432: Choosing the ‘Best Yes’ For Your Family

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

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Andrianna Natsoulas: Don't Cage Our Oceans 40:50

منذ 8 أيام40:50

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“That's taxpayer’s money that is going to support research and development and pilot projects to develop a food system that is based on environmental destruction and greed and disregard for animals, fish, and any of the other marine mammals that might be around it.” - Andrianna Natsoulas Andrianna Natsoulas is the campaign director for Don't Cage Our Oceans, an organization that exists to keep our oceans free from industrial fish farms. Offshore finfish farming is the mass cultivation of finfish in marine waters, in underwater or floating net pens, pods, and cages. Offshore finfish farms are factory farms that harm public health, the environment, and local communities and economies that rely on the ocean and its resources. Don’t Cage Our Oceans are a coalition of diverse organizations working together to stop the development of offshore finfish farming in the United States through federal law, policies, and coalition building. And, although it is not yet happening, right now the US Administration and Congress are promoting this kind of farming, which would be nothing short of disastrous for the oceans, the planet and the people and animals who live here. dontcageouroceans.org…

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Today Karen is answering questions from moms juggling packed schedules, managing family commitments, and trying to make a little time for themselves! From balancing kids' activities with family time to learning when to say no, in this episode you’ll hear practical advice to help you protect your energy and prioritize what matters most. Pop in those earbuds or grab a basket of laundry to fold and let's figure out what your best "yes" is for this season.

Episode Recap:

- 3:57 Survival Guide to Motherhood is now available as an online course! Register today

- 6:14 My schedule is packed and I was recently asked to lead a group at church. I want to say no, but how can I?

- 8:37 I’m conflicted about travel sports - help!

- 12:31 I’m exhausted, how do I stay connected to my husband in this season of parenting?

- 15:42 How can I set boundaries now to avoid overcommitment in the future?

Scripture for Reflection:

Matthew 6:33 (NIV) "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Questions for Discussion:

How do you evaluate whether a commitment is a “best yes” for your family? What criteria do you use to make sure your commitments support your family’s well-being?
How can you ensure that your marriage remains a priority amidst the busyness of life? Is this easy for you or is it a struggle?
Karen talks about dividing your time into three categories: essentials, non-negotiables, and bonuses. How do you currently categorize your commitments? What activities or priorities fall into each category in your life? Are there any adjustments you feel called to make after reflecting on this concept?
What strategies can you implement to create intentional rest and unstructured family time in your weekly routine?

Resources:

Register for Survival Guide to Motherhood today: www.boaw.mom/SGTM Use coupon code THRIVE for your exclusive Wire Talk listener discount.
Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events
Join our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

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432: Choosing the ‘Best Yes’ For Your Family

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

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Episode Recap:

- 3:57 Survival Guide to Motherhood is now available as an online course! Register today

- 6:14 My schedule is packed and I was recently asked to lead a group at church. I want to say no, but how can I?

- 8:37 I’m conflicted about travel sports - help!

- 12:31 I’m exhausted, how do I stay connected to my husband in this season of parenting?

- 15:42 How can I set boundaries now to avoid overcommitment in the future?

Scripture for Reflection:

Matthew 6:33 (NIV) "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Questions for Discussion:

How do you evaluate whether a commitment is a “best yes” for your family? What criteria do you use to make sure your commitments support your family’s well-being?
How can you ensure that your marriage remains a priority amidst the busyness of life? Is this easy for you or is it a struggle?
Karen talks about dividing your time into three categories: essentials, non-negotiables, and bonuses. How do you currently categorize your commitments? What activities or priorities fall into each category in your life? Are there any adjustments you feel called to make after reflecting on this concept?
What strategies can you implement to create intentional rest and unstructured family time in your weekly routine?

Resources:

Register for Survival Guide to Motherhood today: www.boaw.mom/SGTM Use coupon code THRIVE for your exclusive Wire Talk listener discount.
Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events
Join our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

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456: Raising Kids with Unshakable Faith 46:38

منذ يومين46:38

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What is it like to raise children in the middle of a war? In this special episode, Karen sits down with Kimmie Saado, an American mom raising her five kids in Israel, to hear about the realities of life during conflict. From sirens and safe rooms to worshiping through fear, Kimmie shares how faith has anchored her family in uncertain times. Listen in as she encourages moms to raise up the next generation of Daniels—children who stand firm in faith, no matter the circumstances. Episode Recap: 1:26- Kimmie is an American mom raising five kids in Israel 3:03- How Kimmie and Sahar met and challenges of cross-cultural dating/engagement 7:50- What it’s like to lead a Bible tour company in Israel 13:20- Karen and Kimmie’s favorite places in Israel 15:45- what has it been like to raise children in a conflict zone? 19:39- how Kimmie’s son led their family in worship during moments of fear. 22:30- how faith-filled habits help equip our kids and others to stand firm in faith. 24:31- what does it mean to be a “Daniel”? 28:15- what Kimmie and Sahar are doing in the States this year 30:00- how Americans can pray and support the Jewish people right now 37:30- we have made God so small and our problems so big Scripture for Reflection: 2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV) “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.” Questions for Discussion: Kimmie shared a vivid story about responding to a bombing by shouting a Bible verse and also, how her son responded to bombing sirens with worship. How do you model turning to your faith in scary times? Do your kids get to witness that? What does it mean to raise a "Daniel" in today’s world? How can we instill resilience and faith in our children? Kimmie and her husband took intentional steps to prepare for challenges before those challenges arrived. How can we spiritually equip our families before trials come? Kimmie spoke about finding peace in God’s presence, even in uncertainty. What are some practical ways we can cultivate that kind of faith in our own lives? Resources: Last chance to register for the Soar Conference! Don’t procrastinate another day: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Check out Kimmie and Sahar’s company: Israel Bible Tours: https://www.israelbibletours.com/…

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455: Helping Moms Lead Their Families in Faith 15:46

منذ 9 أيام15:46

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Discipling our kids can feel like a big responsibility, but moms don’t have to do it alone! In this episode, the new BOAW Moms operations manager, Erin Mashaw, shares her journey in ministry and her passion for equipping parents to lead their children in faith. She opens up about her own experiences as a pastor’s kid, her years in church ministry, and the resources she’s excited to create to support moms. Tune in for encouragement that you absolutely can disciple your kids with confidence! Episode Recap: 1:10 - Erin is going to be a breakout session speaker at the Soar Conference 4:05 - True discipleship happens at home 5:25 - Moms are the faith catalyst in American homes right now 7:20 - During difficult times, we experience the deepest intimacy with God 8:48 - How do we trust God in the waiting and the what ifs? 10:40 - What can moms expect from you in your breakout session? 11:30 - Sign up for the Soar Conference! 12:15 - Fill your mind with truth through Scripture, worship, etc. Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 41:10 (NIV) – “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Questions for Discussion: Do you feel like the primary catalyst for your family’s faith journey? If so, do you resent your husband? Are you content in that role? How do you typically respond to uncertainty or fear in parenting? What helps you refocus on God’s truth? Erin talked about using worship music, scripture, and even meditation apps to combat anxiety—what are some ways you can incorporate these practices into your daily routine? What’s one step you can take this week to invite your spouse or children into a deeper faith walk alongside you? Resources: Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025 Barna study on the influence of moms in Christian homes: https://www.barna.com/research/moms-christians-households/…

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454: Raising Kind and Respectful Kids 30:42

منذ 16 يومًا30:42

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Raising kind and respectful kids feels like a lofty goal some days, but it's possible! Today Karen tackles your questions about guiding kids through friendship struggles, addressing disrespectful behavior, and teaching them to stay true to their values. Whether your child struggles with peer pressure, sibling dynamics, or showing respect at home, listen in for Karen’s practical wisdom and discipline strategies to shape your child’s heart for the long haul. Episode Recap: 5:45 - The Soar Conference is a chance to pour into your home, get signed up! 9:00 - My 8 year old is picking up bad behavior from friends, how do I influence her? 11:30 - Sometimes our kids have to learn the hard way 12:15 - My daughter changes her personality depending on who she’s with- how do I handle it? 17:30 - My husband and I have different approaches to parenting disrespect, what can we do? 23:35 - My child is so stubborn! How do I motivate her? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." Questions for Discussion: Have you felt like your influence as a mom is fading as your child’s friendships become more important? How do you navigate that shift? How do you encourage your child to stay true to who they are in different social settings? How do you handle discipline in a way that connects with your child’s personality? If you and your spouse differ in your parenting approaches, how have you worked toward unity? What has helped you get on the same page? For moms of green-wired children, what strategies have worked best in motivating them without overwhelming them? Resources: Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025 Our Parenting Together curriculum is FREE in the BOAW Moms app: [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Curious about your child’s personality “color”? Take the free quiz: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quiz…

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453: How to Parent a Sensitive Son By Encouraging His Strengths 22:52

منذ 23 يومًا22:52

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Today, we’re diving into your questions about parenting kids with melancholy personalities—from helping a 5-year-old navigate self-critical thoughts to encouraging a 10-year-old who always wants to leave the party early, to figuring out how to connect with a tween who keeps butting heads with you. If you’ve ever wondered how to better understand your child’s temperament and parent with both wisdom and grace, you’re in the right place. Episode Recap: 9:15 - My son can be so negative about himself, how can I coach him? 12:10 - My melancholy child always wants to leave events early - how would you approach this? 14:45 - We have to learn not to be embarrassed our kids behavior 15:40 - How do I build a better relationship with my blue son? 17:55 - Practice encouraging your son in his strengths 19:00 - How can I figure out my child’s personality color? Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 139:14 (NIV) – “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Questions for Discussion: How do you see your child’s temperament influencing their everyday experiences? What strengths do you notice in your child that may be hidden beneath their struggles? How can you shift your parenting approach to encourage and support, rather than correct, your child’s personality? What strategies have worked for you in connecting with a child who tends to be more withdrawn or self-critical? Are you praying for the Lord’s guidance so that you can parent your son according to his strengths? Resources: Register for the Soar Conference today: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Take the Colors Quiz for yourself or your child! https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quiz Download our FREE temperaments guide: www.boaw.mom/colors Pick up the book A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring https://amzn.to/40QLoaO…

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452: How to Build a Stronger Bond with Your Daughter – With Sandra Stanley & Allie Cooney 38:26

منذ 30 يومًا38:26

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This week on Wire Talk, we welcome Sandra Stanley and her daughter Allie Cooney, co-authors of Meet Me in the Middle, a book designed to help moms and daughters build strong, faith-filled relationships. Sandra and Allie share lessons from their own relationship, and insights from their book—covering everything from communication struggles to the challenges of raising (and being) a teen girl today. They discuss the importance of creating a safe space for daughters, avoiding the “know-it-all” trap as moms, and learning to let go of control while guiding daughters toward wisdom and faith. Episode Recap: 6:30 - Sandra Stanley & Allie Cooney join us to talk about their book, Meet Me in the Middle 13:00 - This book was written for girls in 5th through 10th grade and their moms 14:30 - Social media creates so much noise for our daughters today 17:20 - Moms and daughters are facing many of the same pressures, just at different times in our lives and at different levels of maturity. 20:02 - When our girls feel safe with us, they are more likely to share with us 22:00 - We don’t need to turn everything into a teachable moment, be interested and be humble 24:00 - It is normal for teen girls to pull away in this season 27:35 - How do we help our daughters deal with comparison? 31:10 - What we do in parenting is far more important than what we say Scripture for Reflection: Philippians 4:4-9 (NIV) "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” Questions for Discussion: Sandra and Allie emphasize that moms should aim to be a safe place for their daughters. What are some ways you’ve seen this play out in your own parenting? What challenges make it difficult for you to be that safe space? Allie mentioned that her mom, instead of forcing conversations, placed wise mentors in her life. Does your daughter have wise women in her world other than you that she could learn from? Have you ever found yourself turning every conversation into a teachable moment? How can you shift toward more natural, two-way conversations with your kids? What are some practical ways you model faith in your daily life, and how do you encourage your daughter to cultivate her own personal faith journey? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Pick up a copy of Meet Me in the Middle : https://amzn.to/42JaRp1…

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451: Reclaiming Peace in Your Home 16:48

منذ 5 weeks16:48

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If you’ve ever felt buried under clutter, you’re not alone. Today Maria and Rebecca of Simple Spaces Ohio join us to share how decluttering has transformed their lives, how you can help your kids understand the value of less, and how a simple morning routine can bring order to the chaos. Whether you're naturally sentimental or just in need of a little guidance, this episode will encourage you to reclaim peace in your home and take back valuable time in your day. Episode Recap: 2:15 - Clutter affects the way we feel in our homes 4:00 - Young moms are overwhelmed by the chaos in their homes 6:30 - As your kids get older, you can help them understand they don’t need so much stuff 9:45 - Some people are naturally more sentimental than others 11:10 - Having a morning routine with just a few chores can help manage the overwhelm 13:00 - Decluttering gives you back time in your day Scripture for Reflection: 1 Corinthians 14:33 "For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—As in all the congregations of the Lord’s people." Questions for Discussion: What areas of your home feel the most overwhelming to you right now? What would it look like to create a sense of peace in those spaces? How do you balance keeping sentimental items with the desire to declutter? Are there any items you find hard to let go of? What small changes or routines have you implemented in your daily life that have helped you manage the clutter and find more peace? How can we involve our kids in the decluttering process without overwhelming them, and what are some ways to teach them the value of less stuff? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference in the BOAW Moms app [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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450: Handling Grandparents and In Laws: Tips for Healthy Boundaries 22:38

منذ 6 weeks22:38

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Navigating relationships with in-laws and grandparents can be tricky, especially when it comes to setting boundaries for the safety and well-being of your kids. Today Karen tackles your questions about managing challenging family dynamics with wisdom, grace, and confidence. Whether you're dealing with safety concerns, feeling smothered, or struggling with differing parenting approaches, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you protect your family while fostering peace. Episode Recap: 2:10 - Check out our new podcast set up on YouTube 4:35 - How do I graciously handle having two sets of hyper-involved grandparents? 9:15- How do I handle my mother-in-law’s disrespect in a kind but firm way? 12:45- My mom hovers and overprotects my kids - what should I do? 16:45 - My in-laws have repeatedly shown they do not respect my boundaries, is there anything I can do? Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV) If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. Questions for Discussion: Have you ever had to set boundaries with family members? What was the outcome, and how did you approach it with kindness and firmness? What role should prayer play in preparing for difficult conversations about boundaries? In what ways can we shift our focus from trying to please everyone to focusing on our responsibilities as moms? What practical steps can you take this week to ensure your nuclear family has time to bond without extended family involvement? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Grab a copy of Karen’s devotional: Moments with God for Moms…

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449: New Habits for the New Year 28:06

منذ 7 weeks28:06

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Description: As we step into a new year, Karen and Emily are here to help you start fresh. In this episode, they discuss practical tips for breaking bad habits, finding contentment in your current season, and making space for your own growth as a mom. If you’re ready to embrace 2025 with renewed purpose and encouragement, you’re in the right place. Episode Recap: 2:30 - Jumping into the New Year, what are your New Year’s resolutions? 9:02 - My childrens’ bad moods put me in a bad mood! What can I do about this? 13:34 - How do I prioritize my spiritual growth with 3 under 3 in my home? 17:15 - How do I break the habit of having my 5 year old share the bed with us? 20:50 - I’m struggling with contentment because I want another child but my husband and I both feel like we can’t afford another one, help! Scripture for Reflection: 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV): “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Questions for Discussion: Does your child’s behavior affect your own emotions? Practically speaking, how can you disconnect your emotions from your child’s behavior? What strategies or tools have helped you find time for spiritual growth during a busy season of motherhood? Are there any bad habits you’ve developed when it comes to behavior or situations in your home (like the mom who was bed sharing longer than she wanted to)? What are they and are you ready to work to break them this year? Do you struggle with contentment? Maybe it’s the size of your family or your financial situation…how can you practice contentment while trusting God with your family’s future? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Grab a copy of Karen’s devotional: Moments with God for Moms…

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448: Do Less For Your Kids - Parenting for the Long Haul 29:28

منذ 8 weeks29:28

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Today Karen and Emily sit down with Elizabeth Pehrson to discuss how moms can parent with purpose by focusing on the long game. In this conversation, Elizabeth shares her no-nonsense approach to raising independent, contributing adults. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of parenting littles or wondering how to prepare your teens for the real world, this episode will leave you inspired and equipped. Don’t miss the rest of the interview over on Patreon! Episode Recap: 2:09 - Elizabeth is a long time friend of BOAW Moms and a breakout speaker at Soar 2025 3:36 - She is mom to 8 and founder of The Exchange 8:08 - Most women live a Groundhog Day kind of life, but they don’t have to 10:32 - We can’t love others when we’re not loving ourselves well 12:37 - How did The Exchange come about? 18:25 - We need to raise adults who are contributors, not consumers 21:00 - We are overprotecting and under preparing our kids for the real world 24:00 - Young adults today do not know how to problem solve on their own 25:01 - We run a race differently when the length of the race changes - keep the long game in mind! Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 22:6 (ESV) Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it." Questions for Discussion: What areas of parenting do you feel pressured to “do more,” and how might adopting a “do less” mindset bring freedom to your family? How are you currently preparing your children for independence, and what’s one practical step you can take to help them contribute more? Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of rediscovering yourself as a mom. What’s something you used to enjoy that you can reintroduce into your life? How can shifting your focus from short-term achievements to long-term character development change the way you approach parenting? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Become a Patreon member and listen to the rest of the interview with Elizabeth Check out Elizabeth’s organization, The Exchange How Do I Get Some Help Around the House? previous WT episode with Elizabeth…

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447: Staying Connected When Life Gets Busy 25:14

منذ 11 weeks25:14

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As we wrap up Wire Talk for 2024, we’re diving into practical ways to connect with your spouse during busy seasons. From showing appreciation in small ways to navigating family expectations and finding joy in spontaneity, Karen has got wisdom and real-life practical tips for you! Whether you’re balancing the holidays, family dynamics, or simply trying to plan a date night, we hope this conversation inspires you to be intentional in your marriage. Episode Recap: 5:30 - How can I show my spouse they matter in small, but meaningful ways? 9:00 - How can I accommodate my in-laws' tendency to plan way ahead? 11:45 - Communicating clearly is gracious, even if it disappoints others 13:30 - I don’t feel lovey-dovey when we’re travelling, but my husband does. How do we navigate this dynamic? 16:50 - Did your yellow ever rub your blue husband the wrong way? How do I be more spontaneous to accommodate him? 23:00 - Thank you for all of your support this year! Sign up for SOAR in 2025 Scripture for Reflection: 1 Corinthians 16:14 (NIV) "Do everything in love." Questions for Discussion: What are some small but meaningful ways you can show your spouse they are appreciated during busy seasons? How can you find balance between accommodating family expectations and maintaining boundaries for your immediate family? Have you experienced differences in how you and your spouse handle travel or holiday dynamics? How do you navigate those differences? How can you practice flexibility in your plans while still honoring your own needs and personality? What’s one new date-night idea you’d like to try with your spouse? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate…

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446: Loving Like Jesus During the Holidays 25:40

منذ 12 weeks25:40

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Today Karen and Emily are diving into what it means to love like Jesus, even when it’s difficult. They cover preparing your heart, navigating tricky relationships, and approaching family gatherings with humility. You’ll learn how to manage expectations and hear practical ways we can love others like Christ loves us. Whether you’re juggling in-laws, extended family, or just trying to survive the season, this episode is packed with encouragement and wisdom for the holidays. Episode Recap: 5:41 - Why is it so challenging to love our extended family like Jesus? 10:26 - How can we shift our mindset and love family when it feels impossible? 12:33 - You can’t ignore your feelings, but you don’t have to act on your feelings. 13:30 - What are some practical ways we can prepare our hearts before family gatherings? 16:00 - Pray and ask God to show you what He loves about hard to love people 23:44 - The holidays can bring joy, but they can bring a lot of trigger points as well Scripture for Reflection: John 13:34-35 (NIV) "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." Questions for Discussion: How can you demonstrate love to family members who may be difficult to connect with during the holidays? What practical steps can you take to prepare your heart to approach family gatherings with humility and grace? How does Jesus’ example of unconditional love challenge the way you interact with extended family or in-laws? What boundaries could you set to help maintain peace and joy during the holiday season, while still showing Christ-like love? Resources: Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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445: Creating Stress-Free Holiday Memories with Your Family 29:11

منذ 13 weeks29:11

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The holidays can often bring stress and guilt for moms as we try to make everything perfect for our families. In this episode, Karen and Emily share how to embrace a simpler, more joyful approach to Christmas. From favorite childhood memories to navigating tight budgets, they remind us that the best moments often come from just being together! We hope this episode inspires you to let go of the pressure, focus on what truly matters (Jesus’ birth!), and create meaningful traditions—whether planned or unplanned. Episode Recap: 3:08 - Karen and Emily “This or That’ Christmas edition 9:30 - Emily’s favorite Christmas memories growing up in the Stubbs’ home 11:20 - The best memories aren’t always the ones you plan 16:54 - Pick a few things that are important to you and forget the rest 18:20 - Some traditions happen organically and end up being the kids’ favorite 20:10 - How do I keep the holiday spirit alive as my kids grow? 23:00 - Explain the budget to your kids and don’t feel bad about sticking to it 25:32 - Mishaps can lead to new traditions and memories. 27:30 - Give yourself grace and just enjoy this holiday season! Scripture for Reflection: Luke 2:10-12 (NIV) “But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” Questions for Discussion: What are some of your favorite childhood holiday memories? How can you simplify your holiday plans this year to focus more on connection and less on perfection? What are some inexpensive ways to create lasting memories with your family during the holiday season? How can you be intentional about letting go of comparison during the holidays? What new traditions could you start as your children grow older and your family’s needs change? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate…

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444: Letting Go of Mom Guilt and Overthinking 20:13

منذ 14 weeks20:13

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Moms often struggle with guilt and overthinking, especially when it comes to making decisions for their families. In this episode, Karen talks about how to avoid the trap of overanalyzing every choice and instead focus on what brings peace and unity to your family. Whether you're navigating school decisions, holiday traditions, or just everyday challenges, this discussion will help you let go of guilt and embrace the best yes for your family with confidence. Episode Recap: 4:00 Navigating mom guilt around holiday decisions 7:30 Deciding whether to do Elf on the Shelf 13:00 Setting boundaries for attending kids' birthday parties 17:45 Learning to communicate clearly with your children before making commitments 22:00 Making decisions that are right for YOUR family, without comparison Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Questions for Discussion: What kind of mom guilt are you facing in this season of parenting, and how can you let go of it? How do you decide which traditions to embrace and which to let go of? What are some ways you can involve your kids in making decisions, like attending parties or events? How can we give ourselves grace if our plans or decisions don’t look like those of other families? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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443: Holiday Survival Guide for Grandparents 25:10

منذ 15 weeks25:10

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Navigating the holidays as a grandparent can be tricky, but holding plans with open hands can make all the difference. In this episode, we talk about how to foster unity, embrace flexibility, and keep a spirit of grace at the center of holiday gatherings. Whether you're a mom of grown children or still in the thick of raising kids at home, Karen offers practical tips to help you approach the season with love and understanding. Episode Recap: 4:56 Grandparents need to hold holiday plans with open hands 7:45 Remember what it was like to be a young adult and all of the pressures they are facing 10:00 Be open and flexible to new traditions 13:00 Enjoy the kids when they are around and be okay if they are not present some years 14:55 Learn how to communicate plans early 16:30 It’s okay for grandparents to spoil the grandkids and overindulge them once a year! 19:30 Ask your grown children, “what can I do to make holidays easier/better for you?” 23:00 The holidays aren’t about exactly ‘when’ or ‘how,’ they are about being together Scripture for Reflection: Philippians 2:3-4 (NIV ) : "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." Questions for Discussion: In what ways can you be more understanding of the pressures your grown children face during the holiday season? What new traditions could you embrace that might help create a more joyful and flexible holiday experience for everyone? How can you learn to hold your holiday traditions with open hands? Is there anything specific you know will be hard to let go of? What steps can you take to communicate our holiday plans early, while still being considerate of everyone’s needs and desires? How can you maintain a spirit of grace if plans change or things don't go as expected? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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442: Protecting Your Kids from Screen Addiction with Practical Tech Limits 39:18

منذ 16 weeks39:18

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Today, DeDe Wilbanks joins us to explore how we can set healthy boundaries around the technology in our homes. With John 10:10 as our guide, DeDe reminds us of our God-given role to protect our children's hearts and minds from the addictive nature of technology. While we can't control everything, we can be intentional about setting limits that nurture our families, trusting God with the rest. Episode Recap: 4:30 What downtime and screen time parameters do you put on your devices? 9:43 Is there a right age to give kids a phone? 13:09 Why do screen time limits matter? 15:15 What mistakes have you made when it comes to technology in your home? 19:10 I had to learn to enjoy the “no” 22:00 How do you actually set limits on the iphone? 31:22 What simple practical tips can you offer to get started? Scripture for Reflection: John 10:10 (NIV) "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” Questions for Discussion: What boundaries are in place around the tech that your kids have access to? (Games, ipads, TV, phones, etc.) Have you made any mistakes with the technology you have allowed in your home? How do you model healthy technology habits for your children? What challenges do you face when setting screen time limits, and how do you handle them? What action steps are you taking after listening to this episode? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt…

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