277: The Secret to Thriving Relationships: Boundaries, Healing, and Connection with Simone Heng

The Brave Table with Dr. Neeta Bhushan

Welcome back to The Brave Table, lovelies! Today’s episode is for anyone who’s ever felt the sting of a friendship breakup or the pull to step into a new version of themselves while navigating the complexities of relationships. I’m joined by none other than my beautiful friend, Simone Heng, author of Let's Talk About Loneliness and The Secret Pandemic.

Simone is a human connection specialist, a former international broadcaster, and a powerhouse speaker. Together, we dive deep into the often-untold story of friendship breakups, how boundaries change everything after 40, and why true connection is the ultimate antidote to loneliness. If you’ve ever wondered if your relationships are in alignment or felt the pull to honor your boundaries unapologetically, this episode is for YOU! Get cozy, grab your tea (or wine!), and let's be brave together.

What you'll get out of this episode…

As you age, you'll care less about others' opinions and confidently honor your boundaries.

Friendship breakups are painful but open the door to more aligned connections.

True connection conquers loneliness, thriving in deep, authentic relationships over superficial ones.

Cultural differences shape us, but connection is universally vital.

Healing begins with awareness of your needs and boundaries, whether in family, friendships, or personal growth.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Intro: Catching up with Simone Heng

04:30 – The “Ice Queen” Era: Why setting boundaries in your 40s is life-changing

12:45 – Friendship Breakups: How to heal and grow from loss

23:00 – Connection Science: The profound impact of feeling "seen" in society

36:15 – Navigating Family Dynamics: Boundaries and sisterhood

45:00 – Loneliness vs. Negative Connections: Which is worse?

51:30 – The Power of Relieving Cognitive Load in Communities

56:00 – Final Thoughts: Embracing your power, friendships, and self-alignment

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Dr. Neeta Bhushan is a 5x Award Winning Author & world-renowned emotional health advocate & human connection expert. She’s written multiple best-selling books including her most recent book, That Sucked, Now What endorsed by Jay Shetty, Host of the Top 50 Mental Health Podcast The Brave Table, & CEO of Highest Self Institute, a coaching organization training coaches to become the highest versions of themselves. She’s been featured on Forbes, LA Weekly, ABC, NBC, CBS, Grazia, Ok! Magazine, Verve Magazine & Tatler.

After realizing how trapped she felt running the million-dollar dental practice she built, Neeta embarked on a journey that led her across 45 countries as she researched blending the intersection of human behavior, ancient wisdom, Eastern philosophy, and therapeutic psychology. That knowledge, along with other life experiences overcoming multiple adversities, which include being orphaned at a young age, surviving an abusive marriage, and extensive loss, contributed to the powerful message of resilience & connection she shares in her work. Neeta is a mother of two young children, wellness junkie & lover of chai.