”We’re all a little narcissistic.” Debunking This Myth

YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship with Jodi Carlton, MEd

In this episode, Jodi Carlton, a neurodiversity expert and relationship coach who also specializes in personality disorders, addresses a dangerous myth that everyone has narcissistic traits. She emphasizes the distinction between common human behaviors and the destructive characteristics of narcissistic personality disorder.

Jodi highlights specific traits exclusive to narcissism, such as enjoying others' pain for personal gain and manipulating others by playing the victim. Her message clarifies how this myth minimizes the impact on individuals who are abused by narcissists, and aims to educate listeners on the true nature of narcissistic behavior versus normal human flaws and dysfunction.

00:00 Introduction

00:10 Debunking the Myth: Everyone is Narcissistic

00:42 Understanding Human Traits vs Narcissistic Traits

01:02 Identifying Narcissistic Traits

01:36 The Narcissist's Use of Victimhood

01:58 Power and Control in Narcissism

02:15 Conclusion: We're Not All a Little Bit Narcissistic