Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by h ...
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Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People | Rewind
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18:31Ever feel like you’re stuck dating people who never fully show up? Maybe they’re avoidant, inconsistent, or just not ready for real commitment—yet somehow, you keep holding on, hoping things will change. In this episode, Matthew unpacks why we get attached to people who can’t give us what we need and how to break free from that pattern for good. Yo…
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The Best vs. Worst Cities for Dating RANKED
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56:22Is love really easier to find in Chicago than in Los Angeles? Or is it all in how you show up? In this week’s all-new Love Life episode, we unpack the myths and realities of dating in different cities—and what your zip code might (or might not) have to do with your love life. Plus, we tackle a Love Life Line question from a listener in her 50s who’…
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Should You Stop Taking Dating Advice From Good-Looking People? | Matt Monday
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16:26This episode tackles a topic that’s as raw as it is real: “I no longer want to hear dating advice from conventionally attractive people.” That line, from a recent British Vogue article, struck a chord with many people, and for good reason. So much dating advice comes from people who’ve never had to face what it’s like to be overlooked or rejected a…
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The Biggest Fears in Dating (and How to Overcome Them) | Rewind
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18:12Why do we get so in our heads when we start dating someone new? In this episode, we dive deep into the most common fears people face in early dating — from getting too invested too soon, to navigating intimacy and exclusivity when someone’s seeing multiple people. With over 1,300 comments from listeners sharing their biggest dating anxieties, we un…
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Are Long-Distance Relationships Viable? Our Personal Experience
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1:13:34Long-distance love can be beautiful . . . or it can slowly drive you insane. In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, we talk about how to know the difference. Are you in something real, or just filling a void? We’ll unpack what makes distance work: from actually planning to see each other to noticing when communication starts feeling one-sided. Y…
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The #1 Mistake People Make When They Like Someone | Matt Monday
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11:18Here’s a really tricky part about dating: The moment you realize you like someone, it can feel like everything’s riding on winning them over. But what really makes you magnetic isn’t trying harder . . . it’s showing up as your confident, authentic self, and bringing your own value to the table without overthinking. In this episode, I break down how…
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How to Heal When Your Ex Moves On | Rewind
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14:31Few things hurt more than watching someone you love move on. When the person you thought was “the one” starts building a new life without you, it can feel impossible to breathe, let alone imagine loving again. In this episode, Matthew shares a powerful step-by-step approach to healing after heartbreak—especially when your ex has found someone new. …
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Q&A With Matthew: When to Chase in Relationships, Matthew’s Family, and Modern Dating Problems
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1:02:24This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew Hussey and Producer David dive into some of the most-asked questions about modern relationships. Should you ever chase someone in love, or does persistence risk crossing the line? The conversation also takes a personal turn as Matthew reflects on the strong women in his family who shaped his perspective o…
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How to Heal and Open Your Heart Again After a Toxic Relationship | Rewind
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17:33In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to re…
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“Did Millennials Ruin Dating for Gen Z?”
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51:22In this week’s episode of the Love Life Podcast, we’re exploring how Gen Z is rewriting the playbook on love and relationships. Is romance really taking a back seat to mental health and ambition, or is the story more complicated than that? We talk about: • Why Gen Z might be stepping away from traditional dating norms, and whether it’s a pushback a…
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“The Text Message That Made Me Commit . . .” | Matt Monday
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15:18This week’s episode with bestselling author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is about one of the toughest parts of relationships: those hard conversations you’d rather avoid. You know the ones—where you’re afraid to say the wrong thing, or you’re worried it’ll turn into an argument. In this episode, you’ll learn how to face those conversations with mo…
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The Only Dating App You Should Be Using in 2026 | Matt Monday
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10:20Dating apps can feel like their own toxic relationship. We swear them off, only to come back because life is busy and meeting strangers in the real world feels nearly impossible. A Pew Research survey even found that more than a third of app users walk away feeling more pessimistic about dating than before. So why do we still cling to them, even wh…
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How to Stop Choosing Unavailable People (7 Steps) | Rewind
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26:10Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the righ…
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What's Behind the Male Fear That Women Only Care About Money?
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1:11:01Join the Love Life Podcast crew for this new episode as they examine the tricky link between money and self-worth in dating, answering questions like: • Do most men feel their value is connected to their income? • How big of a role does money actually play when choosing a partner? • In what ways do money expectations affect our relationships? • How…
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Honest Advice to Anyone Wanting Marriage (I’m Two Years in) | Matt Monday
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10:52Marriage is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make—but it’s also one of the riskiest if you’re not careful. In this week’s episode, I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned about what makes a marriage work, why rushing into it can lead to heartbreak, and how to know if you’re choosing the right person for the right reasons. (Plus, I share…
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If You Feel Like You LOST The One, WATCH THIS! | Rewind
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20:59Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself looking back and wondering how things could’ve turned out had you acted differently. Had you known then what you know today. Pretty soon, you’re living in the timeline where you didn’t “ruin everything” with that person . . . ultimately punishing yourself over a parallel univer…
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When You Don’t Feel Attractive Enough for Modern Dating
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5 Tips for Meeting People (From a Guy Who Couldn’t Use the Apps) | Matt Mondays
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How to Make Them Call and Text You Every Day | Rewind
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Why Women Are Giving Up on Men in 2025
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The Psychology of Why We Chase People Who Are WRONG for Us | Matt Monday
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17:13What if the reason your relationships haven’t worked isn’t about who you’ve been with, but about what’s been missing? In this episode with journalist and author Liz Moody, we explore why finding someone who truly understands you is far more important than a checklist of traits. We also talk about why we’re drawn to the wrong people, and how to brea…
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6 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart | Rewind
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The “Ex Effect”: Why Your Brain Can’t Let Them Go
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The Subtle Signs They’ll Commit Forever | Matt Monday
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Want To Keep Their Attention? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead | Rewind
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They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do THIS Instead!
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The Subtle Signs a Narcissistic Partner Is Destroying Your Life | Matt Monday
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The UNEXPECTED Way to Make Someone Want MORE With You | Rewind
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“Nearly 50% of Women will Be Single by 2035”
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The Simple Mindset Shift That Will Save You YEARS in Dating | Matt Monday
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How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Want | Rewind
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The #1 Reason They Keep Losing Interest in You After 3 Months
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The #1 Reason You Feel Powerless in Dating (and How to Fix It) | Matt Monday
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The #1 Way to Respond to Flirty or Sexual Texts | Rewind
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This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life
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58:25What if the things you’ve been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren’t actually what’s holding you back? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn’t determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you’ve set for yourself. The Love …
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How to Know When to Leave a Relationship | Matt Monday
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3 Flirting Tips That Actually Work | Rewind
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5:34So, I want to know what flirting means to you. Does it mean seductively glancing over the bar whilst caressing a cocktail glass? Does it mean subtly leaning over so that he smells your perfume? Or does it mean asking him where the bathroom is, sheepishly turning away, and then walking off to the other side of the room and hoping he just “gets” that…
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Why Being Disliked Is Key to Finding Real Love
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1:15:27Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think? Whether it’s overanalyzing a text, fearing confrontation, or people-pleasing to avoid being disliked, this episode is for you. Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen unpack the fear of being disliked and reveal why embracing it can actually make you more attractive. If you’ve ever felt trapped…
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“When a Relationship’s Right, It’s Easy” . . . WRONG! | Matt Monday
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28:44What makes a relationship truly great? Does it have to be hard to be meaningful? In today’s video, I speak with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast, to find answers. We talk about the difference between the kind of “hard” that strengthens a relationship and the kind that drains it. From navigating challenges as a team to recognizing when e…
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They Left? This Reaction Can Shift Everything | Rewind
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7:14When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into panic mode. Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want me to be? What can I say to get them back? If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll only end up pushing them further and further away. Now, I’m not going to t…
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Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating
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1:22:29Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over? In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxiety sabotages relationships, from early dating to long-term connection…
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The 4 Stages of Mixed Signals: Which One Are You Stuck In? (Matt Monday)
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18:04Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this epsiode, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence. If you’ve ever felt stuc…
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This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG | Rewind
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18:20In this episode, you will see that the ability to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential will save you a lot of grief and time. It will also give you tools to help you clearly see and navigate around any red flags that may appear on your path. --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetrea…
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There’s a lot of talk in modern dating of red flags, but what if you just disagree early on, and don’t know if this is a sign of doom ahead, or simply a chance to communicate and accept your differences? Maybe you have different ideas about where you want to live or the lifestyle you want . . . or your personalities just occasionally clash. In this…
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They Were Perfect… So Why Did It Still End? | Matt Monday
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23:24What if the key to making love last isn’t a grand romantic gesture or constant excitement . . . but learning how to fight the right enemy? In this powerful conversation with Anas Bukhash, we talk about what it really means to be a team in a relationship, where the problem is the enemy, not each other. If you’ve ever wondered how to sustain your con…
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5 Secrets to Finding Love Even If You Hate Dating | Rewind
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9:47Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET…
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Why Intimacy Feels SO Good With the WRONG People – Shan Boodram
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1:15:41Why do we sometimes get ghosted or friend-zoned after intimacy? How can we navigate mismatched libidos, steer clear of toxic intimacy with the wrong people, or keep the spark alive in long-term relationships? In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down with Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and relationship expert with an M.S. in psychology, …
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How to Break the Cycle & STOP Chasing the WRONG Person | Matt Monday
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19:12Why do we keep crashing into the same walls in love? In this conversation with Chris Williamson on his Modern Wisdom podcast, we explore the patterns that keep us stuck—whether it’s chasing unavailable partners, mistaking chaos for passion, or repeating cycles that leave us unfulfilled. We also talk about why these behaviors feel so familiar and ho…
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How to Make Them See You as More Than Just a Hookup | Rewind
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6:34So you slept with a guy. It was good. But now you wake up and have that awkward moment... what now? And how do you keep him attracted afterwards? People tend to get a little awkward in dating after “getting physical” for the first time. I get it. You want to play it cool, but you also make sure this guy knows you’re interested. So here are 3 killer…
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Think It’s Love? 5 Signs It’s Obsession (And It’ll Never Last)
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1:21:22How do you know if it’s love or obsession? What does it mean when you can’t stop thinking about someone who doesn’t return your feelings? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey talk about the phenomenon of limerence, how it can leave you always clinging to hope in dating, and strategies to get yourself out of a one-sided attraction. Topics i…
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