Sex in Marriage is Like Eggnog in Your Coffee

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Here in the Northwest, eggnog is a big deal. We start seeing it mid-September, and get it well into January. Lori and I love having eggnog in our morning coffee, especially with a bit of gingerbread flavour. It’s the best coffee we have all year, and we look forward to it and enjoy it to the max when we can.

So what does that have to do with sex? Don’t worry, it’s not that kind of post!

We always enjoy our coffee. We started late in life drinking coffee, and it took awhile to learn how to avoid making a bad cup. But with practice, we got there. We try new things from time to time, often imitating the special at our favourite coffee place. Those experiments don’t always work out well, but we have learned what we really like, and we have plenty of that.

Great sex takes time. No one is good at it from the get-go. You may enjoy early sex because it’s new and exciting and with someone you really love, but for the most part, early sex is poor sex. Learning how to never have bad sex takes time and practice. You can learn new things to try from various sources, which will be hit or miss. But once you know what you like, you can have plenty of that.

Part of this is learning how to read each session. What works when you’re tired or stressed? What time of the month is conducive to extraordinary sex? When should intercourse be off the menu, and when might multiple orgasms be on it?

~ Paul – I’m XY, and both eggnog and sex rock!

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