healthcare as a recovering addict. - **Advice for Newcomers:** The importance of understanding that emotions are temporary. **Where to Find Us:** - Jaycee on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ PHOTOGRAPHER CREDIT: Ismael Rodriguez www.ismaelphoto.com @el_ismaelrodriguez Stay sober, friends! Support the show…

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The Sober Unicorn ft. Holden 25:16

منذ 32 weeks25:16

25:16

Send us a text In this episode, Sober Steve welcomes Holden, host of The Sober Unicorn podcast and author of 'Hold'N It Down'. Holden shares his journey from addiction to recovery, the impact of his memoir, and the growth he's experienced. They discuss the importance of connection in sobriety and offer advice for those new to recovery. Don't forget to leave a five-star review to help others find this podcast! **Where to Find Us:** - Holden on Instagram 🟢 - Holding It Down- Free with Kindle Unlimited! - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show…

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Day Counting in Early Recovery ft. Drake 25:13

منذ 33 weeks25:13

25:13

Send us a text In this episode of the 'gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show,' Sober Steve interviews Drake G, who shares his remarkable journey of early sobriety and his transformative experiences within the queer and recovery communities. Drake discusses his past struggles with addiction, mental health, and his path to recovery, emphasizing the importance of community and support in his newfound sobriety. 00:00 Updates and Gratitude 01:53 Meet Drake: Early Sobriety Journey 03:42 Drake's Struggles with Addiction 09:48 Turning Point and Recovery 13:12 Life After Rehab 18:51 Future Plans and Final Thoughts **Where to Find Us:** - Drake on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show…

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