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Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment is the podcast for people who are still struggling with overthinking, anxious attachment patterns, or chasing unavailable partners...even though you understand the theory. With a lifetime of personal experience and over 15 years of professional experience, I (Carly Ann) am here to help you move beyond just knowing the logic of attachment and actually start applying it to create real change. You should know, my podcast isn’t about getting your ex back or making ...
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Top 10% Podcast for Women Ready to Break Toxic Relationship Cycles & Attract Aligned, Healthy Love You’re successful in many areas of your life… but when it comes to love, you keep hitting the same painful wall. You give so much, but it’s never enough. You’ve attracted emotionally unavailable partners. You feel stuck in a cycle of heartbreak, anxiety, or loneliness—and you’re quietly wondering if it’s just easier to be single… even though your heart craves more. Lovely one, if that sounds fa ...
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Send us a text If you’ve ever promised yourself “this time will be different” only to end up back in the same cycle... the same relationship problems, the same habits, the same procrastination - this episode is for you. Carly Ann breaks down the key areas to focus on if you actually want to create change that lasts. She shares therapy insights that…
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Send us a text Do you have feeling you are made for more? Do you see yourself repeating the same cycles and pattern even though you KNOW it’s not meant for you. You may or may not be aware of your thoughts… especially negative thoughts. In this podcast, I am talking about the beliefs that pull you back, keep you in a loop, and drive anxiety/low moo…
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Send us a text Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a proven approach that helps you stop fighting your thoughts and feelings, make peace with what you can’t control, and start living a life guided by what truly matters to you This episode is for those of you who feel like life just isn’t going your way right now. Maybe you’re stuck in overth…
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Send us a text Ever wonder how elite athletes stay consistent, how top business leaders keep showing up, or why your favourite podcast hosts seem to have it all together? It’s not just willpower, so many of them use mental training & visualisation. Visualisation is a powerful mental technique - one of the most underrated tools for building habits t…
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Send us a text Do you have an abandonment wound? Or are you questioning if you have one? An abandonment wound can affect your daily life in very subtle ways. An abandonment wound is usually the result of past experiences and it can hugely impact your life today, as an adult. The question is, how does your abandonment wound show up in your daily lif…
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Send us a text WATCH ON YOUTUBE This workshop is sponsored by my signature 6-week course, Becoming Secure. It does exactly what it says on the tin... it helps you move from feeling insecure, lost, or anxious, to feeling grounded, confident, and secure. It’s six weeks to rediscovering yourself..and right now there’s a special early bird offer availa…
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Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) Part 5: If you struggle with anxiety, anxious attachment, and your mood - it is very possible you are living by hidden rules and inner guidelines without even realising it. Rules like “I must always please others” “I need to be chosen” or “I have to get it right or I’ll be on my own” can leave you f…
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Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) Part 4 If you’ve ever noticed that your anxiety or low mood is tangled up with self-esteem, this episode is a must-listen (or must-watch). There are sneaky thoughts and beliefs holding you back, keeping you stuck in self-criticism, stopping you from feeling confident, and blocking you from being you…
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Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) Today's bitesize episode is for those of you that prefer a real exercise compared to theory and ideas. Rules for Living help you live a life where you feel OK, so long as those rules are met. The second they are not, that's when you spiral. E.G. If you believe you should make everyone happy, you wil…
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Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP (Breaking The Rules) PART 2: Rules That Lead to ANXIETY In today's bitesize episode I am sharing with you a key reason why you fall into panic, worry, & obsessing at certain times in your life. There is something that triggers this cycle and knowing about it has truly changed my life and how I manage my mood and thought…
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Send us a text In this mini episode Carly Ann introduces a popular concept (Rules for Living) that is discussed in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Rules for living are influenced by your own negative core beliefs and they actually maintain low self-esteem, anxiety, low mood, and self doubt It is when your rule for living is broken that you spiral in…
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Send us a text Have you heard of limerence? The longing, obsessing, and thinking about someone you like. In this episode Carly Ann talk about what limerence is, what keeps you hooked on them (why you can't let go). What makes this different to any other episode? I talk about the fact that logically you do know better. You have read the books and yo…
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Send us a text Brand New Free Workshop HERE These are not your usual affirmations. In this video, you won’t just repeat words, you’ll be guided to see, feel, and imagine the outcome as if it’s already real. This combination of affirmations and guided imagery creates a powerful shift in your mind and body, making it easier to attract what you desire…
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Send us a text You know the logic. You know what you should do. And yet… you keep repeating the same patterns. Why? In this video, I break down what’s really going on beneath the surface when logic and self-awareness aren’t enough to create change. You've read the books, done the work, and yet you keep defaulting to old patterns. You chase people, …
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Send us a text TRY THIS: 5 Steps That Will Help You Overcome Your Biggest Fears Fear can feel like it’s running the show.. keeping you stuck, small, and second-guessing every move. But what if you could face those fears head-on and finally stop letting them control your life? In this episode, I’m sharing five powerful, practical steps that will hel…
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Send us a text If your body feels like it’s either buzzing with anxiety or completely shut down, you’re not alone. In this mini training, Carly Ann explores how physical sensations like overwhelm, tension, or numbness can keep you stuck in the same painful cycles. You’ll learn why your body reacts the way it does, how these sensations maintain anxi…
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Send us a text Did you know your behaviours influence so much of how you feel and what you do? In this training, Carly Ann is sharing one powerful question that can help you shift your actions, align with your values, and become the version of you that you actually desire to be. Whether you’re stuck in old patterns or ready to take that next step f…
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Send us a text In this episode, we explore the power of emotions - how they show up, how they influence what we do, and why managing them matters so much, especially when you don’t feel good enough. You’ll hear insights on how emotions can hijack your thoughts and actions, and simple ways to work with them instead of against them. If you’re ready t…
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Send us a text Welcome to Day 3 of Becoming Unstuck – today is all about your thoughts. If you ever feel owned by your mind, trapped in spirals of overthinking, self-doubt, or fear, this episode is yours. If you know you have negative thoughts that move you away from who you want to be - listen now or save for later! Carly Ann shares a brilliant, p…
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Send us a text Triggered? Feeling stuck in the same painful loops? Rejected, blamed, out of control? Whether it is a specific person or a song on the radio, your triggers aren’t the enemy.. they’re the message. If you keep spiralling in love or life, this training is part of your RESET! ✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and bre…
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Send us a text Training 1/6 - Becoming Unstuck Stuck in anxious loops or reacting in ways that don’t feel like you? This powerful exercise will help you take a first step in moving TOWRDS the life and love your desire and how to shift. You’ll learn how to spot the moment you’re at a choice point, and how to move towards the secure, grounded version…
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Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/free-btc-workshop This meditation is your emergency pause button when you need to soothe and regulate right now. To help with the spiral, the overwhelm, the noise in your head - this 5 minute audio will bring you back. Back into your body. Back into the present. Back into safety. Whether …
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Send us a text If you’ve ever been stuck in a worry spiral...the kind that hijacks your mind, interrupts your sleep, and makes you question everything (non stop)..this episode is for you. I was in one recently. And while I didn’t fix it overnight, I found something that helped in the middle of it. This isn’t a neat “5 steps to stop overthinking” ep…
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Send us a text We all fall into patterns – but some of them silently chip away at our self-worth. In today’s episode, Carly Ann is uncovering the sneaky habits and thought loops that keep you stuck in low self-esteem and anxiety. These are 3 common patterns that damage your self-worth if left ignored. In this episode you will receive practical, pow…
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Send us a text Ready for a powerful mid-year reset? This guided manifestation meditation is designed to help you get back on track, reconnect with your goals, and start attracting the life you truly desire. It will guide you to cut ties with what does not serve you and call in what you desire Whether you're manifesting love, success, confidence, or…
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Send us a text Do you you keep going back to the good times with someone who’s no longer in your life? Whether that’s an ex, a situationship, or something that never fully got off the ground. In this episode of Lessons in Attachment, Carly Ann (therapist & coach helping you heal anxious attachment) breaks down the real psychological reasons why we …
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Send us a text A Radical Acceptance Practice If you have anxious attachment, you may find yourself stuck in the highlight reel of your relationship - that means replaying the good times over and over, wondering what went wrong, and blaming yourself when the present doesn’t match up This gentle, guided exercise is designed to help you practice radic…
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Send us a text Your inner critic knows exactly when to strike, and if you can be ready for it - you can stop it in its tracks! In this episode, Carly Ann shares the common moments where self-criticism hits hardest, especially for those with anxious attachment, low self-worth, or a constant fear of not being good enough. Plus stay tuned because you …
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Send us a text A motivational episode - consider it your personal pep talk to manage your inner critic and give you a confidence boost. Carly Ann is here to help if you’ve got something coming up that’s making you nervous. Whether it’s a date, a job interview, a boundary to set, or a tough conversation, this episode will help settle your mind and l…
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Send us a text For Low Self-Esteem Do you ever feel like you’re not good enough no matter how hard you try? Do you second-guess your worth, wonder if you’re truly lovable, or compare yourself to everyone around you? If your confidence feels fragile and your inner critic is running the show, this episode is for you. In this episode, Carly Ann shares…
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Ever wondered why your breakup hurt so much — even when they weren’t right for you? In this episode, we explore the real reason behind your pain: the unmet childhood needs that confuse safety with love. You were never "not enough" — and this shift will set you free. What if the pain of your breakup isn’t really about them at all? What if it’s about…
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Send us a text This self-esteem reset meditation is for you if you struggle with self-worth, overthinking, people-pleasing, or anxious attachment. In just 6 minutes, you'll be guided through a calming, healing experience to: Let go of self-doubt and critical inner talk Reconnect with your inner strength and self-belief Start feeling good enough as …
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Send us a text Do you find yourself constantly preparing for the worst? Playing out disaster scenarios in your head? Comparing yourself to others and feeling like you’re always coming up short? In today’s episode, we’re diving into a sneaky but powerful habit many of us don’t even realise we’re stuck in, the automatic pull toward the negative. Whet…
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Send us a text You know they’re not right for you. You know you deserve better. You know the anxious spiral is hurting you. So why does it still feel like your heart hasn’t caught up with your head? In this episode, Carly Ann is diving into the frustrating phenomenon known as head-heart lag...That all-too-familiar space where your logic is crystal …
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Thinking about saying yes to a friends with benefits (FWB) situation - but worried you might catch deeper feelings? It’s a valid fear - especially if you’ve ever struggled with anxious attachment, emotional vulnerability, or are still healing from heartbreak. In this episode, I walk you through how to stay grounded, emotionally safe, and in alignme…
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Send us a text Struggling with anxious attachment? Always asking “Do you still love me?” or “Are you sure you’re not leaving?” even when you know the answer won’t help for long? In this episode, Carly Ann unpacks why anxious attachers seek constant reassurance, how it keeps you stuck in a loop, and why your nervous system never quite feels safe. If…
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Send us a text WATCH THE FREE WORKSHOP JOIN STUCK TO SECURE BEFORE JUNE 1ST Everything seems fine… but you still feel stuck or lost? Or maybe you know you’ve fallen into that pattern again - the overthinking, obsessing, clinging, second-guessing, unsure how to get out. This episode is for the anxious attachers who keep finding themselves here: thin…
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Send us a text WATCH THE FREE WORKSHOP JOIN STUCK TO SECURE BEFORE JUNE 1ST Struggling with feeling panicky or desperate when you think someone you love is pulling away? Do you find yourself turning into a version of yourself you barely recognise - anxious, overwhelmed, even irrational…whenever you fear abandonment or rejection? If you’re tired of …
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Sometimes we’re just not in the mood to be our most loving self - how very 'normal human’ of us. BUT, if you find yourself thinking and acting in these negative ways more often than not, it means you’ve adopted a mindset that just isn’t truly serving you. Tune in to this episode to take a deep dive into 4 narcissistic tendencies that we all do - an…
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Send us a text WATCH THE FREE WORKSHOP JOIN STUCK TO SECURE BEFORE JUNE 1ST Struggling with relationship anxiety/anxious attachment? Feeling like you are struggling with self-worth and showing up as your true self? Today, I am sharing 2 common patterns that actually keep you stuck in a cycle of insecurity, fear of rejection, and low self esteem. If…
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Send us a text EXAMPLE ANXIOUS CYCLE WATCH THE WORKSHOP JOIN STUCK TO SECURE DOCUMENT WITH TOOLS TO INTERRUPT THE CYCLE If you know you're stuck in an anxious cycle, like overthinking, chasing, second-guessing, or feeling like you just can't relax in love, this episode is your lifeline. In this free workshop, I’ll guide you through powerful and pra…
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Sometimes, it can feel like what we want is so far out of reach that it’s impossible to get, ESPECIALLY when it comes to finding a loving partner and an aligned, healthy relationship. Even if you have done work on yourself and you thought you’d mastered manifesting, sometimes we’re still not experiencing a reality that reflects what we want. It can…
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Hi Loving Soul, I'm honoured to be here serving you up everything you need to get you closer to the love and life you truly deserve! Let's get to it - Remy xox ✨ STEPS TO BEGIN YOUR LOVE UPGRADE ✨ 1️⃣ Subscribe to the podcast for weekly episodes. 2️⃣ Join our free community of like-minded, supportive women: www.herloveupgrade.com/community 3️⃣ Read…
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Send us a text FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP If you have an anxious attachment style and you’re doing the work, trying to heal, build self-worth, and stop losing yourself in relationships, there’s a question you need to be asking. In this episode, I bring that question to the table. It’s the kind of conversation most anxiou…
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Send us a text FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP If you’re feeling like you’ve messed it all up… again, like you’re back at square one, stuck in the same old anxious attachment spiral than this episode is for you. Maybe you’ve texted when you said you wouldn’t. Maybe you’re beating yourself up for caring too much (again). Maybe…
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Send us a text FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP Feeling triggered in love, dating, and relationships? Constantly worrying, acting out, and obsessing? This episode is for anyone with anxious attachment who finds themselves overreacting, spiralling, or shutting down. Learn the most common attachment triggers and even get some bo…
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Send us a text Register for the free workshop: Breaking the Cycle of Anxious Attachment You've been working hard to heal your anxious and/or disorganised attachment and right now you just feel like nothing is working? All the tools, the therapy, the journaling - none of it seems to be helping, and you're right back where you started? This episode i…
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Breakups don’t have to break you. In this episode, I share the raw truth about post-breakup panic and the paradigm shifts that helped me move from codependency to confidence — and attract aligned, healthy love. I’m the first to admit that I used to find it VERY hard to deal with breakups well. I was an emotional wreck every. single. time. and spent…
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Send us a text Anxious Attachment is often maintained by low self-worth.. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not good enough in love, dating, & relationships (especially when they pull away or act cold), this episode is 100% for you. In this raw and honest moment, Carly Ann speaks straight from here heart to anyway that has anxious attachment, low sel…
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Send us a text Why do people ghost? If you have anxious attachment, being ghosted can feel devastating..like rejection, confusion, and obsession all rolled into one. In this episode, Carly Ann is diving into the reasons that different people ghost. If you have recently been ghosted, I hope this gives you some clarity around what is going on. Suppor…
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