Understanding Attachment Styles, Emotional Intelligence and Intimacy in Relationships with Brian Yang

The Flynn Skidmore Podcast

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All About Change

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Chris Nowinski - Protecting Athletes from Head Injuries & Preventing CTE 27:28

منذ 6 أيام27:28

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Chris Nowinski is a former football player at Harvard University and professional wrestler with WWE, World Wrestling Entertainment. After enduring a career-ending head injury, Chris has dedicated his professional life to serving patients and families affected by brain trauma, particularly Chronic traumatic encephalopathy, or CTE, a progressive neurodegenerative disease that develops after repeated head injuries. Jay and Chris discuss the state of head injuries in American athletics, the difference between advocating for head safety at youth and professional levels, Chris’ newest research, and much more. Episode Chapters (00:00) Intro (00:50) changes in the culture around concussions in the past two decades (02:39) padded helmet technology (03:55) concussion reporting in the NFL (10:35) Chris’ career path and concussion history (14:52) connecting with activists who haven’t themselves suffered a traumatic brain injury (17:42) SHAAKE - a new sign to identify concussions (20:53) Unions can help players advocate for safety policies (23:10) final thoughts and goodbye For video episodes, watch on www.youtube.com/@therudermanfamilyfoundation Stay in touch: X: @JayRuderman | @RudermanFdn LinkedIn: Jay Ruderman | Ruderman Family Foundation Instagram: All About Change Podcast | Ruderman Family Foundation To learn more about the podcast, visit https://allaboutchangepodcast.com/…

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In this episode, my guest is Brian Yang, @awakeningwithbrian, a transformational coach. Brian helps people heal the deepest emotional wounds that block them from fulfilling relationships, using SIBS, which is the synergy of somatic work, inner child work, and breathwork.
Brian describes his childhood and capacity for emotional intelligence, the opportunity for deeper intimacy in relationships, anxious and avoidant attachment, and unconscious attachment patterns. He also discusses growth in his relationship, sexual energy, chasing life’s extremes as a form of suppressed trauma, plant medicine, inner acceptance, and shining light on the darkness in life.
This conversation offers an incredible perspective on emotional intelligence in men, the complexity of attachment styles, sexual intimacy in relationships, and the unconscious patterns of awareness and avoidance.
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The Flynn Skidmore Podcast

Understanding Attachment Styles, Emotional Intelligence and Intimacy in Relationships with Brian Yang

The Flynn Skidmore Podcast

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Ways That I Can Help You
Subscribe to my relationships and purpose newsletter where I give you the tools and frameworks to take action on everything you want in your life in under 5 minutes.
Instagram
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Connect with Brian:

Submit your written reviews to THIS form to be entered into a giveaway to win a 30 min session with me! We'll pull 1 winner at the end of the month.

1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here.

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#Fitness #Society #Relationship #Self-Improvement #Mental Health #Flynn Skidmore #Podcasting Education

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The Emotion You Fear Most 21:31

منذ 13 weeks21:31

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What It's Like to Want to Die 27:55

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منذ 15 weeks19:14

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In this episode, I guide you through a powerful meditation designed to help your desires feel safe to grow and flourish. I’ll help you create a space where you can explore what you truly want, hold space for the fears that may arise, and transform them with warmth and tenderness. This practice allows you to connect with your desires, understand their potential, and create an environment where they can thrive. This meditation is an invitation to expand your capacity to hold both your dreams and the fears that accompany them. By cultivating “smiling energy” throughout your body and extending it to your desires and fears, you’ll learn how to create safety within yourself, unlocking greater potential for growth and fulfillment in your life.…

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منذ 16 weeks35:17

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منذ 17 weeks47:09

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In this episode, we explore the journey of becoming someone who genuinely inspires yourself. I share my personal transformation from relying on fear-based motivation to cultivating a life of true self-inspiration, highlighting both the struggles and revelations along the way. We dive into: Owning Your Desires: Why aligning with what you genuinely want can shift everything. Self-Actualization and Collective Growth: How your personal growth impacts the world around you. From Manipulation to Inspiration: Moving from needing approval to becoming a source of inspiration for yourself. Through practical insights and reflective musings, we navigate the balance between ego-driven goals and actions motivated by love. I challenge hierarchical thinking in personal development, introducing a horizontal approach where love and fear coexist without judgment. This episode encourages you to move from seeking external validation to finding internal alignment. By viewing mistakes as growth opportunities and detaching from specific outcomes, you can build a life that not only fulfills and inspires you but also contributes to the collective awakening of our shared world. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here .…

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The Power of Self-Love: Beyond What You Think, Into What You Feel 33:56

منذ 19 weeks33:56

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منذ 21 weeks28:15

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From Energy to Matter: Creating Reality with Intention 32:53

منذ 22 weeks32:53

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The Energy of Creation: Aligning Actions with Long-Term Vision (Pt. 2) 47:38

منذ 23 weeks47:38

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In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of creating our desires in life. I explore how our general orientation, like my goal of becoming 100% love, guides our actions and shapes our journey. I emphasize the importance of embracing the tension between our current state and our aspirations, viewing it as a space for creation and growth. We discuss the rhythm of creation - birth, maintenance, and death - and how honoring each stage is crucial for sustainable progress and energy management. I also share personal insights on overcoming the need for instant validation and "beginner's luck." Instead, I advocate for identifying as an evolutionary being, focusing on long-term growth and the compounding effects of consistent action. I reflect on my own journey, moving away from seeking external validation of my "specialness" to valuing the slow, beautiful process of evolution. Ultimately, I encourage you to evaluate you actions based on whether they provide energy for producing results or deplete it, making this approach a fundamental aspect of how I live my life. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here .…

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منذ 24 weeks24:32

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منذ 24 weeks38:54

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منذ 26 weeks32:34

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How Two People Grow Within a Relationship 20:47

منذ 27 weeks20:47

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The Relationship Between Art and Honesty 27:16

منذ 28 weeks27:16

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In this episode, I follow up on last week’s topics of superiority and inferiority and share my growth since. I speak about into the concept of empowerment and the journey from perceiving relationships vertically to embracing horizontal connections. I explore the realization that safety and genuine connection come from allowing ourselves to be seen horizontally by others. This shift in perspective has transformed my creative process, enabling me to operate with a more nourishing worldview. I also discuss my decision to no longer identify as a therapist and what that opens up for me in terms of artistry. Inspired by a documentary on Rick Rubin, I reflect on the idea that true art creates change and examine the potency of value and impact in the world. Throughout the episode, I share my thoughts on honesty, transparency, and the transformative power of art. I touch on the role of alter egos in artistic expression and the importance of sharing one's psyche openly to foster change and evolution. Join me as I navigate these complex themes and express my appreciation for the supportive community that allows me to explore these ideas freely. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here .…

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Self Worth and the Inferiority/Superiority Complex 42:14

منذ 29 weeks42:14

42:14

In this episode, I dive deep into the personal journey of understanding and transforming my internal concept of worth and value. I explore the idea of being seen as the "best option" and how it has influenced my actions and relationships. Through a reflective process, I discuss the importance of shifting from a vertical, hierarchical mindset to a more horizontal, interconnected view of relationships and self-worth. I share insights from conversations with friends and personal reflections that led me to question my need for superiority and how it can be transformed into lightness and mutual respect. By examining my fears and aspirations, I aim to cultivate a new self-concept rooted in compassion, creativity, and joy. Join me as I navigate the complexities of personal growth and self-acceptance, and explore how we can all contribute to a more evolved and harmonious world by embracing our imperfections and striving for genuine connection. This episode is a raw and honest look at the ongoing journey of self-discovery and transformation. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here .…

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