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In a world obsessed with sharing every detail of life, there’s one thing that few people ever share: problems in their marriages. Real problems: adultery, pornography, prostitution, and the dysfunction that comes from hiding trauma and wounds of the past. Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently share how God rescued their marriage, and how He can rescue yours too! For more information about Savage Marriage, visit www.savagemarriageministries.com
In a world obsessed with sharing every detail of life, there’s one thing that few people ever share: problems in their marriages. Real problems: adultery, pornography, prostitution, and the dysfunction that comes from hiding trauma and wounds of the past. Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently share how God rescued their marriage, and how He can rescue yours too! For more information about Savage Marriage, visit www.savagemarriageministries.com
We've found that most marriages are chasing intimacy but looking in all the wrong places. We sure did, and it never created a relationship that met the deep needs of our souls. What we eventually discovered was that spiritual intimacy needed to be the foundation of our relationship, and that spiritual intimacy would lead to emotional intimacy. These two things, working together, then created a foundation for a new marriage, and one in which our sexual intimacy could grow and even flourish. Join us on this episode as we discuss the one thing we discovered that was key to becoming spiritually intimate. It's the most frequent question we receive from couples looking for a resurrection in their marriage. Phil and Priscilla P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Book a free introductory coaching call with us on our website at savagemarriageministries.com . We'd love to talk with you! Resources: Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
After experiencing God's healing in our marriage, we wanted to share with others what He had done for us. It gave purpose to our pain, and every opportunity we had to share reminded us of what God had done. But this meant that we had to sometimes share very personal details of our journey. As we did this, we gave other couples "permission" to transparently share their stories. This mutual vulnerability created beautiful relationships as we became intimately known to others in a God-honoring way. Join us as we read the final chapter of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction . You'll discover what we found out - that radical courage and vulnerability allowed us to participate in the healing of others. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla P.S. - This episode also includes the Epilogue, where our youngest daughters provide their comments on how our coming clean affected them when they were only 11 and 9 years old. It's candid and fresh and will encourage you to also share your story with your kids. Resources: If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at SavageMarriageMinistries.com Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/eiZKpNy The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/gzUdIGB Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
After going through the pain of betrayal, many couples struggle with whether, when and how to reengage again sexually. In fact, some studies suggest that 20-30% of all couples live in a sexless marriage. Is it really possible to create new feelings of sexual desire and intimacy after suffering the pain of betrayal? Or to create sexual intimacy that never existed before? Join us as we read Chapter 11 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction . You'll discover what we found out - that God wants to be invited into your sexual journey, and with his help, your sexual intimacy can flourish no matter the pain you've gone through. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla Resources: If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at SavageMarriageMinistries.com Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/eiZKpNy The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/gzUdIGB Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
In Part 1 of Rey and Jane's story, Jane described how she forgave Rey for a 10-year relationship he had with her sister. Rey described how it was so hard for him to accept Jane's forgiveness, believing that forgiveness was only for people who were better than him. Today, you're going to hear how this path of mercy, grace and forgiveness took them toward becoming battle partners. It's an amazing story, and you don't want to miss it! We've served with Rey and Jane for the past five years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and they are real, raw and share transparently about what God's done in their marriage and family. So, if you need a fresh touch from God in your marriage, listen to Rey and Jane, as they share how God brought them from a marriage that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's blossomed over the past 19 years. Phil and Priscilla P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Do you want to hear more from Rey and Jane? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries ( witministries.com ). They would be glad to speak with you! Resources: Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com. Buy Phil and Priscilla's award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the award-winning Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
We first heard Rey and Jane Alvarenga's story 7 years ago, and it was instrumental in helping us believe that God could rescue our marriage, no matter how big the pit was that we had dug. Today, we're so pleased to introduce Rey and Jane to you. We've served with them for the past five years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and they are real, raw and share transparently about what God's done in their marriage and family. So, if you need a fresh touch from God in your marriage, listen to Rey and Jane, as they share how God brought them from a marriage that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's blossomed over the past 19 years. Phil and Priscilla P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries ( witministries.com ). They would be glad to speak with you! Resources: Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com. Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
When you hear the word "temptation", what feelings do you have? Sin? Failure? Frustration? All these feelings are normal, because few people know how to escape from temptation. Join us for this podcast, where we share with you the game changers in our marriage that have allowed us to understand that temptation is a testing, but doesn't need to necessarily lead to sin. If temptation has created fear and insecurities in your marriage, you don't want to miss this one! Phil and Priscilla P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Book a free introductory coaching call with us on our website at savagemarriageministries.com . We'd love to talk with you! Resources: Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
After going through the pain of betrayal, many couples settle for just getting back to a functional marriage, but not one that's emotionally intimate. Is it really possible to recover feelings of emotional connection? Or to create emotional intimacy that never existed before? Join us as we read Chapter 10 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction . You'll discover what we found out - that empathy and compassion are the gateways to emotional intimacy. Once we began to see one another's back story and understand why we did what we did, God allowed feelings of empathy and compassion to spring up, taking us toward a level of emotional intimacy we'd never before experienced. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla Resources: If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon . The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
We'd always believed that emotional and sexual intimacy were the keys to a great marriage. But when our marriage broke down after 28 years, we wondered what happened. Was it possible that there was more to marriage than emotional and sexual intimacy, and we had missed it all these years? Join us as we read Chapter 9 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction . You'll discover what we found out - that spiritual intimacy with one another was the missing part of our relationship. Once we began cultivating our spiritual relationship with one another, God began showing up in supernatural ways we had never before experienced. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla Resources: If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon . The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
We had a lot of ground together after Phil "came clean" seven years ago. Our 28 year marriage was functional, but we still felt like roommates, always wanting more, but settling for less. And we thought everyone else was in the same boat. But seven years ago, we discovered three things that have made all the difference, and we believe these three things can take you from feeling like roommates, to sensing fulfillment and intimacy again. Join us as we discuss our journey, and how you can start your own journey of transformation in your marriage. Phil and Priscilla Resources: Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
Have you ever struggled with intruding thoughts that seen to take you hostage, dictating how you will think, feel and act? Well, we sure did! Join us as we read Chapter 8 of our award winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction . You'll see that not every thought in your mind is yours! We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla Resources: If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon . The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
We receive lots of feedback on our book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , and sometimes there are some strong emotional responses, like when someone says their spouse threw our book across the room or out the window. So, what do we say when we hear reactions like this? We say, Hallelujah! At least what's been on the inside is coming out! The first step toward recovery is to show what requires restoration, and the emotional and physical manifestations of inward feelings are clues on where to look for what needs to be healed. Join us today as we talk about what God can do in the middle of our strong displays of emotion. It's God's road to recovery, and we invite you to join us as we walk through it! Phil and Priscilla P.S. - If you've enjoyed our podcast, would you please subscribe and provide a rating? Your comments are helpful for others to find our podcast who may also be looking for healing and restoration in their marriage! Resources: Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! In Chapter 7, "Freedom from Shame," Phil and Priscilla learn that to start the journey forward, they need to take a journey backward...to what happened in their childhood...to their "take it to the grave lists". After addressing the wounds of their past, they begin the awkward conversations with their extended family and see further "ripple effects" of their story...a real miracle of healing. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla Resources: If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, contact them at info@savagemarriageministries.com. More details are available on their website at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon . The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! In Chapter 6, "Confessing Secret Sins", Phil and Priscilla detail their painful confessions with their five children, with their three adult children describing (in their own voices) their reactions. It's a turning point in their reconciliation, as Priscilla sees Phil do something she never thought he do - humble himself before his children. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Resources: Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon . The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! In Chapter 5, Phil describes how he attends 4 Days 2 Freedom and learns how humility is the key to unlocking the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome his past, his addictions, and his self-centeredness. Priscilla describes how she sees her identity in Christ, and both she and Phil turn the corner to a new life, a new relationship and a new marriage. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Resources: Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon . The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
While talking about porn has become mainstream in many churches, using the "M" word - masturbation - hasn't. Even mentioning it seems to evoke feelings of shame, with many people choosing less offensive words, like "solo sex" or "self-pleasuring". But masturbation has real effects on our body, soul, and spirit, and realizing freedom from the associated idol of lust is not only possible, but probable for people committed to doing whatever it takes to find help. Join Phil and Priscilla on this podcast as they talk about how masturbation affected them, and how they now live in freedom. Resources: Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! In Chapter 4, Priscilla describes how her healing began at 4 Days 2 Hope, and how God showed her what it meant to forgive by faith. It was where Priscilla began to see her own journey toward healing, and what God wanted to do, not only in Phil's life, but also in hers. Without this revelation, Phil and Priscilla's path toward reconciliation would have been very different. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Resources: Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon . The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! In Chapter 3, Phil and Priscilla describe how Phil "came clean'', beginning the painful journey toward healing. Through the emotional sharing, Priscilla agrees to help Phil "get fixed", even though she isn't aware what's in store for her in the weeks ahead. It's a pivotal point in their story we're sure you won't want to miss! We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! And if you don't want to wait for all the chapters to be released, you can buy the hardcopy book on Amazon . The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us! Phil and Priscilla…
"Date Night" has become almost a required step for every couple to have a successful marriage, promising emotional bliss for couples who'll stay committed to one night a week alone. And when date night doesn't work, some couples throw in more sex, following programs like the "30-day Sex Challenge". Yet, we meet many couples whose marriages are struggling, while they're religiously having date nights (and trying to have more sex). We were one of those couples for twenty-eight years, unable to find real intimacy in the face of numerous moral and spiritual failures, but still counting on date night to solve our problems. Join us on this podcast as we talk about how we experienced real intimacy in our marriage...intimacy based not on what we could do...but on what only God could do. - Phil and Priscilla, Savage Marriage Ministries Resources: Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books And follow our podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.…
We're releasing our audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! In Chapter 2, Phil and Priscilla describe how Phil's sin continued to grow, and how Priscilla was affected - even though she didn't know what was going on with Phil. Through the twists and turns, they describe how Phil was finally pushed over the edge to begin a painful disclosure process. We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! And if you don't want to wait for all the chapters to be released, you can buy the hardcopy book on Amazon . the popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us!…
We're releasing our audio book chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! Share it with a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! And if you don't want to wait for all the chapters to be released, you can buy the hardcopy book on Amazon . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . Thanks for partnering with us!…
If you are a husband, you may have been intimated with the idea that husbands are the "head" of the wife. If you are a wife, you may have been appalled with how your husband has wanted to sometimes rule over you, like you didn't really have a voice or significance. But do you really know what the Bible means when it says the husband is the head of the wife? Well, we didn't! In fact, it's only been recently that we've deconstructed this passage, and it's reinforced what God has shown us in the recovery, reconciliation and rebuilding of our marriage!…
Did you know that about two-thirds of Christian men and about one-third of Christian women say they have an ongoing struggle with porn? Did you know that only about 7% of churches offer any type of support resources in this area for their congregations? Join Phil and Priscilla, as they talk with their guest, Sam Black, Director of Recovery Education at Covenant Eyes, and author of "The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography, And How to Fix It." Sam has used his journalism background to interview dozens of people, conduct his own research, and analyze current resources, to provide sage advice for people looking to bring healing from porn into their church. And Sam doesn't only speak from theory - he has his own story of healing that he shares with Phil ad Priscilla. You don't wat to miss this episode! God can use you and your story to help your church with this difficult and sensitive topic. You can find out more at: www.Thehealingchurch.com/?utm_campaign=Sam%Black https://www.covenanteyes.com/?utm_campaign=Sam%Black Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is a first place winner of a 2023 Christian Indie Award and is available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
When marriages are in crisis, the question of which counselor to use, or whether you should change counselors, is a tough one. It's full of emotion, and sometimes a lot of history. Join Phil and Priscilla today as they unpack this thorny issue and share with you questions that you should be asking about your counselor...and also about yourselves. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is a first place winner of a 2023 Christian Indie Award and is available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
Nothing is more discouraging than facing a relapse after you've experienced freedom. But a lot of people experience relapse, and it isn't the end of their story. In fact, God wants to show you His plan for overcoming not only the disappointment of relapse, but also for living in freedom afterward. Yes, the cycle of relapse can make you want to give up, but God can show you a path forward, and how He can rescue you from every temptation. Join Phil and Priscilla as they share how they dealt with relapse two years into their recovery, and how God made it just another chapter in their story. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is a first place winner of a 2023 Christian Indie Award and is available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
Every troubled marriage needs a turning point, where all the hurt, pain and secrets come to light so that God can heal and restore what remains. For many, that day is when their spouse reveals their secrets and shame. But "coming clean" can be much more than just a disclosure of offenses. It can be a throwing off a life of hiding to embrace a new life of transparency. Join Priscilla and Phil as they describe what God did in their marriage, and how "coming clean" for them was much more than informing Priscilla of Phil's wrongdoings. It was the point at which God began to move them from a point of separateness... to a life of togetherness. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is now available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
Is sex a need? There are very few questions that will generate as much emotion...and impact...in your marriage as this one. Join Phil and Priscilla today as they explain the importance of seeing this question from God's point of view, and how they processed it in their own recovery. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is now available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
Has someone offended you, and you just can't seem to forgive them? Do you cringe every time you think of them as the pain of what they did wrings out your heart? These feelings aren't unusual. We all have to deal with forgiving people who don't seem to deserve it, or who don't even apologize. Join Phil and Priscilla today as they talk about the real power to forgive any offense, not matter how big, or how long ago it occurred. They'll share what God showed them, and how they were able to open their hearts to receive the power from God to forgive. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is now available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
Has someone ever told you that your apology just wasn't good enough? Unfortunately, most people learned how to apologize on the playground growing up, when someone told them to "Just say you're sorry, Johnny!" It didn't work then, and it doesn't work now. Powerful apologies have the ability to touch the wound of the person you've offended and move you toward reconciliation. Join Phil and Priscilla today as they talk about why Phil's apology ten years into their marriage about his porn use just wasn't good enough. And how eighteen years later God showed them what was missing. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is now available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
We've seen couples conquer mountains in their marriages - really difficult situations, like betrayal, wounds from their past, and addictions. But after all these battles have been won, it's not unusual that one thing still remains, and it's the hardest thing to change. Join us on this episode, and we'll discuss what it is...and how to change it! Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is now available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
When was the last time you cried? Did you know that your tears are so precious to God that He collects then in a bottle? (Psalm 56:8) Join us today as we talk about the power of your tears, how they show the cleansing and transformation going on inside of you, and how they also have the power to affect others. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is now available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
Are you going through recovery and reconciliation and wondering how long it will take? We know that the pain and trauma of your past can be suffocating, and that just getting through each day can feel overwhelming. We experienced the same feelings 5 1/2 years ago. Today, join us as we talk about the keys to our reconciliation...and what we're still working on. Be encouraged - God wants you to be well, and what God did in our marriage, He can do in yours too! Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is now available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow Phil and Priscilla on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. You'll be glad you did!…
Have you ever been frustrated because your spouse ignores the boundaries you've set for them? Have you ever wondered what you're doing wrong, and why boundaries just don't seem to work in your marriage? Join Phil and Priscilla as they discuss five key principles for using boundaries effectively in your marriage. Used properly, boundaries can put your marriage in a position to flourish. For more information on boundaries, see numerous best-selling books on boundaries written by Henry Cloud and John Townsend. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries.…
Many marriages and families suffer from an overcontrolling spouse. Where does overcontrol come from, and what can you do if you live with someone who's overcontrolling? Join Phil and Priscilla as they share how they addressed their own tendencies to overcontrol. It's time to let go...and let God heal the fears and pride that fuel the overcontrol in your relationship. Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com . In addition, they've recently published Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future. (Also available on Amazon.com .) We encourage you to buy copies for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries.…
Are you stuck in the middle of an offense with your spouse and just can't figure out a way forward? Join Phil and Priscilla as they talk about one of the keys to getting on the path to reconciliation. Phil and Priscilla's new book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction is now available on Amazon.com . We encourage you to buy a copy for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, no matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com , and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries.…
Many parents struggle with what to tell their kids about sex. How early should they start? Should Mom, or Dad, or both share? Should they share their own failures and problems around sex? Join Phil and Priscilla, and their daughter Sarah, as they unpack keys for healthy and spiritually rich communication with kids about sex. Phil and Priscilla's new book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction is now available on Amazon.com . We encourage you to buy a copy for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, now matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com, and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries.…
Experiencing real freedom from behaviors and thoughts that weigh down your soul is possible, even though many people don't believe it because their personal experience tells them they are destined to have repeated cycles of failure. On this episode, Phil Fretwell and Paul Speed, co-founder of Whatever it Takes Ministries, discuss the keys to living a life of real freedom in your soul. For more information on how you can attend Whatever it Takes Ministries weekend intensives, including 4 Days 2 Freedom (for men) and 4 Days 2 Hope (for women), visit Whatever it Takes Ministries at WITministries.com , and click on the events tab. These power packed weekends will help you embrace a life of real freedom. Phil and Priscilla's new book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction is now available on Amazon.com . We encourage you to buy a copy for yourself, and for a friend who may need hope that God can rescue their marriage, now matter what the situation. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com, and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries.…
Experiencing real freedom from behaviors and thoughts that weigh down your soul is possible, even though many people don't believe it because of their personal experience with repeated cycles of failure. On this episode, Phil Fretwell and Paul Speed, co-founder of Whatever it Takes Ministries, discuss the keys to living a life of real freedom. For more information on how you can attend Whatever it Takes Ministries weekend intensives, including 4 Days 2 Freedom (for men) and 4 Days 2 Hope (for women), visit Whatever it Takes Ministries at WITministries.com , and click on the events tab. These power packed weekends will help you embrace a life of real freedom. For more resources from Savage Marriage Ministries, join the Savage Community at savagemarriageministries.com, and follow them on Facebook and Instagram @savagemarriageministries. Also, Phil and Priscilla's new book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction is now available on Amazon.com . We encourage you to buy a copy for yourself, and for a friend who may need encouragement that God can rescue their marriage, now matter what the situation.…
Many people live their lives in a prison of triggers, always trying to manage, avoid or deny what they're feeling when they experience something that reminds them of emotional pain from the past. Rather than managing triggers, Phil and Priscilla discuss how you can walk free from them by honestly discussing, evaluating, and getting rid of things that can keep you from enjoying your everyday life. To learn more about Phil and Priscilla's story, their new book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , is now available on Amazon.com . Follow us on Instagram ! Check out Phil and Priscilla at SavageMarriageMinistries.com . And remember, it's God who's at work in your Savage Marriage!…
God is with us wherever we go, but somehow we think this doesn't mean the bedroom! Have you and your spouse ever considered inviting the Holy Spirit into your intimate moments? When John 16:13 says the Holy Spirit will lead you into "all the truth," this means all - even truth about your sex life! Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently unpack what it means to enjoy spirit-led sexual intimacy. If you're looking to move your sex life from mediocre to marvelous, this podcast is for you!…
The intimacy in your marriage will never be more than your transparency. Join Phil and Priscilla Fretwell as they talk about how they became HOT (Honest, Open, and Transparent) every day with each other, their family and their friends.
Previous relationships can rob you of experiencing true intimacy with your spouse. Join Phil and Priscilla as they share how to identify these intimacy robbers, and get rid of them, so that you and your spouse can be free to create beautiful new memories of one another.
Sexual baggage from previous relationships or things that you've done can be a real problem in your marriage. These memories can steal moments of true intimacy that are meant only for you and your spouse. Join Phil and Priscilla as they discuss how to get rid of your sexual baggage so you can develop true intimacy with your spouse. Like us on Facebook ! Follow us on Instagram ! Check out Phil and Priscilla at http://www.savagemarriageministries.com.…
Phil and Priscilla read chapter one of their new book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction , available now on Amazon.com . Ten years into their marriage, they dealt with disappointment and despair when Priscilla discovered Phil was using porn, not knowing this was only the beginning of the real trauma and grief they would experience eighteen years later. Like us on Facebook ! Follow us on Instagram ! Check out Phil and Priscilla on http://www.savagemarriageministries.com .…
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