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No Limit Leadership is the go-to podcast for growth-minded executives, middle managers, and team leaders who want more than surface-level leadership advice. Hosted by executive coach and former Special Forces commander Sean Patton, this show explores modern leadership, self-leadership, and the real-world strategies that build high-performing teams. Whether you're focused on leadership development, building a coaching culture, improving leadership communication, or strengthening team accountability, each episode equips you with actionable insights to unlock leadership potential across your organization. From designing onboarding systems that retain talent to asking better questions that drive clarity and impact, No Limit Leadership helps you lead yourself first so you can lead others better. If you're ready to create a culture of ownership, resilience, and results, this leadership podcast is for you.

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Welcome to the podcast that’s here to flip your world—and your mindset—upside down. This is The Hilary Silver Podcast, where being self-centered isn’t selfish—it’s the cheat code to getting everything you want in life. Because when YOU are good, everything else falls into place. Your relationships, your confidence, your success, your body, your peace—they all start with you. So, if you’ve been running yourself ragged trying to be everything for everyone and still wondering why you feel like crap, buckle up. It’s time to step into the role of the main character in your own life. Hilary’s the straight-talking, script-flipping, former psychotherapist you didn’t know you needed—part brain science, part universal laws, and 100% no bullshit. She’s your bestie with receipts, here to help you stop waiting for permission, start trusting yourself, and finally build a life that feels as good as it looks. Every week, Hilary dives into the real stuff—confidence, boundaries, aging, relationships, success—all the things that actually matter, without the fluff (or the toxic positivity). Just real talk, hard truths, and tools that work, served up with little spoonfuls of sweetness to help the medicine go down. New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube. Hit follow, tune in, and let’s make self-centered the best thing that’s ever happened to you.

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What Single Women Get Wrong About Feminine Energy 6:48

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If you’ve been told to "just be more feminine" to attract a high-quality man—this episode is your permission slip to roll your eyes and delete that advice forever. In this episode, Hilary unpacks the real meaning of feminine energy for strong, high-functioning women who are tired of being told to play small. She’s calling BS on the idea that you need to be more “demure,” wear more pink, or act helpless so a man can feel useful. (Spoiler: You don’t.) Episode Highlights: Why the “let him take the lead” narrative is secretly sabotaging your love life What feminine energy actually looks like when you’re powerful, grounded, and self-sourced The childhood beliefs that locked you into over-functioning and under-receiving One 30-second shift to move from drive into flow (no crystals required) Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Feminine Energy Myths 01:37 Misconception #1:You need to Let Men Help You 02:15 Misconception #2:You Need to be Demure 03:31 The Deeper Truth About Feminine Energy 05:20 Becoming Magnetic in Love 06:36 Queens Don’t Chase Ready to stop playing damsel and start sitting on your damn throne? 👇 GET STARTED: 🔗 Free Masterclass for Single Women → http://www.hilarysilver.com/masterclass 🔗 Waitlist for Relationship Program → https://hilarysilver.com/waitlist/ 🎥 Watch Next: The Over 40 Glow Up → https://youtu.be/9tcA0E1uFAE…

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Why Strong Smart Women Accept Crumbs 7:22

منذ 11 يومًا7:22

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They run companies, manage households, juggle a million responsibilities—and still find themselves accepting the bare minimum in love. Why? In this Summer of Love kickoff, Hilary calls out the quiet epidemic of high-achieving women settling for less in their relationships. From doing all the emotional labor to accepting the bare minimum in return, Hilary spells out what “crumbs” really look like, and why so many women accept them without even realizing it. The truth? Starving women eat crumbs. If you’ve spent a lifetime feeling emotionally underfed, even the smallest scrap of affection can feel like a meal. But that won’t get you the love you want, and it’s not your fault. The fix? Stop looking outward, and start filling yourself up from within. If you’re ready to quit the chase and start receiving real love, this episode is your wake-up call. Episode Highlights: The subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs you're accepting crumbs Why blaming men misses the point entirely How emotional deprivation starts early—and shows up in dating The difference between chasing love and attracting it What it actually takes to become the woman who won’t settle Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Why Strong Women Settle for Crumbs in Love [00:56] Signs You're Settling for Less in Relationships [02:10] How It Feels When You Accept Less Than You Deserve [03:01] The Real Problem Isn't Him—It's You [04:07] How Early Experiences Shape Your Standards [05:32] The Solution: Heal, Fill, and Stop Settling [07:10] Learn How to Get What You Want Stop chasing scraps and start receiving the whole damn cake. Hilary shows you how to go from starving to self-fed—and why you are the only one who can do it. 🔗 Ready to quit settling and attract real love? Grab Hilary’s free masterclass: https://hilarysilver.com/masterclass…

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This Book Changed How I Think & Live 12:59

منذ 18 يومًا12:59

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Think you're doing all the work but still stuck? This episode might explain why. Hilary breaks down the book that changed everything for her — and no, it wasn’t a psychology textbook, a trauma certification, or another high-ticket coaching program. It was an 85-page book from 1910: The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles. It’s not about money. It’s about mastering your mind, and understanding how your thoughts are either creating what you want... or reinforcing what you don’t. Episode Highlights: Why therapy, mindset work, and affirmations didn’t create lasting change What “thinking truth regardless of appearances” really means (and why it’s so hard) How to stop being a passive observer of your life and start becoming the architect The real reason action without belief keeps you stuck Why making the most of yourself is not selfish — it’s your responsibility Episode Breakdown: [00:00] The Science of Getting Rich: What You’ve Been Missing [01:14] Hilary’s Journey With the Book That Changed Everything [03:54] How Your Thoughts Become Your Life [05:52] Why Belief Must Come Before Proof [07:27] Embodying the Version of You Who Has It [08:41] Why Personal Growth Is Non-Negotiable [11:10] Your Mind Is Your Greatest Asset [12:14] Learn More + Work With Hilary This is the episode to press play on if you’ve been “doing the work” but not seeing the results. 🔗 Resources: – Apply for Ready for Love: https://readyforloveinc.com/program/ – Watch the free masterclass: https://readyforloveinc.com/ – You’ll also enjoy Listening To: How I Changed My Brain in 90 Days – Read the book: The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles…

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Prosperity Codes: What High-Vibe Women Never Do 14:54

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Ever wonder why some women seem to have a magnetic pull for love, success, and good fortune? It’s not luck, it’s energy. In this episode, Hilary Silver breaks down the prosperity codes high-vibe women live by… and the 7 low-vibe habits you need to drop like yesterday’s leftovers if you want to get everything you say you want. Episode Highlights: Why complaining without action drags you down The ego trap of blame and excuses What victim energy really sounds like—and how to rise from it How to stop chasing approval and own your worth The entitlement trap vs. empowered action What happens when you keep avoiding hard conversations The quiet control of unsolicited advice (and how to drop it) Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Introduction [01:17] Importance of High Vibe Behaviors [01:48] Prosperity Code #1: Don't Complain Without Action [03:03] Prosperity Code #2: Avoid Blame, Excuses, and Defensiveness [04:07] Prosperity Code #3: Don't Live in Victim Energy [06:02] Prosperity Code #4: Don't Seek External Validation [07:06] Prosperity Code #5: Avoid Entitlement [09:14] Prosperity Code #6: Don't Avoid Conflict [11:13] Prosperity Code #7: Don't Offer Unsolicited Advice [13:40] Embrace High Vibe Behaviors Without Judgment [14:01] Conclusion If you recognize yourself in any of these behaviors, good. Awareness is the first step. Now let’s shift into the energy of your next-level self. ✨ Want a free energetic reset? Grab Hilary’s mini video training, This Changes Everything , and start rewiring your vibe to match the life you actually want: https://hilarysilver.com/subscribe/ 3 High Vibe Habits That Upgraded My Life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TU-_3lZEqcg…

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Over 40 Glow Up: How to Turn Heads This Summer 11:32

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You don’t need a new serum, a new diet, or a new man to glow up this summer—you just need you . In this episode, Hilary is handing out the keys to radiance, and spoiler alert: they’re all about your energy, not your eye cream. Because glowing up has almost nothing to do with how you look and everything to do with how you feel. From slowing down your pace to indulging in what actually lights you up, Hilary walks you through the internal shifts that make you magnetic. We’re talking presence over appearance. Being rather than doing. Feminine flow instead of frazzled hustle. Episode Highlights: Trade burnout for slow, sensual mornings Choose desire over duty (yes, you can buy the sundress just because you want to) Fill your calendar with you before it fills up with everyone else Eat and drink like a woman who loves herself Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Rediscover Your Spark [01:24] How to Have a Summer Glow Up [01:35] Slow Down and Embrace Feminine Energy [03:10] Let Yourself Receive and Indulge in Desire [05:07] Prioritize Yourself and Fill Your Days with Intention [07:07] Eat and Drink Like You Love Yourself [08:49] Create a Powerful Morning Mindset Ritual [11:06] Glow From Within: Presence Over Appearance Because turning heads isn’t about getting attention—it’s about owning your presence so fully that people feel you walk in the room. ✨ Want to lock in the mindset that makes all this magic possible? Grab Hilary’s Daily Journal—it’s the exact method that’s helped thousands of women (herself included) rewire their brains and live from that grounded, glowing place every day: hilarysilver.com/journal…

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Regrets Of The Living (Make These Changes Now) 10:32

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We talk a lot about the regrets people have when they're dying, but what about the regrets we carry every single day? In this episode, Hilary Silver, former therapist and master coach of 25 years, shares the four most common regrets she hears in her work with high-functioning women. These are micro-regrets that quietly erode your confidence, peace, and sense of self. From staying silent when you should’ve spoken up, to ignoring your intuition, to being too critical of your appearance, Hilary unpacks the everyday ways we abandon ourselves, and how to stop. Episode Highlights: What self-abandonment really looks like (and how it shows up) Why burnout keeps you from showing up as your best self How to stop dismissing your inner voice The sneaky regret most women have about their bodies—and how to stop repeating the cycle Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Why We Regret What We Do (and Don’t Do) [01:47] Regret #1: Self-Abandonment in Relationships & Life [04:36] Regret #2: Not Being Your Best Self [06:33] Regret #3: Ignoring Your Intuition [07:46] Regret #4: Being Too Hard on Yourself [09:33] How to Learn from Regret Without Shame Regret can either weigh you down or wake you up. This episode is your reminder to choose differently, starting now. ✨ Want more? Sign up for Hilary’s free weekly newsletter, Self-Centered, where she shares mindset shifts and lifestyle favorites: https://hilarysilver.com/newsletter/…

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Stay Fit Over 40! (I Wish I Knew This Sooner) 16:31

منذ 7 weeks16:31

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Still following the fitness rules from your 30’s and wondering why they aren’t working anymore? Hilary is here to tell you: It’s time to break up with the punishing workouts, the rigid food rules, and the guilt-tripping voice in your head. At 52, Hilary is in the best shape of her life. She’s leaner, stronger, and more energized than ever, and she’s doing it without tracking macros, counting calories, or wrecking her body with HIIT workouts. In this refreshingly real episode, Hilary breaks down the five shifts that helped her finally get the results she wanted, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too. From unlearning outdated fitness “rules” to adopting a mindset rooted in self-devotion (not self-discipline), she shares how tuning out the noise and tuning into her own body changed everything. You’ll hear about her exact lifestyle habits, how she makes working out something she actually enjoys, and why flexibility matters just as much as strength. No shame, no extremes, no performative BS, just smart, doable shifts that honor where you are now. Episode Highlights: The real reason your old routines aren’t working anymore Why pushing harder might be hurting more than helping The mindset shift that changed Hilary’s entire approach to fitness Her go-to workouts, food philosophy, and everyday habits How to prioritize yourself unapologetically—at the gym and everywhere else Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Fitness Wake-Up Call [01:44] Listening to Your Body [03:10] From Punishment to Self-Devotion [06:10] Defining Strength + Health on Your Terms [07:12] Habits That Actually Support You [10:11] Prioritizing Yourself [11:14] Making Fitness Enjoyable [15:26] Self-Devotion > Self-Discipline Ready to break the rules and feel amazing in your body again? Let this episode be your permission slip. Want to go deeper? Check out Hilary’s Self Devotion program to turn this mindset into your everyday way of being. [ https://hilarysilver.com/self-devoted/ ]…

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Why Menopause Isn’t Making You Crazy 16:04

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Hot flashes aren’t the problem—gaslighting is. Hilary takes aim at the menopause conversation and asks the question no one else is asking: What if this isn’t your downfall, but your awakening? In this episode, she breaks down the cultural scripts, conditioning, and quiet misogyny wrapped in every “crazy menopausal woman” meme, and replaces it with truth, clarity, and power. This is not a hormonal crisis. This is your moment. Episode Highlights: Why blaming hormones keeps women stuck The myth of the “crazy menopausal woman” What really causes women to question their marriage at midlife Why losing your cool isn’t the issue—losing yourself is The gift of finally putting yourself first (and meaning it) Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Challenging the Menopause Narrative [01:05] The Gaslighting of Women's Health [02:10] Menopause and Divorce: What’s Really Going On [05:05] Midlife Awakening vs. Hormonal Blame [07:04] Cultural Conditioning and Losing Ourselves [08:06] Why the “Crazy Menopausal Woman” Trope is So Dangerous [11:11] Menopause Isn’t a Crisis—It’s a Revolution [12:32] Reclaiming Your Power in Midlife 💥 Midlife isn’t the end. It’s the turning point. Ready to stop tolerating and start owning it? Hit play. 💫 Subscribe to Hilary's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@HilarySilver?sub_confirmation=1 🔥 Grab Hilary’s FREE training, This Changes Everything (and other free resources!): https://hilarysilver.com/guides/ 👉 Follow Hilary on Instagram: @hilarysilver 🚀 What’s been your biggest midlife realization? Drop it in the comments!…

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How to Rewire Your Brain; A Neuroscience Hack To Think Better Thoughts 9:57

منذ 8 weeks9:57

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If you're tired of second-guessing yourself, overthinking everything, and dragging around a perfectionist inner critic, this episode is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed. Hilary Silver breaks down exactly how to rewire your brain—yes, literally—so you can stop the mental spiral and start thinking thoughts that actually serve you. The truth? That nagging voice in your head? You learned it. And now it’s time to unlearn it. Episode Highlights: Why 95% of your thinking is subconscious (and why it matters) How your inner critic formed, and how to shut it down The 3-step neuroscience-based process to create better thoughts Why flimsy affirmations don’t work, but powerful declarations do The role of repetition in changing your brain (hint: neuroplasticity is your superpower) Episode Breakdown: [00:00] How To Rewire Your Brain To Think Thoughts That Serve You [01:08] How the Subconscious Shapes Your Beliefs [03:15] How to Stop Your Self-Sabotage [04:18] Interrupting Negative Thought Patterns [05:23] Replace Affirmations with Declarations [06:27] Train Your Brain with Neuroplasticity [07:53] Your Daily Journal Practice [08:15] 3 Steps to Rewire Your Brain Whether you’re battling self-doubt, perfectionism, or just sick of feeling like your own worst enemy, this is your permission slip to think better, feel better, and be better. No fluff. Just straight-up science-backed self-worth. ✨ Want the daily tool Hilary used to rewire her own brain? The Daily Journal is the how-to for everything she shares here: https://hilarysilver.com/journal/…

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If the World Feels Like Too Much Right Now, Listen to This 16:20

منذ 8 weeks16:20

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The world feels like a mess—politics, the economy, your dog's surprise barf during Zoom meetings. And while you can’t control any of it, you can control you. In this powerful episode, Hilary breaks down the five mindset shifts that keep you grounded, centered, and sane, no matter how wild life gets. This isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending everything’s fine. It’s about taking radical responsibility for your thoughts, choices, and energy so you can stop spinning out and start leading your life with confidence and clarity. Episode Highlights: Why you're both the problem and the solution (yes, really) How to stop being the last person you consider in your own damn life The truth about identity (spoiler: it’s not what your high school yearbook said) Why self-leadership isn’t selfish, it’s the whole point How to create unshakable inner peace, no matter what the headlines scream Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Why the World Feels Unstable Right Now [01:14] Meet Hilary Silver [03:21] Truth #1: You’re the Problem *and* the Solution [06:00] Truth #2: Yes, the World *Does* Revolve Around You [07:14] Truth #3: Prioritize Yourself, Always [09:00] Truth #4: Identity Is a Daily Choice [11:19] Truth #5: The Outcome You Seek Is Internal [14:08] The Paradox of Letting Go [15:01] Be the Constant in an Uncertain World If you’ve ever said, “I just need things to settle down so I can breathe,” this episode is your wake-up call. You’re the calm. You’re the guarantee. You’re the damn center of your own universe. 💥 Ready to become unshakable? Watch Hilary’s free training, This Changes Everything : https://hilarysilver.com/subscribe/ 🤑 To take advantage of Hilary's exclusive 40% savings on sheets, towels, pajamas, and more, visit www.cozyearth.com and use the Promo Code: HILARY 👯‍♀️ Share this episode with the woman in your life who needs a little more peace and a lot more power.…

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8 Micro Habits of Women Who Always Get What They Want 25:42

منذ 8 weeks25:42

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Ever wonder how some women just always get what they want? It’s not luck, it’s not hustle, and it’s definitely not because they’re better than you. It’s because they’re moving through the world differently. Hilary breaks down the 8 micro habits of women who seem to have it all: love, money, success, and opportunities. In this episode, she gives you the cheat codes you can adopt for yourself! From keeping your word (especially to yourself) to protecting your energy like it’s your job, this is your no-BS guide to becoming magnetic to what you want. We’re talking about unapologetic boundaries, unshakable self-trust, high-vibe thinking, and what it actually means to take radical responsibility for your life. And the final habit? It’s the secret sauce. The one most people miss—but once you get it, everything changes. Episode Highlights: Saying no without an apology Keeping promises (especially the ones you make to yourself) Radical responsibility (no more waiting to be saved) Embodying abundance like it’s a lifestyle, not a mantra And the real magic: acting like you already have it all Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Some Women Always Get What They Want 01:59 Habit 1: Protect Your Energy 05:34 Habit 2: Speak with Clear Boundaries 07:09 Habit 3: Own Your Worth 10:20 Habit 4: Focus on What You Do Want 13:19 Habit 5: Keep Promises to Yourself 15:38 Habit 6: Radical Self-Responsibility 19:08 Habit 7: Embody Abundance 24:34 Habit 8: Be Her Now 29:09 Practicing Receiving What You Want 30:02 How to Start Getting What You Want Today Ready to stop spinning in self-doubt and start showing up like the woman who already has what she wants? Then hit play. 🔗 Want to do the identity work Hilary mentions? Check out her Daily Journal: https://hilarysilver.com/journal/ To take advantage of Hilary's exclusive 40% savings on sheets, towels, pajamas, and more, visit www.cozyearth.com and use the Promo Code: HILARY…

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The 5 Truths I’m Teaching My Daughter (That I Had to Learn the Hard Way) 11:00

منذ 9 weeks11:00

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This one’s for every woman who didn’t get the guidance she needed growing up—and every mother who’s trying to do better. In this bold and deeply personal episode, Hilary Silver pulls back the curtain on the five lessons she’s deliberately teaching her kids, especially her daughter. These aren’t fluffy Pinterest quotes—these are the things that took Hilary decades to learn the hard way. Now she’s handing them down with intention, clarity, and zero apology. She’s teaching her daughter to know who she is. To trust herself without second-guessing. To stop asking for permission and start asking for what she needs. To see herself clearly, speak up boldly, and never—ever—abandon herself to make others comfortable. Episode Highlights: The truth about self-trust (and why it matters more than approval) What it looks like to be your own best advocate How to stop outsourcing your happiness Why being self-centered is the most responsible thing you can do How to model the kind of woman you hope your daughter becomes Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Introduction [00:33] Meet Hilary Silver [01:05] Parenting Imperfections [01:26] Teaching Self-Identity [04:05] Trusting Inner Wisdom [05:30] Developing Self-Trust [07:04] Self-Advocacy [08:40] Personal Responsibility for Happiness [10:03] Be the Woman You Want Her to Become Raising kids or not, these lessons are for every woman who’s done bending, shrinking, and shape-shifting just to keep the peace. You don’t need to ask for permission. You just need to show up for yourself. 👊 Let’s be the kind of women we needed when we were younger. Starting now.…

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Gain True Personal Power With This One Secret Weapon 12:57

منذ 11 weeks12:57

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For too long, women have been told that power belongs to men. In this unapologetic episode, Hilary Silver flips that script and names the truth out loud: women already hold the power—society just taught them to forget. Centered around a bold, taboo-breaking metaphor, Hilary dives deep into how patriarchy was built to control what it couldn't fully possess: female power, autonomy, and sexuality. Drawing from over 6,000 interviews with women over 40, she exposes how even the most outwardly successful women are still battling invisible chains of unworthiness and self-sacrifice. Episode Highlights: What men really want more than money or power How patriarchy is built on controlling what it can’t possess Why high-achieving women often secretly struggle with self-worth The emotional labor and silence women have been conditioned to accept The first steps to reclaim your worth—without asking for permission Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Introduction [01:57] The Power Women Forget They Have [04:15] How Girls Are Taught to Shrink [06:12] When Success Masks Low Self-Worth [09:24] Women’s Sacred, Untapped Power [10:06] Stop Seeking Approval and Start Owning It [10:27] How to Reclaim Your Power, Starting Now [12:03] Join the Self-Centered Movement This isn’t about blame—it’s about reclaiming. Hilary calls on women to stop asking, stop apologizing, and stop shrinking. Instead, she challenges listeners to rise, lead, and live unapologetically, with power and presence. Because pussy power? It’s real. And it’s time women stopped pretending it isn’t. 👑 Want in on the movement? Tap the link in the show notes to get Hilary’s free video training and step into your self-centered era—for real this time.…

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The Myth of Too Much 8:55

منذ 12 weeks8:55

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If you’ve ever been told you’re too loud, too confident, too opinionated, or too ambitious—this episode is for you. Hilary’s not here to help you soften your edges. She’s here to remind you why you grew them in the first place. In this unapologetic episode, she calls out the centuries-old conditioning that taught women to shrink, stay agreeable, and prioritize everyone else’s comfort over their own truth. Spoiler: you’re not “too much.” You’re just too powerful for the people who benefit from you being less. Hilary shares the signs that you’ve internalized the myth of “too much” and breaks down the shift that happens when you stop minimizing yourself and start standing fully in your power. This episode isn’t about being polite. It’s about being self-centered—and no, that’s not selfish. It’s revolutionary. Episode Highlights: How "too much" is just rebranded control Why being self-centered is your power move—not a personality flaw What happens when you stop dimming your light for someone else's comfort 3 shifts you can make today to stop apologizing and start expanding Episode Breakdown: [00:00] The Myth of Being “Too Much” [00:54] Why Women Shrink Themselves to Fit [02:06] The Real Cost of Playing Small [03:42] You’re Not Too Much—They’re Just Uncomfortable [04:24] What It Really Means to Be Self-Centered [05:28] How to Break Free from People-Pleasing [06:31] Stop Apologizing. Start Leading. [07:35] Who Would You Be If You Weren’t Shrinking? 👑 Ready to stop chasing approval and start living for you? Watch Hilary’s free training This Changes Everything—linked in the show notes.…

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If Putting Yourself First Feels Wrong, Listen To This! 8:48

منذ 13 weeks8:48

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You’ve spent your whole life making sure everyone else is okay—but what about you? This episode is for the women who are exhausted, overextended, and quietly wondering when it’ll finally be their turn. Hilary is breaking down the deep conditioning that taught us to believe being selfless equals being worthy, and why that’s total BS. If you’ve ever felt guilty for wanting more, for needing space, or simply saying no… this one’s going to hit. Because the truth is, no one is going to magically give you permission to rest, breathe, or be a priority. You have to choose it. And when you do? Everything changes. Episode Highlights: Why self-sacrifice won’t earn you the love or respect you deserve The hard truth about how you’re teaching people to treat you The 3 steps to stop people-pleasing and start living for you How to be self-centered (in the best possible way) And why this shift is your ticket to freedom Episode Breakdown: [00:00] How You Were Conditioned to Be Selfless [01:32] Why You Feel Undervalued and Exhausted [02:03] The Guilt of Prioritizing Yourself [03:06] The Truth About Self-Sacrifice [04:00] Setting Boundaries: Teaching Others How to Treat You [05:04] What It Means to Be Self-Centered [05:57] 3 Steps to Start Prioritizing Yourself [07:01] What to Expect When You Start Saying No [07:22] Why You Need to Choose Yourself Now [07:54] Start Living for You Nobody’s coming to save you. It’s your turn—right now. Tune in, then grab Hilary’s free video training This Changes Everything to start making yourself a daily priority without apology. You’ll never look back.…

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