Host Leon Neyfakh transports listeners into the day-to-day reality of our country's most pivotal historical events, bringing to life the forgotten twists and turns of the past while shedding light on the present. Benghazi unpacks the 2012 attack in Libya that left four Americans dead, including Ambassador Chris Stevens—and the ensuing political storm, which raised questions about America’s role in the world, established a playbook to weaponize attention in the social media age, and ultimately changed the course of U.S. history. Iran-Contra exposes a secret war, a secret deal, and a scandal that threatened to destroy Ronald Reagan’s presidency—until it didn’t. Bush v. Gore recounts what happened during the contested 2000 election between Al Gore and George W. Bush, and the extraordinary legal battle that unfolded in Florida. Subscribe to Pushkin+ to hear the entire season of Fiasco: Benghazi, ad-free. Find Pushkin+ on the Fiasco show page in Apple Podcasts or at Pushkin.fm. Subscribe on Apple: apple.co/pushkin Subscribe on Pushkin: pushkin.fm/plus
Andrew, an aspiring dad, and Paul, a dad of two, dig deep to find out what it means to be/become the best dad possible, why it matters, and how to do so.
Andrew, an aspiring dad, and Paul, a dad of two, dig deep to find out what it means to be/become the best dad possible, why it matters, and how to do so.
Why play matters : Play is how kids communicate their inner world. It’s not just fun—it’s expressive, healing, and relational. Responding vs. reacting : How slowing down and tuning in builds trust and emotional regulation. Connection before correction : When children act out, it’s often a bid for connection—not defiance. Scheduled unstructured time : Just 15–30 minutes of fully present, screen-free play each week can transform your parent-child relationship. The bedtime battle decoded : Why your kid isn’t actually “hungry”—they just want you near. Repetition as revelation : Repetitive play often reveals emotional needs or stressors. Father-daughter bonds : Why a dad’s role in a daughter’s life is especially formative for her confidence and sense of worth. Parent repair moments : It's not about being perfect—it’s about coming back later to reconnect and repair when you miss the mark. Creating playful structure : Code words, rituals, and small gestures go a long way in strengthening bonds. LINKS: https://center4playtherapy.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidschatzkamer/…
Takeaways Showing up means being present physically and mentally. It's important to take time for yourself before engaging with family. Micro moments of presence can be just as impactful as macro moments. Barriers to showing up include work stress and distractions. Creating routines can help facilitate being present. Apologizing to children strengthens the parent-child bond. Modeling behavior for kids teaches them how to show up. Intentionality in parenting is crucial for connection. Finding balance between work and family is a constant challenge. Showing up is a journey of progress, not perfection. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood Challenges 02:03 Defining 'Showing Up' as a Parent 06:01 Personal Routines for Effective Parenting 10:05 Micro vs. Macro Moments of Showing Up 14:00 Barriers to Showing Up 19:58 Strategies for Overcoming Obstacles 24:19 Morning Rituals and Intentionality 27:18 The Importance of Presence and Connection 30:05 Family Time: Prioritizing Relationships 37:20 Overcoming Barriers to Showing Up 41:13 Moments of Pride in Showing Up 45:12 Modeling Presence for Future Generations…
What We Talk About: What parenting a teenager teaches you about emotional honesty Rebuilding your creative life as a form of self-care How small acts of art can create connection Giving your kids permission to see you as human Balancing business, boundaries, and being present Creating without pressure and parenting without perfection Resources & Mentions: PodcastConnections.co — Noémi’s podcast booking service Noémi’s return to mixed media art (discussed throughout the episode) This Week’s Gentle Nudge: Make something this week—just for yourself. A doodle, a note, a playlist. Let your kid see you do it.…
👵 Why involved grandparents can boost kids’ confidence, social skills, and emotional wellbeing 🎯 The gap between how you want to parent and how your parents might grandparent 🧁 The power of Sunday muffins, last-minute babysitting, and everyday grandparent magic 💬 What happens when expectations go unspoken and why clear communication is everything 🫱 Creating space for healthy boundaries with extended family 🧠 Acknowledging tricky situations like loss, distance, or toxic relationships with grace 🧓 Legacy and connection: how grandparents, aunts, uncles, and “chosen family” teach kids they’re loved and lovable 🧑🍳 A story about a restaurant run by Italian nonnas… and why food is cultural memory 🎣 Fishing trips, life advice, and the simple power of being present Big Ideas “It takes a village” isn’t just a saying—it’s a challenge to build one Relationships are the foundation. Connection is the goal Communicate early, clearly, and with empathy—especially when integrating parenting styles Show up. Be present. That’s enough…
🔗 Connect with Matt Edmundson Website & Full Bio mattedmundson.com LinkedIn Accessible via his site, but confirmed: linkedin.com/in/mattedmundson Instagram @mattedmundson The eCommerce Podcast (hosted by Matt) Also widely available on Spotify and other platforms
🧠 Topics Covered: What gentle parenting actually means The difference between permissive and respectful Why “being the adult” doesn’t mean being the boss Handling triggers without shame How we model emotional regulation Where we’ve gotten it wrong—and what we’ve learned Why connection gives your discipline more power 🎯 This episode is for: Dads trying to be intentional but overwhelmed Parents unsure about the “soft” stuff Anyone who’s yelled then regretted it Folks wondering if respectful parenting is too nice…
🔑 What We Talk About: Why “being there” isn’t always easy, but it always matters How dads carry pressure to fix things instead of just be there The pilot-in-turbulence metaphor that redefined Nick’s parenting mindset Learning to shift from resentment to gratitude in daily chaos Accepting failure and showing your kids that love is consistent, not perfect 💥 This Week’s Challenge: Next time you walk into chaos after a long day, take a breath. Instead of trying to fix everything, try just being present — tired, imperfect, but available. 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Find Why, Dad? on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream your podcasts. Follow us on Instagram @whydadpod for real dad talk, one post at a time.…
What We Talk About: 🧠 Why mental health maintenance (not just crisis response) is essential 🥦 How nutrition, sleep, and blood sugar affect emotional regulation 🏋️ The connection between movement, play, and showing up well as a dad 🧃 Why your discipline slips when your energy does 💬 Modeling emotional health for your kids by doing your own inner work 🎯 Letting go of shame and starting small when building healthy habits Quotes from the Episode: “We think discipline is about our kids—but we need it for ourselves first.” “You can’t regulate your kid’s nervous system if yours is shot from no sleep and four donuts.” “Therapy isn’t a fix button. It’s maintenance for the mind.” This Week’s Challenge: Take inventory of one area: sleep, nutrition, movement, or emotional processing. What’s one step you could take this week to support your health so you can better support your family?…
🔑 What We Talk About: 👴 Parenting for 40, not just for 18 ⚖️ Punishment vs. consequences — and why they're not the same 🧠 Why the best parenting moments happen after the meltdown 🎯 How to raise kids who love learning and trust their own reasoning 📚 What we get wrong about grades, homework, and school 🤐 Why discipline in the moment usually fails 💬 How to model curiosity and emotional regulation as a parent 📚 Resources & Mentions: Jon’s Book: Punishment-Free Parenting Jon’s Site: wholeparentacademy.com Viktor Frankl – Man’s Search for Meaning Topics touched: gentle parenting, emotional development, AI and learning, curiosity in education 💥 This Week’s Challenge: Try not reacting in the moment. Instead of disciplining during a meltdown, wait until everyone’s calm — then connect, ask questions, and parent from a place of intention. 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Find Why, Dad? on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share it with a friend or fellow parent.…
In this episode, Paul and Andrew dig into one of the most powerful (and often under-discussed) parenting skills: teaching our kids how to think . From silly moments like mistaking cows for horses to deeper reflections on autonomy and identity, they explore how critical thinking shows up in everyday parenting—and how easy it is to accidentally shut it down. You’ll hear personal stories, lots of questions, and practical ways to help raise thoughtful, independent kids in a world full of easy answers. What We Talk About: Why “those are cows” might not be the best response The difference between teaching kids what to think vs. how to think Why asking questions matters more than giving answers How to stay curious (especially when you feel triggered) Using play (like checkers and chess) to build logical thinking The difference between opinions, beliefs, and convictions The value of letting kids be wrong—and figure it out for themselves Resources & Mentions: Socratic Method overview (Wikipedia) Checkers and chess — discussed as tools for developing consequence-based decision making and critical reasoning This Week's Challenge: This week, try replacing one correction with a curious question. Instead of “That’s wrong,” ask, “Why do you think that?” — and see where it leads. Share your stories with us on Facebook or Instagram Be sure to subscribe on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , or wherever you listen. Leave a rating if you’re enjoying the show — it helps more dads join the conversation.…
Disclaimer: Please don't close your eyes as instructed if you are driving or doing anything else dangerous. In this episode of the Why, Dad? Podcast, we explore the transformative power of gratitude and how it shapes us as fathers. "Putting the Gratitude in Attitude: The Power of a Gratitude Mindset" dives into the essential role gratitude plays in our lives, from strengthening our parenting to improving our personal well-being. Join us as we discuss practical ways to embrace a gratitude mindset, the lessons we’re passing on to our children, and why this mindset isn’t just a feel-good word—it’s a life-changing habit. Whether you’re new to the podcast or a regular listener, you won’t want to miss this enriching conversation on living with intention, positivity, and thankfulness.…
Disclaimer: expect some minor audio issues due to one of our hosts calling in from a remote location. In this episode, Paul and Andrew dive into a thought-provoking clip from a popular parenting influencer, where the idea that parents shouldn’t teach their kids "what" to learn, but instead create an environment where they can discover "what they want to learn," is explored. This leads to a deep discussion about the role of fathers in guiding their children. Should we just get out of the way and let kids figure it all out, or is there a balance between giving them autonomy and imparting essential life lessons? Join the guys as they reflect on the nuanced idea of parenthood — sharing their thoughts on humility, the power of learning through guidance, and how to cultivate curiosity while instilling values. Whether you're a father, aspiring dad, or simply contemplating what it means to raise children in today’s unpredictable world, this episode offers insightful perspectives on being the best version of yourself as a parent. Don't miss out on this candid conversation about growth, wisdom, and the fine art of letting go. Let us know how you approach teaching your kids and creating that balance in your own lives!…
What does it mean to prepare for fatherhood before it even begins? In this episode, Paul and Andrew explore the journey of an aspiring dad—Andrew's personal reflections on his desire to become a father, the challenges of preparing for that role, and the intentional steps he's taking to become the best version of himself. From discussing the influence of their own fathers to the values and habits that shape a strong future dad, this conversation offers a unique perspective for both seasoned fathers and men contemplating fatherhood. How do you prepare for something so life-changing? When is the right time? And what qualities truly matter when searching for a life partner to build a family with? Join us for an honest, insightful, and sometimes humorous discussion on the hopes, fears, and growth that come with aspiring to be a dad. 💬 Share your thoughts, questions, and experiences with us—we’d love to hear from you! 📌 Follow, like, and subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, growth, and becoming the best version of yourself.…
In this behind the scenes episode of 'Why, Dad?', Paul and Andrew dive into one of the biggest milestones in parenthood—welcoming a new child into the family. Paul opens up about the birth of his son, Liam, and reflects on the emotions, challenges, and joys of transitioning from a family of three to four. They discuss the mix of relief and excitement, the struggles of early parenthood, and how older siblings adapt to a new baby in the house. The conversation also touches on postpartum emotions for dads, the evolving bond between father and child, and the importance of staying on course through life's inevitable upheavals. Whether you're a new dad, expecting, or just curious about the raw realities of parenting, this episode is full of honest reflections, humor, and wisdom.…
Habits shape who we are, whether we realize it or not. In this episode, Paul and Andrew break down the science of habits, why they matter, and how to leverage them to take control of your life. From battling the 'whack-a-mole' cycle of self-improvement to stacking small wins for big success, they share practical tips for building better habits and breaking bad ones.…
What separates those who thrive from those who are stuck drifting aimlessly or in an unending loop of failed habits? One word: Grit. In this episode, Paul and Andrew peel back the onion of resilience—what it is, why it matters, and how we can develop it in ourselves and our kids. Learn practical ways to help push through challenges, embrace failure, and build grit.…
In this introspective and relatable episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew dive into a question that many of us have asked ourselves: What are you doing with your life? Through candid conversation and lighthearted banter, they explore what it means to find purpose, align your actions with your values, and navigate the chaos of life with intention. Whether you're feeling stuck, seeking direction, or just curious how others approach this timeless question, this episode will leave you feeling inspired and ready to tackle life with renewed focus.…
Get ready to dive deep into the powerful concept of responsibility with Andrew and Paul on this episode of the "Why Dad?" podcast! Forget the boring old definitions – they're tackling responsibility as a game-changer for both personal growth and raising awesome kids.
This episode of the Why Dad Podcast dives deep into the profound idea of fatherhood as both a legacy and a responsibility. Hosts Paul and Andrew explore what it truly means to build something that endures, not just for your children, but for their children's children and beyond. Whether you're a seasoned dad, considering fatherhood, or simply striving to be a better man, this conversation will challenge your perspective on what it means to leave your mark. They discuss moving beyond the traditional concept of legacy and instead focus on the intentional cultivation of character, values, and principles that shape future generations. This episode will inspire you to consider the ripple effect of your actions and how you can actively contribute to a better future, starting with yourself and your family.…
Andrew Stolpestad and Paul Wandrey, long-time friends and practically brothers, launch the 'Why Dad?' podcast. Aimed at helping themselves and others navigate the challenges and joys of fatherhood, the podcast addresses key questions about raising children, self-improvement, and building a supportive community for dads and aspiring dads. Andrew, aspiring to be a father, and Paul, a father of a three-year-old with another on the way, share their personal stories, values, and experiences. They hope to offer guidance, resources, and a sense of fellowship to dads who might feel isolated or unsupported. The first episode discusses motivation, discipline, and virtues essential for personal and parental success.…
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