#194: The Effortless Love Myth: Why Every Couple Needs Skills

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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Amy Schumer & Brianne Howey on the Importance of Female Friendships, Navigating Hollywood's Double Standards, Sharing Their Birth Stories, and MORE 50:05

منذ 19 يومًا50:05

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This week, in what might be the funniest episode yet, Molly and Emese are joined by co-stars Amy Schumer and Brianne Howey. They get candid about motherhood, career evolution, and their new film, Kinda Pregnant —which unexpectedly led to Amy’s latest health discovery. Amy opens up about how public criticism led her to uncover her Cushing syndrome diagnosis, what it’s like to navigate comedy and Hollywood as a mom, and the importance of sharing birth stories without shame. Brianne shares how becoming a mother has shifted her perspective on work, how Ginny & Georgia ’s Georgia Miller compares to real-life parenting, and the power of female friendships in the industry. We also go behind the scenes of their new Netflix film, Kinda Pregnant —how Molly first got the script, why Amy and Brianne were drawn to the project, and what it means for women today. Plus, they reflect on their early career struggles, the moment they knew they “made it,” and how motherhood has reshaped their ambitions. From career highs to personal challenges, this episode is raw, funny, and packed with insights. Mentioned in the Episode: Kinda Pregnant Ginny & Georgia Meerkat 30 Rock Last Comic Standing Charlie Sheen Roast Inside Amy Schumer Amy Schumer on the Howard Stern Show Trainwreck Life & Beth Expecting Amy 45RPM Clothing Brand A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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Why does it feel like love isn’t enough to fix your relationship?

You’ve tried everything—communicating more, planning date nights, giving space, and even avoiding conflict altogether. Yet, the same problems keep resurfacing, and you’re left wondering if love alone can really sustain a lasting relationship. The frustration, the exhaustion—it’s all too familiar.
Welcome to Love Shack Live, the show for listeners who find themselves at a relationship crossroads, facing daily conflicts and a growing emotional gap. Whether you’re fighting to reconnect or questioning if love is enough, we’re here to help you rebuild a bond that feels genuine and lasting.
Today’s big question: Is love alone enough to make a relationship last, or are there essential skills every couple needs to truly thrive?

Join hosts Staci Bartley, Tom Bartley, and their daughter Brooke as they dive into a real conversation about the myth of love being effortless. In this episode, you’ll discover why love needs more than just passion—it needs skills. Does true love really “bear all things,” or are we missing something deeper?
By the end, you’ll see why even the most loving couples need more than love to make it work. Curious to know what that ‘something’ is? Tune in to find out.
Chapters:
02:42 The Myth of Effortless Love
04:03 The Importance of Key Skills
05:05 Personal Reflections on Love
07:43 The Role of Self-Reflection
09:39 Empowering Yourself in Relationships
10:12 The Art of Communication
23:07 Diagnosing and Labeling Partners
32:36 Realizing Personal Responsibility
33:07 Understanding Societal Pressures
34:12 The Importance of Skills in Relationships
36:31 Navigating Change in Relationships
39:39 Embracing Human Messiness
41:05 The Power of Love and Skills
46:45 The Need for Relationship Education
52:25 Invitation to Skill Up
53:54 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Ready to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.

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Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

#194: The Effortless Love Myth: Why Every Couple Needs Skills

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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#218: Want to Save Your Relationship? Change the Questions You’re Asking (with Topaz Adizes) 51:27

منذ 19 hours51:27

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Send us a text Do you feel like you and your partner are growing apart? Like no matter how much you try, the connection you once had is slipping through your fingers? Maybe conversations feel repetitive, like you’re stuck in the same arguments, or worse, like you’re just roommates, living parallel lives under the same roof. If you’ve ever wondered: Why does my partner seem distant? How do I bring back the spark in my relationship? What should I do if my partner won’t open up? Is emotional intimacy something we can rebuild, or is it too late? Then this episode is for you. Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for people at a relationship crossroads, where emotional distance, conflict, and uncertainty don’t have to mean the end, but an opportunity to create something new. I’m Staci Bartley, a relationship mentor who’s spent over a decade helping couples navigate the hardest moments of love, alongside my husband and co-host, Tom, and our daughter, Brooke. Today, we’re joined by Topaz Adizes , creator of The And , an Emmy Award-winning project that has helped thousands of couples reconnect by asking the right questions, the ones that cut through the tension and lead to real, vulnerable conversations. Could the secret to saving your relationship lie not in fighting harder for answers, but in learning how to ask better questions? If you’re desperate to reconnect but don’t know where to start, this episode will show you the simple but powerful way to rebuild trust, intimacy, and emotional closeness, starting today. 🎧 Tune in now and discover how the right questions could change everything. Timestamps: 01:19 Meet Topaz Adias: Master of Human Connection 02:59 Discovering a Passion for Intimate Conversations 04:34 The Essence of Teamwork and Connection 07:09 Navigating Relationship Challenges 12:47 The Importance of Emotional Weightlifting 16:37 Identifying and Addressing Toxic Relationships 21:50 Making the Decision to Let Go 24:26 Embracing Completion in Relationships 27:20 Crafting Quality Questions 29:14 The Science of Constructive Questions 39:59 Exploring Anger and Emotional Management 43:43 Resources and Final Thoughts 🌟 Learn more about Topaz and his incredible work: 🔗 Visit The Skin Deep: https://www.theskindeep.com 📖 Get Topaz’s Book: 12 Questions for Love: https://www.theskindeep.com/products/12-questions-for-love-book 💡 Want to go deeper? If you’re navigating space, separation, or emotional distance, it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship, it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap: This flexible, step-by-step guide helps you move from obligation and anxiety to self-focus and strength, so you can navigate emotional distance with clarity and purpose. Learn more & start today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and regaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse…

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#217: How Long Should You Wait? The Truth About Waiting for Your Partner to Come Back 41:56

منذ 5 أيام41:56

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Send us a text Are you stuck in the endless loop of waiting for your partner to return, hoping things will magically go back to normal? Waiting isn’t the solution , and it’s costing you more than you realize. In this episode, we explore the high price of holding on too tightly while standing still, and why it’s time to stop waiting and start living again. Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for those at a relationship crossroads, where daily conflicts feel heavier, the emotional gap is growing, and the future feels uncertain. I’m your host, Stacey Bartley, along with my co-hosts Tom and Brooke, here to help you navigate the toughest moments in love and give you real, actionable strategies to turn things around. So, how long should you wait? And more importantly, what is waiting actually costing you? This episode dives into the emotional and psychological toll of waiting for your partner to make a decision. We’ll uncover how waiting keeps you stuck, drains your confidence, and erodes your self-worth, all while your partner remains unaware of the damage being done. We’ll also share why waiting doesn’t heal the relationship, and instead, leads to a cycle of emotional burnout and uncertainty. Get ready to shift your perspective. You don’t have to wait for your partner’s decisions to take control of your own life again. Tune in for practical, transformative tips to regain your power, rebuild your confidence, and stop letting uncertainty define your future. It’s time to make space for yourself, even while waiting. Curious about how to move forward even when you’re unsure of what’s next? We’ll reveal exactly how small shifts can create meaningful change that will help you thrive, no matter what happens with your relationship. Listen now, and learn why waiting is never the answer, and how you can start taking steps to live again. Timestamps: 01:36 The Psychological Toll of Waiting 02:46 The Cost of Waiting: Mental and Physical Health 04:12 Space Without a Plan: A Path to Degradation 15:24 Taking Back Your Power: Active Healing 29:29 Small Daily Shifts to Move Forward 37:57 Conclusion: Living with Purpose 💡 Want to go deeper? If you’re navigating space, separation, or emotional distance, it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship, it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap: This flexible, step-by-step guide helps you move from obligation and anxiety to self-focus and strength, so you can navigate emotional distance with clarity and purpose. Learn more & start today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and regaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Podcast Listener Exclusive: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout for a special discount on the Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap!…

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#216: The Valentine’s Day Survival Plan for Anyone in Relationship Limbo 43:28

منذ 15 يومًا43:28

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Send us a text Valentine’s Day is here, but instead of feeling loved and cherished, you’re dreading it. Maybe there’s a pit in your stomach because this year is different. Your partner has asked for space. They’ve pulled away emotionally, or maybe they’re physically gone. Now, a day that’s supposed to be about love feels like a cruel reminder of what you’ve lost… or what you still might lose. Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for people at a relationship crossroads, where daily conflicts, emotional distance, and uncertainty don’t have to mean the end of love, but a chance to rebuild it in a way that actually works. I’m Staci Bartley, a relationship mentor who’s spent the last decade helping people navigate the hardest moments of their lives. Alongside my co-host and lover, Tom, and our daughter, Brooke, we help you untangle the messiness of love. So here’s the question we’re tackling today: Why does Valentine’s Day feel so painful when your relationship is in limbo? And more importantly, how do you get through it without making the biggest mistakes that will only leave you feeling worse? In this episode, we’re unpacking the biggest emotional traps that keep you stuck, the #1 mistake people make when they’re desperate for connection, and, most importantly, how to reclaim Valentine’s Day in a way that strengthens you instead of breaking you down. By the end of this episode, you won’t just have a survival plan, you’ll have a game plan for making this day something that actually helps you begin to feel good again. So, if you’re wondering whether your partner will reach out… if you’re tempted to send that “just thinking of you” text… or if you feel like you don’t belong anywhere right now, this episode is for you. Let’s get started. Timestamps: 01:12 Understanding the Pain of Valentine's Day 01:50 The Stubbed Toe Analogy 05:01 Common Mistakes in Relationship Limbo 09:25 Broadening Your Perspective 22:05 Practical Tips for Self-Love on Valentine's Day 27:34 The Importance of Self-Discovery 36:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 💡 Want to go deeper? If you’re navigating space, separation, or emotional distance, it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship —it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap: This flexible, step-by-step guide helps you move from obligation and anxiety to self-focus and strength—so you can navigate emotional distance with clarity and purpose. Learn more & start today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and regaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Podcast Listener Exclusive: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout for a special discount on the Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap!…

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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#215: The #1 Mistake People Make When Their Partner Asks for Space 1:01:02

منذ 21 يومًا1:01:02

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Send us a text What if the hardest part about your partner asking for space isn’t the space itself—but what it does to you? The sleepless nights, the overthinking, the way every conversation replays in your head like a broken record. You tell yourself to be patient, but inside, you feel like you’re unraveling. No one teaches us how to handle this moment. Most people react out of fear, chasing, shutting down, or grasping for control, without realizing the way they handle this space is shaping what happens next. In this episode of Love Shack Live , we break down: ✅ The #1 mistake people make when their partner asks for space (and what to do instead). ✅ Why space isn’t necessarily the end—but an opportunity for clarity and growth. ✅ How emotional weightlifting helps you shift from panic to peace. ✅ The truth about why your partner needs space (it’s not what you think). So how do you navigate this without making things worse? And is it really possible for space to bring you closer rather than push you apart? We need you to hear us say—yes. Join us for a conversation that will change the way you see space, separation, and yourself. 🎧 Listen now! Timestamps: 01:45 Why We Need Space 03:47 Personal Growth During Separation 08:47 Emotional Weightlifting 12:40 Autonomy in Togetherness 17:48 Facing the Pain and Growing 19:31 Common Emotional Fears 23:56 The Courage to Request Space 27:01 The Hard Truths of Relationships 32:31 The Cycle of Self-Rejection in Relationships 33:18 Realizing the Need for Autonomy 35:30 The Importance of Self-Understanding 38:27 Building Blocks of Self-Work 41:35 Communicating Needs and Embracing Change 48:55 Emotional Weightlifting and Self-Reflection 53:41 Final Thoughts and Practical Exercises 💡 Want to go deeper? If you’re navigating space, separation, or emotional distance, it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship —it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap: This flexible, step-by-step guide helps you move from obligation and anxiety to self-focus and strength—so you can navigate emotional distance with clarity and purpose. Learn more & start today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and regaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Podcast Listener Exclusive: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout for a special discount on the Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap!…

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#214: Obligation Is Killing Your Relationship—Here’s How to Stop It 56:49

منذ 29 يومًا56:49

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Send us a text Ever feel like you’re the only one holding your relationship together? You keep showing up, biting your tongue, doing what needs to be done—not out of love, but out of obligation . And yet, the more you give, the more exhausted, disconnected, and unseen you feel. The hard truth? Obligation isn’t just draining you, it’s destroying the very emotional connection you’re trying so hard to save. Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for people at a relationship crossroads. If you’re struggling with daily conflict, emotional distance, or feeling like your partner is slipping away, you’re in the right place. I’m Staci Bartley, a relationship mentor with over a decade of experience helping couples navigate the hardest moments of love and life. I’m joined by my co-host and partner Tom, and our daughter Brooke, and together we help you understand what’s really happening in your relationship—and what you can do to change it. So here’s the question: What if the thing you think is holding your relationship together, obligation, is actually pulling it apart? In today’s episode, we’re unpacking: 💔 How obligation slowly replaces intimacy, passion, and connection ⚡ Why unspoken expectations and hidden resentments build over time 🔄 The difference between commitment and obligation —and why confusing them leads to burnout 🛠️ How to shift from obligation-based love to genuine choice and emotional freedom If you’ve ever felt trapped in a relationship that’s more about duty than desire, this episode is a must-listen. Because love isn’t about checking boxes, it’s about showing up because you want to, not because you have to. 🎧 Press play now and start breaking free from the weight of obligation. Timestamps: 02:46 Marriage and Obligation 04:04 The Impact of Unspoken Expectations 07:58 The Balance of Obligations and Relationship Health 09:21 Emotional Exhaustion and Coping Mechanisms 13:46 Commitment vs. Obligation 16:46 Psychological Resistance to Obligation 21:22 The Emotional Weight of Obligations 26:21 Burnout and Self-Preservation 27:30 Dealing with Overwhelming Obligations 28:48 The Impact of Self-Imposed Obligations on Relationships 32:40 Reframing Obligations as Choices 37:39 Practical Tips for Managing Obligations 43:53 Communicating Boundaries and Needs 44:54 Making Obligations More Manageable 46:33 The Importance of Variety in Relationships 47:54 Final Thoughts on Navigating Obligations 💡 Want to go deeper? If you’re navigating space, separation, or emotional distance, it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship —it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap: This flexible, step-by-step guide helps you move from obligation and anxiety to self-focus and strength—so you can navigate emotional distance with clarity and purpose. Learn more & start today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and regaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Podcast Listener Exclusive: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout for a special discount on the Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap!…

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#213: Why Your Partner’s Request for Space Isn’t the End: Listener Q&A 49:03

منذ 5 weeks49:03

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Send us a text Have you ever felt blindsided by your partner asking for space? Maybe you’re stuck replaying every conversation, wondering how it got to this point. Or perhaps you’re grappling with resentment, thinking, Why didn’t they say something sooner? Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for those standing at a relationship crossroads. If you’re dealing with daily conflicts, emotional gaps, or longing to reconnect with someone you deeply care about, this is your space. In this episode, we answer your most raw and heartfelt questions: Why should I appreciate my partner for asking for space, especially when it hurts so much? How can I let go of the resentment when they didn’t communicate their struggles sooner? Is it okay to reach out during a separation, or will it make things worse? Together, we’ll uncover why asking for space is often an act of courage, not rejection, and how this moment can open a door to deeper connection and growth. You’ll walk away with actionable tools to navigate the gray areas of space, silence, and second chances. Don’t miss this powerful episode that might just reframe how you view one of the hardest moments in your relationship journey. Timestamps: 02:15 Understanding the Need for Space 05:48 Balancing Sadness and Empathy 08:01 Self-Reflection and Communication 11:58 Creating a Safe Space for Difficult Conversations 20:53 When to Reach Out During Space and Separation 24:07 The Importance of Self-Integrity 24:36 Understanding Emotional Drivers 25:03 Dealing with Separation and Unrequited Love 25:57 The Capacity to Love Many 28:47 Effective Communication in Relationships 30:54 Creating Space in Relationships 39:01 Navigating Separation with Children 41:10 Final Thoughts and Resources Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic. It doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship. Instead, it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap : This flexible, step-by-step guide is designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust—on your own terms and timeline. Learn more and get started today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit : Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and gaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs : From expert mentorship to proven strategies, discover the tools and support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Podcast Listener Exclusive : Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock a special discount on the Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap!…

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#212: How Much Space Is Too Much? How to Avoid Losing Yourself (and Each Other) 1:00:07

منذ 6 weeks1:00:07

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Send us a text Have you found yourself in the unsettling quiet of giving your partner the space they asked for, wondering if you’re doing the right thing, or if you’re losing them altogether? The silence can be deafening, filled with questions: Am I helping or hurting? Is this space tearing us apart, or could it actually bring us closer? Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for anyone standing at a relationship crossroads, unsure of how to bridge the growing gap. If you’re facing daily conflicts, emotional distance, or moments of doubt about whether love can survive the strain, you’re in the right place. Together, we uncover the skills and strategies to rebuild bonds that are genuine and lasting. In this episode, we tackle the burning question: How much space is too much? We’ll explore how to honor someone’s need for space while maintaining a connection, and why this time apart might be the very thing your relationship needs to grow. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with practical tools to create clarity during times of separation, establish healthy boundaries, and navigate the emotional uncertainty with intention and confidence. And here’s the twist: we’re not just talking about “giving space” to your partner. We’re diving into how to use this time to reconnect with yourself, strengthen your foundation, and discover the opportunities hidden within the discomfort. So, grab your headphones and step into the Love Shack, where we’ll guide you through this challenging season with wisdom, hope, and actionable insights. Your journey starts here. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Navigating Relationship Crossroads 01:14 Understanding the Need for Space 02:04 The Challenges of Giving Space 02:58 Learning Relationship Skills 04:47 Facing the Reality of Relationship Issues 07:39 Common Misconceptions About Space 19:23 The Importance of Clear Communication 20:25 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Space 29:30 Understanding the Need for Space 30:22 The Emotional Struggle of Asking for Space 31:36 The Pressure of Using Space Correctly 35:25 Creating a Plan for Space 37:12 Setting Agreements and Expectations 40:08 Navigating No Contact Periods 42:30 The Importance of Clarity and Communication 53:32 Tools and Resources for Separation 55:41 Reflecting on Personal Needs and Agreements 57:14 Closing Thoughts and Reflections Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic. It doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship. Instead, it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap : This flexible, step-by-step guide is designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust—on your own terms and timeline. Learn more and get started today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit : Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and gaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs : From expert mentorship to proven strategies, discover the tools and support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Podcast Listener Exclusive : Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock a special discount on the Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap!…

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#211: Can You Save Your Relationship When Your Partner Wants Out? 1:02:15

منذ 7 weeks1:02:15

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Send us a text Feeling stuck in the space between staying and leaving? That painful limbo, where your relationship isn’t thriving, but it’s not over either, can feel like a roller coaster of hope, despair, and confusion. Whether your partner has asked for space, filed for divorce, or you’re simply feeling emotionally disconnected, you might be asking yourself: Can this relationship be saved, or am I fooling myself? Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for anyone at a relationship crossroads. Hosted by Staci Bartley, along with her husband, Tom, and daughter, Brooke, we’re here to help you navigate the complexities of love and partnership with honesty, compassion, and practical tools. In this episode, we’re diving into what we call The Land of Maybe —the uncertain, emotional space where relationships are tested to their core. We’ll explore: Why this space feels like “hell on earth” and how to find peace amidst the chaos. How letting go of control (not hope) can create powerful new possibilities. What needs to happen for healing, even when one partner seems resolved to leave. Real stories of couples who found clarity and growth, whether together or apart. If you’re holding on, unsure what to do next, this episode is for you. Discover how to shift from fear and confusion to clarity and strength. Because space doesn’t have to mean the end, it can be the beginning of transformation. Let’s uncover what’s possible. Join us in the Love Shack. Timestamps: 03:19 Listener Question: Avoiding Divorce 05:13 Emotional Rollercoaster of Uncertainty 07:31 The Importance of Honest Communication 11:35 Navigating Emotional Pain and Discomfort 21:02 The Power of Letting Go 29:29 Creating Emotional Safety 33:45 The Consequences of Avoiding Difficult Conversations 35:52 The Importance of Honest Communication 37:22 Learning to Communicate Effectively 39:00 Personal Stories and Examples 41:25 The Lifelong Journey of Relationship Skills 44:10 Navigating Relationship Challenges 47:58 The Power of Self-Reflection 53:23 Envisioning a Future of New Possibilities 57:38 Conclusion and Resources Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic—it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship. Instead, it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection. ✨ Start Your Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap : This flexible, step-by-step guide is designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust—on your own terms and timeline. Learn more and get started today: https://stacibartley.com/self-paced/30-day-roadmap ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit : Your must-have resource for staying grounded, managing emotions, and gaining clarity during this uncertain time. Get your free guide here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore All Our Programs : From expert mentorship to proven strategies, discover the tools and support you need to navigate this chapter of your relationship. Browse here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Podcast Listener Exclusive : Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock a special discount on the Self-Paced 30-Day Roadmap! Your journey toward clarity and strength starts now.…

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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#210: When Your Avoidant Partner Needs Space: A Story of Coming Back to Life 1:09:14

منذ 8 weeks1:09:14

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Send us a text Have you ever watched someone you love slowly fade into emotional darkness, desperately wanting to help but feeling powerless as they pull away? Or perhaps you're the one who feels the overwhelming need to withdraw, even as your heart aches for connection? Welcome to Love Shack Live, where we guide couples standing at the crossroads of their relationships, helping them navigate the complex terrain between disconnection and lasting intimacy. In this rare and powerful episode, we're joined by Mason, who once identified as avoidant but has since transformed his relationship with both himself and others. Through his raw and honest story, we'll uncover: What it really feels like to be in that "deep, dark hole" of avoidant attachment Why highly sensitive people often find themselves pulling away from those they love most The surprising truth about why space and separation can sometimes be the greatest gift How to transform the pain of withdrawal into a journey of self-discovery This isn't just another conversation about attachment theory. It's a story of how one person found his way back to life after believing he was "broken" – and how you can too. Join Staci, Tom, and Brooke as they dive deep into the misunderstood world of avoidant attachment, debunking myths and offering hope for both those who withdraw and those who love them. Whether you're the one needing space or the one feeling left behind, this episode illuminates the path forward with compassion, understanding, and practical wisdom for your own journey of transformation. Timestamps: 02:35 Attachment Theory Basics 05:14 Debunking Myths About Avoidant Attachment 06:20 Mason's Personal Experience 07:34 The Struggles of Avoidant Attachment 29:37 The Turning Point 36:03 Navigating Vulnerability and Avoidance 37:23 The Precious Gift of Self-Reflection 43:00 Embracing Emotional Presence 45:09 Balancing Coping Mechanisms 48:25 Facing Yourself and Overcoming Avoidance 51:24 The Power of Community Support 53:32 Resources and Final Thoughts Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic—it’s not the end. It’s an opportunity to reflect, rebuild, and reconnect. ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your essential guide to managing emotional distance, staying grounded, and creating clarity during this uncertain time. Get it here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore the 30-Day Roadmap: A step-by-step guide designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust in your relationship. Learn more here: https://stacibartley.com/30-day-roadmap/sales ✨ Discover All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the perfect fit to support your relationship journey. Explore here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Exclusive for Podcast Listeners: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock your special discount!…

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#209: Space in Your Relationship: Do’s, Don’ts, and the Answers You Need Most 57:30

منذ 9 weeks57:30

57:30

Send us a text It’s one of the most gut-wrenching moments in a relationship: your partner asks for space. You’re left reeling, questioning everything. Why does this hurt so much? Why can’t they just stay and work through it with me? What am I supposed to do now? In this special episode of Love Shack Live , we’re diving deep into what it really means when your partner asks for space, and why it’s not necessarily the end. With insights drawn from thousands of relationships, we’ll explore the anxious-avoidant dynamic, the emotional weight both partners carry, and how this painful moment can actually become a catalyst for transformation. We’ll answer your most pressing questions: Why does space feel so unbearable? What steps can you take to navigate this phase without losing yourself? How do you foster growth when everything feels uncertain? Whether you’re feeling anxious, avoidant, or just stuck, this episode offers practical strategies to stop spiraling, understand what’s really happening beneath the surface, and find your footing again. Because space isn’t just an ending, it can be the beginning of something new, something better. Let’s take the first step together. Timestamps: 02:36 Understanding the Anxious-Avoidant Paradox 03:20 Coping Mechanisms: Avoidant vs. Anxious 06:51 The Role of Space in Relationships 10:19 Navigating Emotional Pushups 14:31 The Importance of Self-Care and Boundaries 21:56 Building Interdependence in Relationships 26:20 Effective Communication Strategies 29:07 Navigating Space in Relationships 29:37 Cooling Off Period and Separation Agreement 30:41 Avoiding the Land of Maybe 31:06 Emotional Impact of Uncertainty 31:42 Creating a Separation Agreement 32:51 The Importance of a Plan During Space 37:02 Dealing with Strong Emotions 41:48 Coping with a Partner Seeing Someone Else 45:38 Letting Go and Self-Forgiveness 49:47 The Love In Limbo 30-Day Roadmap 50:53 Creating Fun and Relaxation in Relationships 53:38 Song of the Week: Grow as We Go by Ben Platt 54:49 Final Thoughts and Farewell Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic—it’s not the end. It’s an opportunity to reflect, rebuild, and reconnect. ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your essential guide to managing emotional distance, staying grounded, and creating clarity during this uncertain time. Get it here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore the 30-Day Roadmap: A step-by-step guide designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust in your relationship. Learn more here: https://stacibartley.com/30-day-roadmap/sales ✨ Discover All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the perfect fit to support your relationship journey. Explore here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Exclusive for Podcast Listeners: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock your special discount!…

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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#208: When They Say 'I Can't Do This Anymore': A Survival Guide for Your Breaking Heart 55:16

منذ 10 weeks55:16

55:16

Send us a text “I Can’t Do This Anymore” Few words can hit harder. In an instant, your world tilts. Your mind races, your heart pounds, and suddenly, you’re questioning everything. When your partner says they need space, it’s natural to spiral. But what if this isn’t the end? What if it’s a chance to rewrite your story? Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for anyone standing at the crossroads of their relationship. Hosted by relationship mentor Staci Bartley, alongside her husband Tom and daughter Brooke, we tackle the tough conversations and provide real, actionable tools to help you navigate even the hardest moments with clarity and confidence. In this episode, we’re cutting through the chaos of relationship crisis to uncover the deeper truths behind those painful words. You’ll learn: Why reacting in panic leads to regret, and what to do instead How to find hidden opportunities in your partner’s need for space The key to breaking free from the fear cycle that keeps you stuck Practical tools to rebuild emotional stability when everything feels uncertain This isn’t about gimmicks or chasing after someone who feels distant. It’s about slowing down, regaining control, and discovering why this moment, painful as it feels, might be the start of something transformative. What if the greatest challenge in your relationship was also the greatest invitation for growth? Let’s find out together. Subscribe now to join a community committed to building authentic, lasting love, one conversation at a time. Timestamps: 03:45 The Role of Fear in Relationships 04:40 Psychological Drivers of Fear 08:26 The Impact of Fear on Decision Making 22:03 The Importance of Emotional Safety 29:07 Distorted Beliefs and Radical Behavior 29:23 Facing Fear and Desperation 29:57 Common Distorted Thinking Patterns 30:47 Blaming and Personalizing 32:58 Catastrophizing and Generalizing 36:07 Tools to Manage Fear 40:40 Navigating Relationship Space 42:59 Transformative Shifts and Self-Discovery 46:35 Final Thoughts and Resources Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic—it’s not the end. It’s an opportunity to reflect, rebuild, and reconnect. ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your essential guide to managing emotional distance, staying grounded, and creating clarity during this uncertain time. Get it here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore the 30-Day Roadmap: A step-by-step guide designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust in your relationship. Learn more here: https://stacibartley.com/30-day-roadmap/sales ✨ Discover All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the perfect fit to support your relationship journey. Explore here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Exclusive for Podcast Listeners: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock your special discount!…

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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#207: The Antidote to Overthinking: What to Do When Your Partner Needs Space 56:57

منذ 11 weeks56:57

56:57

Send us a text When your partner asks for space, your thoughts can spiral into overdrive. You replay every conversation, overanalyze their actions, and question everything. It’s exhausting, and the more you think, the deeper you sink. To make it worse, you isolate yourself, convinced no one can understand your pain. But here’s the truth: isolation doesn’t protect you—it traps you. Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for anyone navigating relationship challenges. If daily conflict and growing emotional distance have left you feeling stuck, you’re in the right place. We’re here to help you find clarity, confidence, and connection—even in the hardest moments. In this episode, we’ll explore how overthinking and isolation fuel each other, keeping you stuck in a cycle of suffering. You’ll discover: Why isolating yourself after your partner asks for space makes overthinking worse. The hidden costs of trying to solve everything on your own. How community and connection offer the clarity you need to move forward. If you’re tired of the mental spiral and ready to find relief, this conversation is your lifeline. Join us as we break down the steps to escape the isolation trap and build a foundation of strength and support. Timestamps: 02:01 The Dangers of Isolation 03:45 Breaking Free from Isolation 07:44 The Power of Community 11:15 Signs of Too Much Isolation 19:32 Challenges of Talking to Friends and Family 23:41 Making Empowered Decisions 25:49 Embracing Community for Healing 27:42 The Power of Diverse Communities 28:23 Emotional Intelligence and Problem Solving 29:11 The Importance of Feeling Included 29:53 The Role of Emotional Support 33:20 Confidentiality and Trust 34:35 The Joy and Celebration in Community 35:54 One-on-One vs. Group Support 42:54 The Roadmap Experience 44:52 Encouragement to Join the Community 51:15 Active Listening Challenge 54:18 Final Thoughts and Farewell Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic—it’s not the end. It’s an opportunity to reflect, rebuild, and reconnect. ✨ Download the Separation Survival Kit: Your essential guide to managing emotional distance, staying grounded, and creating clarity during this uncertain time. Get it here: https://stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/optin ✨ Explore the 30-Day Roadmap: A step-by-step guide designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust in your relationship. Learn more here: https://stacibartley.com/30-day-roadmap/sales ✨ Discover All Our Programs: From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the perfect fit to support your relationship journey. Explore here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Exclusive for Podcast Listeners: Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock your special discount!…

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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#206: Your Partner Needs Space—Here’s How to Handle It Without Falling Apart 48:25

منذ 12 weeks48:25

48:25

Send us a text You felt the divide long before it was spoken. The missed glances. The quiet tension. Then the words you dreaded: “I think I need space.” Your stomach drops. Panic sets in. You’ve tried everything—giving more, doing more, being more. And now, it feels like the end. But what if it’s not? What if this moment, as painful as it feels, is an opportunity? Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for those at a relationship crossroads—where conflict feels constant, emotional gaps grow wider, and the desire for something real and lasting remains strong. In today’s episode, we tackle the pivotal moment when a partner asks for space. What does it really mean? Is it the beginning of the end—or the start of something new? Together, we’ll explore: Why “I need space” is often a cry for self-reflection, not failure. Practical ways to honor your partner’s need for distance without losing yourself. How to transform this time into an opportunity for clarity, growth, and deeper connection. This isn’t about panic or quick fixes. It’s about stepping into empowerment, uncovering truths, and building the foundation for something stronger—whether within your relationship or yourself. Let’s dive in. Your story isn’t over. It’s just beginning. Timestamps: 02:39 The Role of Self-Reflection and Overwhelm 04:37 The Importance of Relationship Skills 07:43 Debunking Myths About Needing Space 12:04 Managing Panic and Anxiety 17:41 Establishing Agreements During Separation 24:04 Managing Panic and Regret 24:27 Focusing on Yourself 25:41 Understanding and Managing Emotions 27:44 Breathing Techniques for Calm 29:16 Finding Productive Distractions 33:06 Emotional Regulation and Communication 38:07 The 30 Day Roadmap 43:46 Nature's Healing Power 45:17 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic—it’s not the end. It’s an opportunity to reflect, rebuild, and reconnect. ✨ Explore the 30-Day Roadmap : A step-by-step guide designed to help you navigate emotional distance, honor your partner’s need for space, and rebuild trust in your relationship. Learn more here: https://stacibartley.com/30-day-roadmap/sales ✨ Discover All Our Programs : From expert mentorship to proven strategies, find the perfect fit to support your relationship journey. Explore here: https://stacibartley.com/programs/index/ 🎉 Exclusive for Podcast Listeners : Use the code LOVESHACK15 at checkout to unlock your special discount! Take this moment as a chance to grow—both individually and together. ❤️…

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

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#205: Holiday Chaos? Here’s How to Protect Your Peace (and Your Relationship) 1:00:39

منذ 14 weeks1:00:39

1:00:39

Send us a text The holidays are supposed to be a time of love and togetherness, but for many couples, they’re anything but. Maybe you’re dreading that family dinner, knowing the cracks in your relationship will feel like they’re under a microscope. Or perhaps you’re bracing for the political debates, old family patterns, or conversations that could leave you and your partner feeling even more disconnected. Sound familiar? Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for anyone standing at a relationship crossroads. If you’re facing daily conflicts, feeling an emotional gap growing between you and your partner, or struggling to protect your relationship in the chaos of family gatherings, you’ve come to the right place. In this episode, we’re answering the question: How can you protect your relationship and create connection during the holidays, even when tensions run high? Here’s what you’ll take away: How holiday stress can amplify tensions in your relationship—and what to do about it. Real strategies for navigating triggers, setting boundaries, and staying emotionally grounded. Tips for managing family dynamics without dragging your relationship into the fray. Ideas for creating new traditions that honor your relationship and where you are now. We know the holidays can shine a spotlight on the cracks in your relationship. But they can also be an opportunity to show up differently, protect your peace, and strengthen your bond. Press play now for tools and strategies to walk into this season with clarity, connection, and confidence—no matter what’s waiting at the dinner table. Timestamps: 02:49 Understanding Contrast in Relationships 10:55 Emotional Vulnerability During Holidays 15:18 Managing Expectations and Planning 24:18 Creating New Traditions 28:43 Handling Emotional Triggers 31:11 A Thanksgiving Disaster 34:16 Managing Holiday Stress 37:40 Effective Communication Strategies 41:47 Handling Difficult Conversations 50:26 Redirecting and Structuring Conversations 53:13 Final Tips and Takeaways 56:45 Holiday Wishes and Announcements And for those ready to take their journey even further, join our waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce at stacibartley.com/waitlist and be the first to know when we open enrollment! (We will have a special offer for podcast listeners!)…

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#204: Are You Being Manipulated—or Are You the Manipulator? 59:13

منذ 15 weeks59:13

59:13

Send us a text Ever feel like you’re walking on eggshells, second-guessing every word you say or action you take in your relationship? Or maybe you notice a quiet tension—like something unspoken is driving your connection further apart. Here’s the uncomfortable truth: manipulation often hides in plain sight. And it’s not just them—it’s us, too. Welcome to Love Shack Live , the podcast for anyone at a relationship crossroads. If you’re stuck in daily conflicts or feeling a growing emotional gap, we’re here to help you rebuild a bond that’s real, lasting, and built on mutual respect. We’ve guided thousands of couples to rediscover connection—and we’re here to guide you, too. In this episode, we’re uncovering the often-overlooked dynamics of manipulation. What does it look like in your relationship? Why does it happen even when your intentions are good? And how can you break free from it without sacrificing what you need? Together, we’ll explore: The surprising ways manipulation sneaks into everyday interactions. How it damages emotional safety and connection over time. Practical, actionable steps to communicate clearly, ask for what you need, and rebuild trust. Ready to let go of the silent power struggles and create the honest, loving connection you deserve? Press play—this is the conversation your relationship needs. Timestamps: 03:37 Forms of Manipulation 06:43 The Power Dynamics of Manipulation 24:17 Personal Story: Manipulation in Action 30:52 Recognizing Subtle Manipulation in Relationships 30:58 The Blame Game: Self-Doubt and Manipulation 33:21 Creating Doubt: The Ice Cream Parlor Example 35:17 The Power of Asking Directly 37:26 Understanding and Overcoming Manipulation 40:06 The Importance of Honest Conversations 42:36 Empowering Yourself to Ask for What You Need 45:18 The Impact of Manipulation on Relationships 53:06 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Events And for those ready to take their journey even further, join our waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce at stacibartley.com/waitlist and be the first to know when we open enrollment! (We will have a special offer for podcast listeners!)…

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