#350 - The Courage to Be Disliked

The Strong Stoic Podcast

“The courage to be happy also includes the courage to be disliked. When you choose to live authentically, you inevitably invite criticism.” — The Courage to Be Disliked
In today’s social media-driven world, the desire to be liked by everyone can become an overwhelming force that shapes our thoughts, actions, and identity.
But The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga argues that true freedom and happiness come not from being liked but from living authentically — even if it means facing rejection. The book, based on the psychological theories of Alfred Adler, teaches readers how to break free from the chains of external validation and embrace a life rooted in personal values.
This episode explores the idea that living a meaningful life requires courage — specifically, the courage to be disliked.
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