90. Not For Abandoning Yourself + Mastering Emotional Boundaries

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QUALIFIED: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work with Shari Dunn | 284 33:58

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In this episode, we delve into the concept of being "qualified" in the workplace, examining who gets labeled as such, who doesn't, and the underlying reasons. We explore "competency checking"—the practice of scrutinizing individuals' abilities—and how it disproportionately affects underrepresented groups, often going unnoticed or unchallenged. Our discussion aims to redefine qualifications in a fair, equitable, and actionable manner. Our guest, Shari Dunn , is an accomplished journalist, former attorney, news anchor, CEO, university professor, and sought-after speaker. She has been recognized as Executive of the Year and a Woman of Influence, with her work appearing in Fortune Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, Ad Age, and more. Her new book, Qualified: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work , unpacks what it truly means to be deserving and capable—and why systemic barriers, not personal deficits, are often the real problem. Her insights challenge the narratives that hold so many of us back and offer practical solutions for building a more equitable future. Together, we can build workplaces and communities that don’t just reflect the world we live in, but the one we want to create. A world where being qualified is about recognizing the talent and potential that’s been overlooked for far too long. It’s not just about getting a seat at the table—it’s about building an entirely new table, one designed with space for all of us. Connect with Our Guest Shari Dunn Website& Book - Qualified: https://thesharidunn.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/today/author/sharidunn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesharidunn Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Holding It Together: Women As America's Safety Net with Jessica Calarco | 215 How To Defy Expectations with Dr. Sunita Sah | 271 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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People with sleep issues, raise your hands! Jess and Caroline talk all things sleep, from weird and wild Zoloft dreams to their insomniac partners to a new life-changing sleep schedule. This leads to a deeper conversation about dealing with their own discomfort when it comes to other people’s pain.

Then, a WHATADO: how do you handle a friendship breakup with someone you aren’t actually that close to? Friend groups are tricky, and Jess and Caroline discuss their own experiences dealing with those dynamics. Plus, look out for some idioms, a new Jessism, emotional support items, and a surprising new placement for Botox. Sweet dreams, kooks!

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Not For Everyone

90. Not For Abandoning Yourself + Mastering Emotional Boundaries

Not For Everyone

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112. Hater Hour: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Leaving Mormonism, and Making Adult Friendships | ft. Prince Abi Our Editor! 1:37:47

منذ 6 أيام1:37:47

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It’s about time we had another Hater Hour…and in this episode, Caroline is joined by Not For Everyone Editor Price Abi! They’ve got lots to say about listener submissions, including discussions about freelancing, working together while maintaining their friendship, building a life post-religion, making meaningful adult friend groups, and navigating romantic partnership dynamics. Plus, they read their first DMs to each other, answer a few hot takes, reminisce on a shared traumatic experience, giggle a lot, and compliment each other profusely. Will Abi finally admit she loves Caroline? You’ll just have to see. You can find Abi at the following: Post-Mormon/fashion blog: ⁠abinewhouse.substack.com⁠ IG: @abinewhouse Podcast she created: We're Here This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠⁠⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠⁠⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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111. Not For Yapping + Navigating Core Differences with Your Partner 1:23:18

منذ 13 يومًا1:23:18

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This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. __ It’s time for a new segment! Introducing Am I The Hater, a take on Reddit’s famous Am I The Asshole threads, where listeners write in about moments where they can’t tell if they’re in the wrong. Jess and Caroline talk through a submitter’s conundrum of talking too much when a partner is not in the space to hear it. They dive deep into believing your partner loves your quirks, learning to express your needs, and the times they almost broke up with their own partners. Plus, have you ever created a soap opera out of your own life? Like, that hot guy on the plane was for sure looking at you, right? C discusses a scenario where someone is for sure jealous of her relationship, J brings up the excuses parents make for their babies, and they finally found a solution to their sleep troubles. Let’s flirt, babies! This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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110. Ask A Therapist: Attachment Styles, Manifestation, and Friend Drama | Featuring Carter Umhau 1:40:43

منذ 20 يومًا1:40:43

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Go to ⁠⁠Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ Carter's Events, Workshops, and 1-on-1s: - ARTIST'S WAY CREATIVITY COURSE: https://www.carterumhau.com/artists-way-course-page/ - 1-on-1 APPOINTMENTS: https://www.carterumhau.com/appointments-2- EVENTS: https://www.carterumhau.com/events- CONTACT: https://www.carterumhau.com/ - IG: @carterfleet. *** Boy, do we have a treat for you! Jess and Caroline sit down with therapist, artist, and writer Carter Umhau to discuss all your burning questions. They tackle manifestation vs. taking action, witnessing a friend get into a tricky dating situation, fixing your attachment style, getting in touch with your body, and what it means if you’re not progressing in therapy. Plus, they get into a few kooky things as well: Carter exposes her Google Search History, and the three discuss which celebrities have the best butts. Get therapized babies! (You know, in actual therapy sessions…because this isn’t *technically* therapy. Okay, enjoy!) Find Carter Umhau at www.carterumhau.com and on IG @carterfleet . To join her class on transforming your relationship with creativity, visit https://www.carterumhau.com/artists-way-course-page . __ This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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109. Not for Thanking Beyoncé + The Misogynistic Trap of Relatability 1:24:15

منذ 27 يومًا1:24:15

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Get up to 10 FREE meals and a free high protein item for life at ⁠⁠https://hellofresh.com/notforeveryone10fm⁠⁠ . This show is sponsored by Skims. Check them out at https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone #skimspartner __ Look, the Grammys came and went, but don’t think for one minute Jess and Caroline are going to pass up a chance to talk about Beyoncé. C brings up a Beyoncé conspiracy theory, J brings her defense to the table, C continues to litigate, J pushes back, and it all ends up with the two agreeing that Hollywood is just kind of gross. The pair round out the episode with a follow-up on the Blake Lively talk, a rant about “relatability” and “authenticity” when it comes to women we’re determined to hate, a complaint about buying new dresses for every wedding, and contemplation about finding your personal style. Plus, STOP2END? Please don’t. We’d like to keep spamming you. This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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108. Not for Wicked + Why Rage Quitting Isn’t the Answer 1:06:23

منذ 5 weeks1:06:23

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This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. __ Ever fantasized about rage quitting? You’re not alone. Jess and Caroline are discussing all things work this week, from the benefits of corporate jobs to balancing work with other projects to the spectrum of people’s working styles. Are you more of a “I take naps throughout the workday” or a “I’ll create work when there’s nothing to do”? Either way, J and C are going to tear you a new one. Plus, they talk about all the Wicked hype, and C gives her perspective as a former actress. There’s musical acting and then there’s movie acting, and let’s just say Wicked might not have nailed either. They also follow-up on approaching alone time from last week’s episode, and break down a listener’s comment on their “ignorant opinions.” It’s a fun one, kooks. This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ Sound effect: 04099 magic string spell.wav by Robinhood76 -- https://freesound.org/s/178318/ -- License: Attribution NonCommercial 4.0 __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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107. Not For Sharing a Bed + Let's Figure Out WHY You Feel Depleted 1:18:24

منذ 6 weeks1:18:24

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Go to ⁠Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Get up to 10 FREE meals and a free high protein item for life at ⁠https://hellofresh.com/notforeveryone10fm⁠ . __ Shall we start things off with a complaint? The answer is always yes. Jess and Caroline are really annoyed by the lack of good lamps in the world, which leads them to discuss finding their personal interior design style, sharing a space with another person, and even testing out what it’s like to sleep in a different bed than your partner. Then for the age-old question: how do you let your partner know when you need alone time, especially in a way that doesn’t make them feel like they’re the reason? J and C talk figuring out the WHY of feeling depleted, witnessing someone else’s formative moments, and how NPCs have infiltrated real life. We all have to make our way through this game of life somehow… This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠@abinewhouse⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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106. Hot Takes Only: TikTok, Corporate Greed, and an Underrated Dating Red Flag 1:27:20

منذ 7 weeks1:27:20

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Go to Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ This frigid winter really needs to go…so Jess and Caroline are bringing the heat. They collected a few listener hot takes to discuss on this week’s episode, including naps, TikTok, straight men who only have female friends, licking envelopes, passive aggressiveness, work colleagues, and airplane trash. Unsurprisingly, their opinions lead to some deep chats about redefining “community,” the difference between character and demeanor, the slippery slope of money vs. values, and a little rant on listener misunderstandings. This might be the first time you turn off your heat in a while, because J and C supplied it for you. __ This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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105. Not for Wife Guys + Blake Lively and the One Thing No One is Talking About 1:10:40

منذ 8 weeks1:10:40

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This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. This show is sponsored by Skims. Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone #skimspartner __ Coming off the holidays, Jess and Caroline talk tears, sibling rivalries, and myths about sensitivity. Amidst all the family stress, though, there were a few bright sides: they discuss classic Christmas movies and how one of them led to a night C will always remember… Also, is anyone else sick of the touchiness around period talk? J and C talk about body changes, new period invention ideas, and owning their changing bodies. Last but not least, the algorithm has found us all: J and C go deep on the Blake Lively/Justin Baldoni lawsuits, discussing the downfalls of publicizing relationships, guys who are a little too loud about feminism, and what they wish was actually happening amidst the drama. We love you—and no, you didn’t mishear that. But maybe J and C did? This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( ⁠@abinewhouse⁠ ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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104. Not For TikTok Dances + Forgetting Your Pain is a Big Mistake 1:04:55

منذ 9 weeks1:04:55

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You wanted sleepover vibes? You got it. This week, Caroline and Jess discuss how giving credence to your feelings actually helps you move through the hard stuff easier, while reminding you that the made-up meaning in conflict is the scary part. They talk about the point of college being exploration, and Jess ruminates on some a cappella experiences. But first, ever heard of the technology adoption life cycle? Caroline talks about her TikTok misconception and Jess tells us why software updates are so important…and it’s not the reason you think. To round out the episode, they discuss male anatomy, a candy hack, and the pros and cons of knitting. Grab your blankets and pillows and get ready to gab. This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( @abinewhouse ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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103. WHATADO: Embracing Where You Are While Pursuing More in 2025 1:24:02

منذ 10 weeks1:24:02

1:24:02

Get up to 10 FREE meals and a free high protein item for life at https://hellofresh.com/notforeveryone10fm . __ Happy New Year, kooks! This week, Jess and Caroline discuss a few listener WHATADOs that revolve around goals for 2025. Think finding the right motivation, working through emotional dysregulation, starting a side hustle, and making peace with being single. But of course, they talk about a few pet peeves first: New Years itself, hairbands on people’s wrists, and smartphones. This episode is for you if you struggle with your “why,” need help balancing your work goals with life events, and want to make a life you love while being single. It’s part science, part art. Let’s do this. This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse ( @abinewhouse ). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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102. Not for Resentment + How to Believe You Deserve Affection 1:17:23

منذ 12 weeks1:17:23

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This episode is sponsored by Hello Fresh. Get 10 FREE meals at https://hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone. Shop SKIMS Holiday Shop at https://skims.com/notforeveryone. After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. __ It’s the last episode of the year, and Jess and Caroline are feeling kooky. After circling back on owls, they discuss what’s wrong with influencers, a pronunciation mishap in a sexual situation, and what it might be like if C and J were sexual partners.This leads to a deeper conversation about initiating sex in a long-term partnership, accepting different ways partners show affection, and how feeling undeserving can get in the way of true appreciation. Plus, they deliberate masculine vs feminine energy, labor languages, and some feelings about resentment. Listen to the end for some New Year’s resolutions where they somehow circle back, again, to owls — but this time, in French. __ This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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101. Interrogating Our Boyfriends | Part TWO 1:02:53

منذ 13 weeks1:02:53

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This episode is sponsored by Hello Fresh. Get 10 FREE meals at ⁠https://hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone⁠. This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to ⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/ to try it today. And make sure to check out our SECOND ANNIVERSARY APPAREL LAUNCH at ⁠https://nfepodapparel.com. 10% off with code SCIENTIST through December 16, 2024. __ Who’s ready for part two of all things dating apps?! The kings and their kings are BACK to discuss even more dating app conundrums. They debate how long you should chat on a dating app before meeting up in person, who should ask the other person out, and how everyone has to figure out the right scientific formula for themselves. This leads to a deeper discussion about whether or not to have sex on the first date. They chat about the value of waiting, the type of person you’re looking for, and ideal feelings around your decision to say yes. Plus, Justin and Jess tell some silly dating app stories that really make you consider the meaning of “dinner and a show.” __ This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠@not4everyonepod⁠ ⁠@thegoodsitter⁠ ⁠@jzdebakey⁠ And don't forget about our apparel: ⁠nfepodapparel.com⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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100. How We Actually Found Love on the Apps | Featuring Our Boyfriends 1:33:27

منذ 14 weeks1:33:27

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Get up to 40% off at cozyearth.com/NOTFOREVERYONE . Use code NOTFOREVERYONE. And make sure to check out our SECOND ANNIVERSARY APPAREL LAUNCH at nfepodapparel.com . 10% off with code SCIENTIST through December 16, 2024. __ The boys are back in town! The kings to our kings (just go with it), Justin and Ryan, join Caroline and Jess to talk all about dating apps. Who better to discuss the apps than four people who met on them? The barbershop quartet discusses listener WHATADOs, like what photos to include on your profile, how to revive a dead conversation, tips for finding the balance between red flags and judgment, and FaceTiming or sending photos before you actually meet your match. Besides touching on falling for someone you’d never expect and a few dating/app dealbreakers, they also dissect what worked on their partner’s profiles. The episode ends where their relationships began: talking about their first few dates and how they went from the app to the altar. (Just kidding…for now.) __ This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: @not4everyonepod @thegoodsitter @jzdebakey And don't forget about our apparel: nfepodapparel.com⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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99. Not For Pity Invites + Mini Adventures as Self Care 1:19:23

منذ 16 weeks1:19:23

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Get 10 FREE meals at ⁠https://hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone⁠ . Visit ⁠⁠skims.com⁠⁠ and let them know we sent you! Select Not For Everyone after checkout. Get up to 40% off at ⁠cozyearth.com/NOTFOREVERYONE⁠ . Use code NOTFOREVERYONE. __ This podcast is like a box of chocolates…you never know what you’re gonna get. Caroline and Jess discuss how adventure can be simply leaving the house, some of their instinctive feelings about their futures, how “you’re welcome to join” feels like a slight, and how “do not disturb” has gone too far. Plus, get ready for a grab bag of topics: nefarious owls, C and J’s little jingles, tissue box covers, desk chairs with wheels, a new show on Hulu, feeling horny on hills, and the return of Google search history, which leads to an extremely disturbing beer story. Get ready for stomach flips of all kinds. This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our MERCH store: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://not4everyonepod.myshopify.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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98. For You: Saying No. 1:23:19

منذ 17 weeks1:23:19

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Babies…why is it so hard to say no? Jess and Caroline are going to break it down. First up, saying no to an old friend who you don’t vibe with anymore. Second, how to say no to your mom when she’s pushing religion on you. Third, how to say no to…yourself. They talk dynamics, they talk showing up calmly, they talk boundaries. And they push back when necessary. Plus, are they really scientists? They discuss a few lighter topics like stretching, pigeons (!?), and Jess gives her own example of saying no recently—and how that was turned on its head. We’re all not for everyone; “no” is a central part of the phrase. __ This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Share with a friend! Follow, rate, and review on your favorite podcasting app! Subscribe on YOUTUBE for full episode video: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@Not4EveryonePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus follow us on INSTAGRAM for more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thegoodsitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And don't forget about our MERCH store: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://not4everyonepod.myshopify.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ __ Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA __ DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!…

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