How Not Learning Self Regulation Destroys Relationship

Trigger Proof Transmissions (Cyclebreaker Collective)

Just had this question:

“I have these mood swings that when I am feeling down,

I feel I need to shut down and stay away from humans until I can regulate. It could take me a good couple of hours to days to feel like myself again.

My ex-husband complained about this and my current partner complained about the same thing and he never met my ex.

Why is this a problem to anyone when I feel I need to shut down.

I need to be alone, how is that hurting anyone?

Or how else can I work over this?

I am not at my best self when I am in these states and I don’t want to create negative or shameful memories with people while I am at it.

Also it is not anybody’s burden to make me feel better.

I feel worse when I feel I am stressing someone out.”

On this call I unpack this entire question.

Without learning these 5 shifts—

I was doomed to keep repeating the cycle—

And that’s why I’m so keen on teaching these to this community.
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
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