Edit Your Grief Practices: Review, Keep, Drop, Adjust

The Leftover Pieces: Suicide Loss Conversations

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TODAY -- Integration is mostly editing—conserving what helps, quietly retiring what doesn’t.

Journal prompt: “If I gave my energy a budget, I’d spend more on… and less on…”

Scan this month for flickers that actually eased a day—witnessing, one brick finished, a boundary honored, light as companion—and keep them on purpose. Rebuild with a quick three-column check: KEEP (works), DROP (drains), ADJUST (tweak). Aim for three bullets total; simple wins. Then step by committing to one change—schedule the keeper as a repeating block, remove a drainer from the calendar, or place an object (candle, water bottle, bracelet) where it will cue the tweak.

Choose-your-energy menu:

• Hollow (low): Write one KEEP item. Stop there.
• Healing (medium): Do the full three-column check and circle one line.
• Becoming (higher): Put the circled item on your calendar with a repeat.

To end today:

Editing your grief life is an act of respect—for your person and for your nervous system. After suicide loss, you don’t owe the world the version of you that bleeds the most to prove you loved them. Keep what steadies you, drop what drains you, and adjust the practices that almost work. This is not giving up; it’s maturing your care. Let the metrics be honest: Did I breathe easier? Did recovery time shorten? Did I feel even a sliver more like myself? Put the keepers on repeat and let the rest go without a courtroom trial. Your energy is finite and precious; spend it where love can actually build something.

Exhale. Keep what serves you; leave the rest. I’ll be here again tomorrow. 💜

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