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076. Nobody Wants Your Stuff: Why You Can’t Declutter Your House

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المحتوى المقدم من Zeenat Siman Professional Organizer. يتم تحميل جميع محتويات البودكاست بما في ذلك الحلقات والرسومات وأوصاف البودكاست وتقديمها مباشرة بواسطة Zeenat Siman Professional Organizer أو شريك منصة البودكاست الخاص بهم. إذا كنت تعتقد أن شخصًا ما يستخدم عملك المحمي بحقوق الطبع والنشر دون إذنك، فيمكنك اتباع العملية الموضحة هنا https://ar.player.fm/legal.

Why is decluttering so hard even when you know you’re ready to do it?

In this tough-love episode, I walk you through the top 10 excuses that keep us stuck in clutter. From “I don’t have time” to “but it was expensive” to “it’s organized chaos,” I break each one down with research and stories, then shares the mindset shifts you can use to finally move forward.

You’ll hear:

  • The most common excuses we use to avoid decluttering
  • Why those excuses don’t hold up (backed by research)
  • The new beliefs you can adopt to make decluttering possible
  • How to create a calmer, more intentional home without guilt or overwhelm

Remember: Beautiful Living isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being choosy, intentional, and free.

📌 Download my Keep or Release Testhttps://fireflybridge.com/thetest

📚 Research & resources mentioned in this episode

  • We make time for what matters. The American Time Use Survey shows that people prioritize what they value most — so “no time” often means “not a priority yet.”
    👉 Read the survey
  • Why we hold onto “someday” clothes. Psychologists call it projection bias: we overestimate how similar our future self will be to our current self. That’s why we keep jeans that don’t fit.
    👉 Read the study (PDF)
  • Your future self feels like a stranger. Research shows we treat “future us” like a different person — which makes it easy to stash things “for later.”
    👉 Read more
  • Clutter hurts your well-being. Studies link clutter with lower life satisfaction and less joy at home.
    👉 Study summary
  • Why “but it was expensive!” keeps us stuck. The sunk cost fallacy makes us cling to bad investments — even when they don’t serve us anymore.
    👉 Original research
  • Why we keep Aunt Maggie’s quilt. Studies show it’s not gratitude, but a sense of indebtedness, that makes us keep gifts we don’t actually want.
    👉 Gift-giving study
    👉 Gratitude & guilt study
  • Clutter really does stress you out. Women who described their homes as cluttered had higher stress hormone patterns and worse moods across the day.
    👉 Read the study
  • Selling clutter usually isn’t worth it. Most stuff nets pennies per hour after effort.
    👉 NYT article
  • Your brain hates visual clutter. A Yale study found that messy visual environments literally change how your brai

Get on the wait list for my FREE class: 3 Steps to Painlessly Declutter your Kitchen in just a Weekend! This is how you get no-cry mornings and calm evenings in your kitchen. And I'll show you how you can do it in just a weekend without overwhelm and without getting stuck. And, of course, you'll learn how to make sure the clutter doesn't come back with minimal effort. Go to https://fireflybridge.com/update and get on the wait list!

Connect with me:

You can find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fireflybridgeorganizing
Here's my website: https://fireflybridge.com

Call or text me: 305-563-2292

Email me: [email protected]

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Manage episode 506639402 series 3567650
المحتوى المقدم من Zeenat Siman Professional Organizer. يتم تحميل جميع محتويات البودكاست بما في ذلك الحلقات والرسومات وأوصاف البودكاست وتقديمها مباشرة بواسطة Zeenat Siman Professional Organizer أو شريك منصة البودكاست الخاص بهم. إذا كنت تعتقد أن شخصًا ما يستخدم عملك المحمي بحقوق الطبع والنشر دون إذنك، فيمكنك اتباع العملية الموضحة هنا https://ar.player.fm/legal.

Why is decluttering so hard even when you know you’re ready to do it?

In this tough-love episode, I walk you through the top 10 excuses that keep us stuck in clutter. From “I don’t have time” to “but it was expensive” to “it’s organized chaos,” I break each one down with research and stories, then shares the mindset shifts you can use to finally move forward.

You’ll hear:

  • The most common excuses we use to avoid decluttering
  • Why those excuses don’t hold up (backed by research)
  • The new beliefs you can adopt to make decluttering possible
  • How to create a calmer, more intentional home without guilt or overwhelm

Remember: Beautiful Living isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being choosy, intentional, and free.

📌 Download my Keep or Release Testhttps://fireflybridge.com/thetest

📚 Research & resources mentioned in this episode

  • We make time for what matters. The American Time Use Survey shows that people prioritize what they value most — so “no time” often means “not a priority yet.”
    👉 Read the survey
  • Why we hold onto “someday” clothes. Psychologists call it projection bias: we overestimate how similar our future self will be to our current self. That’s why we keep jeans that don’t fit.
    👉 Read the study (PDF)
  • Your future self feels like a stranger. Research shows we treat “future us” like a different person — which makes it easy to stash things “for later.”
    👉 Read more
  • Clutter hurts your well-being. Studies link clutter with lower life satisfaction and less joy at home.
    👉 Study summary
  • Why “but it was expensive!” keeps us stuck. The sunk cost fallacy makes us cling to bad investments — even when they don’t serve us anymore.
    👉 Original research
  • Why we keep Aunt Maggie’s quilt. Studies show it’s not gratitude, but a sense of indebtedness, that makes us keep gifts we don’t actually want.
    👉 Gift-giving study
    👉 Gratitude & guilt study
  • Clutter really does stress you out. Women who described their homes as cluttered had higher stress hormone patterns and worse moods across the day.
    👉 Read the study
  • Selling clutter usually isn’t worth it. Most stuff nets pennies per hour after effort.
    👉 NYT article
  • Your brain hates visual clutter. A Yale study found that messy visual environments literally change how your brai

Get on the wait list for my FREE class: 3 Steps to Painlessly Declutter your Kitchen in just a Weekend! This is how you get no-cry mornings and calm evenings in your kitchen. And I'll show you how you can do it in just a weekend without overwhelm and without getting stuck. And, of course, you'll learn how to make sure the clutter doesn't come back with minimal effort. Go to https://fireflybridge.com/update and get on the wait list!

Connect with me:

You can find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fireflybridgeorganizing
Here's my website: https://fireflybridge.com

Call or text me: 305-563-2292

Email me: [email protected]

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