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Why Playing the Dating Game Is Keeping You Single (And What to Do Instead) | Ep 114
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You’ve been told to “play it cool”, “match their energy” and leave the same amount of time they take to reply to reply back to them.
But despite all those things, you feel stressed, increasingly annoyed and spend the entire time clock-watching - whether that’s for when the last replied, eagerly awaiting their next reply, only to be disappointed when you check and there’s still no response… or you’re ticking down the time that you’ve limited yourself by to reply.
Surely if this worked, we wouldn’t have to feel this way every time we were chatting to someone?!
This was my exact thoughts when I was dating.
It wasn’t meant to be this hard and stressful was it?!
And I’m pleased to tell you, it doesn’t have to be!
Sure, some people would’ve found a magic solution after implementing these things… but if your stress levels are sky high, and that sneaky anxious attachment is creeping in, this might not be the best way to date (and might even be keeping you single!)
So join me for todays episode where we stop playing the dating games and start dating with more calm, ease and confidence - and still find the good ones!
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RESOURCES:
- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide
- Visit my website: www.chantellethecoach.com
- Follow me on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach
- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach
And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.
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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single women, divorced in your 20s
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DISCLAIMER: The podcast and content posted by Chantelle The Coach is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
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Why Playing the Dating Game Is Keeping You Single (And What to Do Instead) | Ep 114
The Single Spark with Chantelle the Coach (previously The Single Girl's Guide to Life)
Manage episode 439457943 series 2953759
You’ve been told to “play it cool”, “match their energy” and leave the same amount of time they take to reply to reply back to them.
But despite all those things, you feel stressed, increasingly annoyed and spend the entire time clock-watching - whether that’s for when the last replied, eagerly awaiting their next reply, only to be disappointed when you check and there’s still no response… or you’re ticking down the time that you’ve limited yourself by to reply.
Surely if this worked, we wouldn’t have to feel this way every time we were chatting to someone?!
This was my exact thoughts when I was dating.
It wasn’t meant to be this hard and stressful was it?!
And I’m pleased to tell you, it doesn’t have to be!
Sure, some people would’ve found a magic solution after implementing these things… but if your stress levels are sky high, and that sneaky anxious attachment is creeping in, this might not be the best way to date (and might even be keeping you single!)
So join me for todays episode where we stop playing the dating games and start dating with more calm, ease and confidence - and still find the good ones!
-----
RESOURCES:
- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide
- Visit my website: www.chantellethecoach.com
- Follow me on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach
- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach
And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.
-----
Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
------
life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single women, divorced in your 20s
-----
DISCLAIMER: The podcast and content posted by Chantelle The Coach is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
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