Gate 4 - Trying to always “Figure It Out” IS the problem

The Gates in Real Life: Human Design & Gene Keys for Purpose Driven Coaches

What if the answers you're chasing are the very thing pulling you out of alignment?

In this episode, we dive deep into Gate 4 – the Gate of Formulization – through the lens of Human Design, the Gene Keys, and the lived experience of coaches navigating growth.

This gate is obsessed with logic, certainty, and solution-making… but the real medicine lies in what happens after the mind runs out of formulas.

We explore how this gate's shadow of intolerance shows up in business, life, and our nervous systems... and how the gift of understanding and the siddhi of forgiveness invite us into a radical release of judgment, control, and mental gymnastics.

This one's for you if you're:

• Always trying to figure it out
• Craving certainty in your strategy, message, or next move
• Ready to trust your body more than your thoughts
• Bumping up against logic but longing for freedom

We talk real-life applications in client work, how conditioning around “right answers” keeps you stuck, and what Gate 4 can teach you about creating a business rooted in trust, softness, and truth.

Warning: this episode might challenge everything your mind believes about success.

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