NTM 475: When self-love is protecting you from the change you say you want

Nourishing the Mother

Do you find yourself in a persistent dynamic where you’re completely fed up with the pattern…but yet you’re still here?
Do you find yourself asking “I want your help and advice! But I’ve already tried all the things” OR “It’s because they’re not/they can’t/they won’t…”
Babes, what if you’re just not ready for change? Let us help you hold yourself here.
In this episode we discuss:
- When you find yourself in futility and at the edges of your own window of tolerance
- You’re an energetic match for the reality you’re existing in
- Energy organises itself around a belief system
- Feeling vindicated in the problem being outside of you
- Recognising the pieces of you that are averse to change
- Allowing for change when you don’t also have a handbrake on
- Your suffering is relative to the degree you’re in resistance or surrender
- You’re not ready to have a conversation with ‘them’ if you’re not ready to have a conversation with yourself
- Surrendering to being the student and letting the teacher teach you
- How to love yourself when you’re choosing to stay where you are
To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/