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(Rewind): They’re "Not Sure" They Can Commit to You? These Words Put YOU in Control
Manage episode 463002937 series 2772676
"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .”
Nobody wants to hear these words.
Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about.
Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term.
It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision...
If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution:
Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation...
The wrong way is to try and convince them of all the reasons you’re a great fit (even if every reason is true). This can accidentally push them further away. . .
The right way to handle this situation is to meet their confusion with love and kindness, while also standing strong and respecting yourself.
(Here’s the surprising part: this is actually an incredible opportunity to show your value and remind them of what they risk losing.)
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►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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Manage episode 463002937 series 2772676
"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .”
Nobody wants to hear these words.
Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about.
Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term.
It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision...
If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution:
Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation...
The wrong way is to try and convince them of all the reasons you’re a great fit (even if every reason is true). This can accidentally push them further away. . .
The right way to handle this situation is to meet their confusion with love and kindness, while also standing strong and respecting yourself.
(Here’s the surprising part: this is actually an incredible opportunity to show your value and remind them of what they risk losing.)
---
►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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