15: 👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻 Secure VS Insecure Attachment - How we React differently to triggers (Part 2)

The Anxious To Secure PODCAST

🚩When your partner's mood is "off"

…and how EACH attachment style would react differently.

Did you ever wonder how a secure partner would react?

This episode continues the Attachment Style Guide— I’m talking through how EVERY attachment style reacts to triggers differently... super revealing:

You’ll learn:
🖤 Why anxious attachment triggers might feel overwhelming
🌻 How avoidant partners often shut down instead
✨ What secure attachment reactions actually look like (and how to get there)
📓 The role of childhood in shaping these reactions

This isn’t just about anxious attachment anymore—it’s about understanding how ALL styles respond to triggers.

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Love, Bye byee
Jula

P.S. When you get where your triggers come from,

you’ll feel more in control and secure in your relationship 💡

✅ The Anxious To Secure CHECKLIST ✅

❗ 6 Signs you have Abandonment Fears ❗

🤍 Anxious Attachment Inventory Exercise 🤍

🤍 COURSES:

• How to Stop OVERTHINKING 🚫 🌀Your Relationship in 4 Steps (With Your Avoidant Partner)
• TEXT ANXIETY: Stop Obsessing Over “No Replies” in 21 days or less

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🤍 COACHING:

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