S3 E8 Cellular Success: How to Thrive When Your Boss Doesn't Get You (Part 2)

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PART 2

"Purpose doesn't mean ease. It means endurance." These powerful words from Dr. Mariska Adams-Cadogon perfectly capture the essence of this deeply moving conversation about professional resilience, authentic leadership, and finding your way through challenging workplace dynamics.
Dr. Cadogon takes us on an extraordinary journey through her transition from chiropractor to educator, revealing how she became a fierce advocate for Black and Brown students while navigating environments where her methods and successes were often questioned. With remarkable candor, she describes experiences where colleagues attempted to undermine her—even accusing her of cheating when her students performed well—and shares the wisdom she's gained about maintaining authenticity without becoming bitter.
The conversation takes a profound turn as Dr. Cadogon opens up about her personal health battles, including a breast cancer diagnosis and recent medical challenges that required FMLA leave. Rather than viewing these obstacles as setbacks, she frames them as necessary parts of her journey: "Anything I go through, I'm going through for someone else, so they can see the process and come out victoriously." Her visualization techniques for seeing herself beyond current difficulties offer powerful tools for anyone facing adversity.
Perhaps most compelling is Dr. Cadogon biological metaphor for toxic workplace dynamics: "You cannot have dead tissue adjacent to living tissue without causing harm." This insight provides a framework for understanding when to persist through challenges and when removal from harmful environments becomes necessary for survival and growth.
As she reflects on her formative years at Bennett College and looks toward future projects, including a book on building self-confidence Dr. Cadogon emphasizes the importance of pursuing joy and finding balance. Her philosophy—"Weebles wobble but they don't fall down"—encapsulates the resilience that has carried her through professional challenges, health crises, and personal growth.
Have you found yourself questioning whether to stay in a difficult workplace situation? Are you struggling to maintain your authentic self while navigating professional challenges? This episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical insights for anyone seeking to thrive rather than merely survive in their career journey.

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1. Introduction to Dr. Mariska Adams-Kadogan (00:00:00)

2. Advocating for Black and Brown Boys (00:07:13)

3. Every Child Has Special Needs (00:13:54)

4. When Others Question Your Magic (00:26:12)

5. Health Challenges and Personal Resilience (00:39:21)

6. Dead Tissue Adjacent to Living Tissue (00:47:46)

7. Bennett College and Embracing Gifts (00:55:31)

8. Finding Balance and Future Projects (01:02:06)