Mr. Mom: Deep Thoughts About Women, Woobies, and Incompetent Dads in Pop Culture

Deep Thoughts About Stupid Sh*t: A Pop-Culture Podcast

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The next thing you know, you're strung out on bedspreads.

One of the rare childhood films that the Guy Girls remember watching with both their mom and their dad, the 1983 John Hughes film Mr. Mom was in some ways an incredible progressive look at gendered work. There were only 6 (as in, one less than seven) self-reported stay-at-home dads in the U.S. in 1983, so Michael Keaton’s Jack Butler journey from incompetent, unemployed, and resentful primary parent to master homemaker and better dad truly was revolutionary. But as Tracie points out this week, the movie still carries outdated assumptions about the cost of being a woman in public (sexual harassment that is never punished), the inherent rivalries between women (because they always be fighting over a man), and the invisibility of women’s labor (unless and until a man has to do it).

Curl up with your woobie and take a listen!

Mentioned in this episode:
The Politics of Housework by Pat Mainardi

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فصول

1. Gender Roles in Mr. Mom (00:00:00)

2. Housework Struggles and Workplace Success (00:13:36)

3. Gender Role Reversals and Workplace Success (00:20:52)

4. Gender Dynamics and Workplace Struggles (00:28:42)

5. Masculinity, Labor, and Gender Roles (00:38:41)

6. Men's Ignorance of Women's Experiences (00:50:20)

7. Gendered Role Reversals in Mr. Mom (01:02:27)