Infertility and Creating a Fulfilling Future

IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast

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The Menendez Brothers | Five-Year Plan | 1 43:56

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Welcome to The So Now What? Podcast with Lana Manikowski. In this episode, we kick off the new year by exploring a life-changing question: How long are you willing to wait to believe that something is possible for you?

If you’ve left fertility treatments without the child you dreamed of—or if you’re feeling stuck in the aftermath of your infertility journey—this episode is for you.

You'll hear:

Why dreaming again can feel impossible after infertility and how to shift that mindset.
How to stop anchoring your future to the pain and disappointment of your past.
What it means to reconnect with the version of you that exists today—a childless, determined woman capable of creating new dreams.
The transformative question that helped Lana move forward and create a fulfilling, childless life.

Lana also introduces you to the Thrive After Infertility Mastermind, a 12-week program designed to help you reconnect with who you are today and build a life that feels meaningful without the milestones of motherhood. If support groups leave you feeling stuck, this growth-oriented program could be what you need to start thriving.

🎯 Take the first step: Book a free, 45-minute Thrive Call with Lana to create a personalized plan for your next chapter. No strings attached.

🌟 Plus, don’t miss Lana’s free resource: "The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless—and How to Respond." Download it at LanaManikowski.com/thingspeoplesay.

Your dreams are still possible, and your future can feel fulfilling again. Tune in to this episode to take the first step toward believing in what’s possible for you.

💌 Connect with Lana:

Website: LanaManikowski.com
Instagram: @LanaManikowski
YouTube: @lana.manikowski
Podcast: Subscribe to The So Now What? Podcast wherever you listen.

✨ Remember: It's never too late to discover your meaning.

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#Society #Self-Improvement #Lana Manikowski #Childless #Infertility #Podcasting Education #IVF

Infertility and Creating a Fulfilling Future

IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast

published منذ عام واحد

MP3•منزل الحلقة

If you’ve left fertility treatments without the child you dreamed of—or if you’re feeling stuck in the aftermath of your infertility journey—this episode is for you.

You'll hear:

Why dreaming again can feel impossible after infertility and how to shift that mindset.
How to stop anchoring your future to the pain and disappointment of your past.
What it means to reconnect with the version of you that exists today—a childless, determined woman capable of creating new dreams.
The transformative question that helped Lana move forward and create a fulfilling, childless life.

🎯 Take the first step: Book a free, 45-minute Thrive Call with Lana to create a personalized plan for your next chapter. No strings attached.

🌟 Plus, don’t miss Lana’s free resource: "The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless—and How to Respond." Download it at LanaManikowski.com/thingspeoplesay.

Your dreams are still possible, and your future can feel fulfilling again. Tune in to this episode to take the first step toward believing in what’s possible for you.

💌 Connect with Lana:

Website: LanaManikowski.com
Instagram: @LanaManikowski
YouTube: @lana.manikowski
Podcast: Subscribe to The So Now What? Podcast wherever you listen.

✨ Remember: It's never too late to discover your meaning.

160 حلقات

#Society #Self-Improvement #Lana Manikowski #Childless #Infertility #Podcasting Education #IVF

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Childless, Not Less: Happiness Without Justification 8:56

منذ 4 أيام8:56

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If you’ve ever felt like happiness is something you have to earn—as if the universe is compensating you for the pain of infertility—this episode is for you. In this special episode of The So Now What? Podcast , I’m giving you a sneak peek into my new book So Now What? , releasing on April 2nd. I’ll be reading a powerful excerpt from Chapter 13, Choosing to Love Your Life After Infertility and Redefining Your Worth, where I challenge the belief that joy is a consolation prize. You deserve to feel good. You deserve to experience happiness, not as an apology for what didn’t happen, but as something you’ve created for yourself. Your life isn’t a backup plan—it’s yours to fully embrace. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✨ How to break free from the compensation mindset—joy is not a reward for suffering ✨ Why you don’t have to justify your happiness to anyone, including yourself ✨ How to retrain your brain to accept and create joy without condition ✨ A powerful challenge to help you own your happiness today 🎉 Win a Free Signed Copy of My Book! I’m giving away 10 signed copies of So Now What?, and you can enter to win right now! Just go to the link in my show notes or my bio on Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube to sign up. If you win, I’ll personally send you a free signed copy! ➡️ Enter now: Giveaway Link Resources & Next Steps: 🎧 Get my free guide: The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless (...and how to respond) 📅 Book a Thrive Call: Let’s create a plan for your future! Schedule Here If this episode resonated with you, imagine what you’ll get from reading So Now What?. Your future is waiting—you deserve to love your life beyond infertility. 💛 I love you, and remember: it’s never too late to discover your meaning. See you next week!…

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Thrive Without Children – Because You CAN 11:18

منذ 10 أيام11:18

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If your fertility journey didn’t lead to motherhood, it’s easy to feel like everything else is just second best. After years of IVF, IUI, and trying everything to have a baby, you never imagined navigating a life without children. And now, instead of embracing the opportunities in front of you, you might feel stuck, wondering if true joy, fulfillment, and connection are even possible for you. But here’s the truth: You CAN create a life that feels meaningful, fulfilling, and deeply connected because you CAN. In this episode of The So Now What? Podcast, I’m sharing how my recent injury and surgery forced me to shift my focus from what I can’t do to what I can and how this same mindset shift is essential for embracing your life after infertility. Too many women who are childless after infertility struggle to see the gifts available to them. You might hold back from fully living, believing nothing could ever measure up to motherhood. But when you start doing things because you CAN instead of focusing on what’s missing, you’ll begin to create a life that feels aligned, purposeful, and truly yours. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: ✔️ Why it’s so easy to overlook the opportunities available to you after infertility ✔️ How my experience recovering from surgery helped me reframe what’s possible ✔️ How to stop treating your life as a backup plan and start embracing it fully ✔️ The simple shifts that help you find joy, fulfillment, and meaning without guilt ✔️ How I help my clients in Thrive After Infertility create lives that feel truly theirs You don’t have to stay stuck in the feeling that life without children is less than what it could have been. The things you CAN do, the dreams you CAN pursue, the adventures you CAN take, the ways you CAN show up for yourself are not second best. They are your life. And when you begin to truly live because you CAN, everything starts to shift. Resources & Next Steps for Your Journey: 📖 My new book, So Now What? , is coming out in April! Enter to win a free signed copy here 📞 Book a free Thrive Call to start creating a life you love without the children you dreamed of. Schedule here The Other's Day Brunch is May 10, 2025 in Chicago. Click here to get on the waitlist! 📩 Download my free guide: The Top 27 Things People Say When You Are Childless (...and how to respond). Get it here 📲 Follow me on social media for daily inspiration: Instagram → @lana.manikowski TikTok → @lana.manikowski 🎧 Catch up on past episodes of The So Now What? Podcast. Listen here If this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. And if you haven’t yet, leaving a review helps more women find this space and know they are not alone. Until next time, remember: You CAN create a life you love because you CAN. 💛…

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If Not Now, When? Moving Forward After Infertility and IVF 9:46

منذ 18 يومًا9:46

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Have you been living in a holding pattern—waiting, hoping, and unsure of when you’ll finally start living again? For years, infertility treatments dictated your schedule. You held off on vacations, skipped girls’ weekends, and put projects on pause, thinking, Maybe by then, I’ll be pregnant. Maybe I’ll have a baby. But now, fertility treatments are behind you, and you’re still feeling stuck. You have ideas of what you could do—remodeling a room, traveling, learning something new—but the energy just isn’t there to start. Why? In this episode, we’re breaking down the three biggest reasons why moving forward can feel paralyzing when you are childless after infertility: 1️⃣ Fear – Making plans for your future feels like closing the door on motherhood, and that’s terrifying. 2️⃣ Comparison – Nothing seems as meaningful as motherhood was supposed to be, so you tell yourself it’s not even worth trying. 3️⃣ Overwhelm – You don’t know where to start, so you keep waiting for the “right time.” But if not now… when? I recently worked with a coaching client who felt this exact way. She had things she wanted to do—remodeling her bathroom, planting a garden, traveling more with her husband—but nothing was on the calendar. It all just felt big. So we mapped it out. What mattered most? What was her first step? When did she want to start? And suddenly, it didn’t feel so overwhelming anymore. This is exactly what we do inside the Thrive After Infertility Mastermind. One of the three core pillars of the program is owning your time—because when you start making intentional choices about how to fill your days, you stop feeling lost in your own life. ✨ Want more guidance? My upcoming book, So Now What?, has an entire chapter dedicated to planning your future in a way that feels meaningful and fulfilling. I’m giving away 10 free signed copies, and you can enter to win using the link in my show notes or by heading to my bio on Instagram or TikTok . And if you’re ready to take action, book a free Thrive Call with me. We’ll create a personalized plan to help you stop waiting and start moving forward. The time to start is now. 🎧 Listen now, and let’s get you out of that holding pattern! 🔗 Resources Mentioned: 🎁 Enter to Win a Free Copy of My Book: click here 📖 Grab My Free Guide: The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless (and How to Respond) 🤍 Book a Free Thrive Call: https://calendly.com/lanamanikowski/strategy-session You don’t have to wait for your life to start. The question is: If not now, when?…

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Infertility and Self-Blame: It’s Time to Let Go 13:01

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Infertility and Self-Blame: It’s Time to Let Go of Guilt After IVF and Fertility Treatments Failed Have you ever found yourself questioning every decision you made on your fertility journey? Wondering if you should have started trying sooner, chosen a different doctor, lost more weight, or pursued another round of IVF? If self-blame has become a constant companion after infertility and failed fertility treatments, you are not alone. So many women who are childless after infertility carry a heavy burden of guilt, believing that somehow, they could have done something differently to change the outcome. But here’s the truth: infertility was never your fault. You did the best you could with the information, resources, and circumstances you had at the time. Blaming yourself isn’t helping - it’s keeping you stuck. It’s time to stop carrying the weight of guilt and start moving toward a future that feels fulfilling, even without the children you dreamed of. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: 💔 Why infertility and self-blame go hand in hand—and how to break free from the cycle of guilt 💬 The most common thoughts women have after failed IVF and fertility treatments—and why they aren’t true 🔗 How guilt impacts your relationships, marriage, and self-worth—and how to rebuild confidence ✨ The truth about control—why infertility was never in your hands and why it's time to let go of the illusion that you could have changed the outcome 🌱 How to release self-blame and start moving forward—without the weight of infertility guilt holding you back You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck in Guilt If infertility has left you feeling like you failed, it’s time for a new perspective. You are not broken. Your worth is not measured by motherhood. And most importantly—you don’t have to carry this guilt alone. If you’re ready to move forward and release the blame you’ve been holding onto, I invite you to join me for a free Thrive Call . This is your opportunity to talk about where you are, how self-blame is impacting your life, and what it would feel like to finally let it go. Together, we’ll create a plan to help you take the first step toward a future that feels meaningful, even without the children you longed for. 🔗 Schedule your free call here: Book a Thrive Call Exciting News! 📖 My book So Now What? launches on April 2nd! I need your help choosing the final back cover design. Head over to my Instagram (@lana.manikowski), check out my latest reels, and vote for your favorite. I’m also giving away signed copies—stay tuned for details on how to enter! 💌 FREE RESOURCE: If you’ve ever struggled with what to say when people make insensitive comments about your childlessness, I have something for you. Download The Top 27 Things People Say When You Are Childless (...and how to respond) for free: Get Your Copy here! You Are More Than Your Fertility Journey Infertility and failed fertility treatments may have shaped your past, but they do not define your future. It’s time to release the blame, let go of the guilt, and start embracing the life that is waiting for you. If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. Your story is not over—it’s just beginning. 💛 🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward healing, self-acceptance, and a future filled with possibility.…

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Handling Pity When You’re Infertile and Childless 14:29

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How to Handle Pity When You’re Childless After Infertility If you’ve ever felt the sting of someone’s pity—whether it’s the sad look, the heavy sigh, or the “I just feel so bad for you” comment—you’re not alone. When you’ve been through fertility treatments like IVF and IUI, only to walk away without the child you dreamed of, the last thing you need is for others to make you feel like your life is something to mourn. In this episode of The ‘So Now What?’ Podcast, we’re talking about how to recognize and process both your own feelings of sorrow and the misplaced pity that others place on you. If you’ve struggled with feeling like people see your life as incomplete because you’re childless—not by choice—this conversation is for you. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: 💔 Why feeling sorry for yourself sometimes is okay—and how to move forward without guilt. 🧠 How to stop internalizing other people’s pity—so you don’t start believing their sadness for you. 👀 Why people pity childless women—and how their words are often more about them than you. 🗣️ How to confidently respond when people say things like “I wish you could have had a baby”—without feeling like you have to justify your happiness or explain your sadness. Your life is not something to be pitied. If you’ve ever felt the weight of infertility, failed IVF, and the unexpected reality of a childless future, I want you to know—there is still so much for you. You can create a meaningful, fulfilling life, even though it looks different than you expected. And if you don’t know what that looks like yet? That’s what I help with. Book a free Thrive Call and let’s create a plan that helps you move forward—so you feel connected to your future instead of stuck in the loss of a dream. Links & Resources: 📖 My Book So Now What? is Coming Soon!—Want updates on the release? Click here . 📞 Book a Free Thrive Call—Let’s create a plan to help you thrive after infertility: Schedule here . 📩 Join My Email List—Get exclusive deals on Thrive After Infertility and weekly encouragement: Sign up here . 🗂️ Download My Free Guide: 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless (and How to Respond)—So you can handle these conversations with confidence: Get it here . You are not alone, and your story is far from over. Let’s release the weight of pity and start embracing what’s next.…

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Feeling Left Out of the Mom Club 15:05

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Do you feel like you don’t belong because you’re not part of the "parent club"? Maybe you’ve noticed friendships shift as kids come into the picture, or you’ve caught yourself feeling excluded from conversations or outings. That sting of being left out is real, and it often taps into a much deeper wound—the grief of the dream of motherhood that didn’t come true. In this week’s episode of The 'So Now What?' Podcast , we’re unpacking this tender topic: Why parenthood seems to create a natural “club” that can leave you feeling like an outsider. How feelings of exclusion connect to the grief of childlessness after infertility. Personal stories of navigating shifting friendships and feeling left out of social circles. Strategies to stop taking it personally—even when it still stings. How to find connection and meaning on your own terms, without needing to fit into the “parent club.” You’ll leave this episode with a new perspective, encouragement to rebuild relationships authentically, and a reminder that your life and connections are deeply meaningful—just as they are. 💌 Never miss an episode! Sign up for my Love Letters and get each new episode delivered straight to your inbox. Click here 🎧 Listen now and discover how to feel confident and connected—even without kids. 📅 Upcoming Free Masterclass: Join me this Thursday, January 30, at 6 PM CT for How to Confidently Navigate Things People Say When You Are Childless . Learn how to handle intrusive questions and unsolicited advice with confidence and ease. Save your spot here: Register now . ✨ Ready to thrive? Book a free 45-minute Thrive Call with me and let’s create a personalized plan to move forward into a fulfilling future. Schedule your call . The Top 27 Things People Say When You Are Childless (...and how to respond): Download your free copy here ! Stay connected with me: 📩 Sign up for Love Letters 📅 Register for the Masterclass 📞 Book Your Thrive Call 📱 Instagram: @lana.manikowski 📹 YouTube: Lana Manikowski 🎵 TikTok: @lana.manikowski #ChildlessNotByChoice #NavigatingInfertility #LifeAfterInfertility #YouAreEnough #ThriveAfterInfertility #SoNowWhatPodcast…

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Time Doesn't Heal the Ache of Childlessness 13:13

منذ 7 weeks13:13

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Episode Summary: Many people believe that time will naturally heal the pain of being childless after infertility, but what if that isn’t true? In this episode of The 'So Now What?' Podcast , Lana dives into a powerful story shared by a woman in her 60s, who has spent decades hoping time would ease the ache of childlessness—only to find herself still struggling with the same feelings of disconnection and loss. Through this heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation, Lana unpacks why the belief that "time heals all wounds" can keep you feeling stuck and disconnected from the life you deserve. She explains how our brains use defense mechanisms to protect us from disappointment but often hold us back from creating the lives we truly want. Lana also shares her own pivotal moment of realizing that the life she was living wasn’t the one she wanted and how taking intentional steps—rather than waiting for time to heal her—changed everything. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why the idea that "time will heal" might not be enough to overcome the ache of childlessness. How fear of disappointment keeps us stuck in a comfort zone that feels anything but comfortable. The power of deciding to create the life you want, even when it looks nothing like the life you envisioned. Real-life examples of women who moved from just "getting by" to thriving in their childless lives. Connect with Lana: Website: www.LanaManikowski.com Instagram: @LanaManikowski Join the Thrive After Infertility Mastermind: Learn More Book a Thrive Call: Schedule Here Take the Next Step: If you’ve been telling yourself that time will eventually heal your wounds but still feel stuck, it’s time to take action. Imagine feeling confident, joyful, and connected one year from now. The life you want is possible—if you’re ready to stop waiting and start creating it today. Don’t let another year pass by without taking a step toward thriving. Listen to this episode and discover how to begin your journey toward a fulfilling, childless life. Share This Episode: If this episode resonated with you or someone you know, share it on social media or send it directly to a friend who might need this message. Let’s keep the conversation going and support one another in thriving after infertility.…

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The Infertility Blame Game: Letting Go and Thriving 13:08

منذ 8 weeks13:08

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In this week’s episode of The So Now What? Podcast, we’re diving into a deeply relatable topic: the habit of self-blame when things don’t go as planned—especially when it comes to your fertility journey. If you’ve ever poured your heart and soul into IVF treatments, followed every protocol, and still didn’t achieve the outcome you dreamed of, this episode is for you. Drawing parallels from a recent personal experience, I share how easy it is to feel like you’ve fallen short despite doing everything right. You’ll learn why blaming yourself only deepens the hurt and how to shift your focus toward celebrating your efforts instead of dwelling on what didn’t work out. I’ll also share stories of women like you who have stopped measuring their worth by outcomes beyond their control and started creating meaningful milestones in their lives. From rediscovering old passions to building a life that feels true and fulfilling, you’ll hear what’s possible when you choose to stop shaming yourself and start showing up as your own greatest supporter. Key Takeaways: Why self-blame feels natural after infertility but ultimately holds you back. The connection between shame and your sense of self-worth. How to rewrite the narrative of what success and fulfillment look like without children. The transformative power of compassion in how you speak to yourself. Resources Mentioned: Free Resource: Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless and How to Respond . Ready to Take the Next Step? If this resonates with you, book a free Thrive Call. In just 45 minutes, we’ll create a plan to help you feel more fulfilled and confident about the future. Click here to book your Thrive Call now . Connect With Me: Instagram: @lanamanikowski YouTube: Lana Manikowski TikTok: @lanamanikowski You’ve worked so hard already—it’s time to create a life that makes you feel proud of who you are. 💜…

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Infertility and Creating a Fulfilling Future 12:02

منذ 8 weeks12:02

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Welcome to The So Now What? Podcast with Lana Manikowski. In this episode, we kick off the new year by exploring a life-changing question: How long are you willing to wait to believe that something is possible for you? If you’ve left fertility treatments without the child you dreamed of—or if you’re feeling stuck in the aftermath of your infertility journey—this episode is for you. You'll hear: Why dreaming again can feel impossible after infertility and how to shift that mindset. How to stop anchoring your future to the pain and disappointment of your past. What it means to reconnect with the version of you that exists today—a childless, determined woman capable of creating new dreams. The transformative question that helped Lana move forward and create a fulfilling, childless life. Lana also introduces you to the Thrive After Infertility Mastermind , a 12-week program designed to help you reconnect with who you are today and build a life that feels meaningful without the milestones of motherhood. If support groups leave you feeling stuck, this growth-oriented program could be what you need to start thriving. 🎯 Take the first step: Book a free, 45-minute Thrive Call with Lana to create a personalized plan for your next chapter. No strings attached. 🌟 Plus, don’t miss Lana’s free resource: "The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless—and How to Respond." Download it at LanaManikowski.com/thingspeoplesay . Your dreams are still possible, and your future can feel fulfilling again. Tune in to this episode to take the first step toward believing in what’s possible for you. 💌 Connect with Lana: Website: LanaManikowski.com Instagram: @LanaManikowski YouTube: @lana.manikowski Podcast: Subscribe to The So Now What? Podcast wherever you listen. ✨ Remember: It's never too late to discover your meaning.…

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Dear Santa: A Letter After IVF Failed 10:24

منذ 11 weeks10:24

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Merry Christmas to Those Who Celebrate This week's episode of The "So Now What?" Podcast is here to guide you through the complexities of the holiday season, especially if you're navigating the challenges of being childless after infertility treatments. Christmas can be a beautiful season of nostalgia and tradition, but it can also bring unexpected emotions - grief, longing, and loneliness - if your journey to motherhood didn’t turn out as planned. 🎄 What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to acknowledge and honor your experiences this year. A unique and empowering exercise: writing a letter to Santa from your adult self. The Letter to Santa Exercise Instead of writing a wish list, this letter is an opportunity to reflect on the strength, growth, and accomplishments you've achieved throughout the year. Acknowledge the challenges you’ve faced and celebrate how far you’ve come. Then, look ahead to your hopes for the future. ✨ Highlights of Lana’s Letter to Santa: Recognizing the bravery to leave a corporate job and start a coaching career. Embracing life without motherhood at its center and finding joy in new connections. Asking for continued strength, self-compassion, and belief in a fulfilling future. Now, it’s your turn. Grab a piece of paper or your journal and write your own letter to Santa. Let this be a moment of self-discovery, healing, and celebration. Feeling Stuck? Book a Free Thrive Call If you’re unsure how to move forward or need guidance as you process the loss of a dream of motherhood, Lana invites you to schedule a free 45-minute Thrive Call. You can book your’s here . This is your chance to connect with someone who truly understands where you are and help you create a plan to move forward. 🎁 Lana’s Gift to You Download a free resource: The Top 27 Things People Say When You're Childless and How to Respond. It’s perfect for navigating those tricky holiday conversations. Get your copy here ! Let’s Stay Connected Follow Lana on Instagram @lana.manikowski for more support and insights, and don’t forget to check your email for a replay of her recent masterclass, Handling the Holidays. 💖 As you navigate the holiday season, remember: You are seen. You are strong. And it’s never too late to discover your meaning. Merry Christmas, and see you next week! 🌟…

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Infertile and Childless Around the Holidays 13:04

منذ 12 weeks13:04

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The holidays can feel especially heavy when you're childless after infertility and IVF. In this episode, I'm sharing heartfelt insights and practical strategies to help you navigate this season with grace, even when it feels like everything revolves around kids. Whether you're grieving the loss of a dream of motherhood after fertility treatments failed you, feeling out of place at family gatherings, or looking for new ways to make the season meaningful, this episode is for you. Join me as I offer support, validation, and actionable tips to help you honor your emotions, set boundaries, and create moments of joy that align with your life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to Honor Your Grief and Emotions: Why it's common to feel both sadness and joy this season, especially after navigating infertility and childlessness after IVF failed. Setting Boundaries at Family Gatherings: How to protect your emotional well-being while showing up in a way that feels true to you. Navigating Holiday Triggers: Managing the constant reminders of what you hoped life would look like, from social media to family traditions, and why it’s normal to feel the grief of being childless after infertility. Creating Your Joyful Traditions: Ideas for new ways to celebrate that bring comfort and meaning to your holiday season when life without children looks different than you expected. Why You’re Not Alone: Real stories of support and love, even when life looks different than you dreamed, and why community matters when you are childless not by choice. Special Invitation: Join my FREE Masterclass on Thursday, December 19th at 6 PM Central Time where we’ll dive deeper into handling the holidays without children. I’ll share more tools and ideas to help you feel prepared, connected, and at peace this season, even if you’re childless after infertility. Register Here Key Moments: [00:01:31] Healing and the love I received—even without kids, and how I am processing life after IVF. [00:03:08] How the holidays highlight grief and bring up unexpected emotions for childless women after infertility. [00:06:32] The truth about grief: it doesn’t disappear, but we can learn to carry it with us. [00:07:25] Setting boundaries and permitting yourself to step back when needed. [00:08:31] Ideas to create new, meaningful traditions that honor your experience as a woman without children. [00:10:32] Holding two emotions at once: joy for others and grief for yourself. Quotes to Inspire You: “Your worth is not defined by whether or not you have children. Your presence matters deeply.” “You can love your nieces and nephews while also grieving what hasn’t happened for you.” “The holidays can feel heavy, but you don’t have to navigate them alone.” Connect with Me: YouTube: @lana.manikowski Instagram: @lana.manikowski TikTok: @lana.manikowski Website: lanamanikowski.com Resources Mentioned: Register for the Free Masterclass: Handling the Holidays: Managing Your Family, Traditions, and Celebrations Without Kids Free Resource: The Top 2️⃣7️⃣ Things People Say When You Are Childless (...and how to respond) If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend who may need to hear this message. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it helps me reach more women navigating life after infertility and IVF who need to hear they are not alone. You are seen. You are loved. And you are not alone.…

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Aging When You Are Childless 11:47

منذ 17 weeks11:47

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In today’s episode of The 'So Now What?' Podcast, we’re tackling a deeply personal fear that many women who are childless after infertility and IVF struggle with: the fear of growing old alone. When the dream of motherhood doesn’t become a reality, it’s natural to worry about who will be there to care for us as we age. We often think that without children, we’re missing a safety net for the future. But what if that isn’t the whole story? Lana Manikowski, certified life coach and advocate for women who are childless after infertility, shares a personal story about the recent outpouring of support she received after a sudden injury. From friends offering rides and food deliveries to unexpected check-ins, Lana’s experience highlights a powerful reminder: family, love, and care come in many forms — not just from children. In this episode, we’ll explore: - Why the fear of aging alone affects so many childless women after fertility treatments - Practical ways to redefine what “family” and “support” can look like in our lives - Steps to build intentional community and meaningful relationships that bring love, connection, and support - How to ease the uncertainty of the future by planning and building a fulfilling life without the milestones of motherhood Join us for this heartfelt discussion on shifting our perspective, letting go of the “what ifs,” and finding reassurance in the connections we’re building today. Tune in to learn more about: - How to embrace a fulfilling future as a childless woman after infertility - Ways to find and nurture a support system beyond biological family - Practical tips to let go of the fear of aging alone without children - Strategies to build a strong, caring community after IVF and fertility treatments Links Mentioned: -Register for the Free Holiday MasterClass here - Free Resource: “The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless (…and how to respond) Download this helpful guide to handle common questions and comments that can feel intrusive or hurtful: https://lanamanikowski.com/thingspeoplesay…

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Welcome to The "So Now What?" Podcast 1:58

منذ 18 weeks1:58

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Welcome to The "So Now What?" Podcast. I am so glad that you're here. I created this podcast because I remember what it felt like after I left fertility treatments without the child that I dreamed of. When I looked around for resources to help me navigate a life I hadn't planned for, I found so few that truly spoke to the experiences of an unexpected childless life. In 2021, I became a certified life coach and started this podcast because I knew that other women were searching - just like I was - for ways to thrive and feel fulfilled, even without the children that we dreamed of. On this playlist, I'm sharing a few of my favorite episodes just to help you get started, but I also encourage you to dive in to any of the others that might resonate with you. Each week I release about a 10 or 15-minute episode to offer support, acknowledgement, and real life strategies to help you recognize that you are not alone. Together, we'll look for opportunities to move forward and redefine what a fulfilling life can look like, even though it turned out so differently than you imagined. If you want to learn more about my coaching practice and the Thrive After Infertility Mastermind, you can visit my website, lanamanikowski. com . And if you're in the Chicago area, I'd love for you to join my meetup group . We have an awesome group of women who are childless and childfree, We get together every so often and connect, share, and support each other. And if you find yourself wanting to visit the Chicago area on Mother's Day weekend, I would love for you to join me at the Other's Day Brunch , an annual event that has gotten national media attention. It's a celebration I host every year the day before Mother's Day to create connection, awareness and unity for women who don't have children at a time that feels so hard. All right, so let's dive in.…

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Support After IVF: What Childless Women Really Want 14:18

منذ 18 weeks14:18

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Welcome to Episode 147 of The “So Now What?” Podcast with Lana Manikowski. In this special episode, Lana dives deep into the often-overlooked journey that follows fertility treatments for women who leave without a child. Whether you’re a fertility doctor, clinic staff, mental health provider, or a woman navigating life after infertility, this episode highlights the unmet needs and real stories from women who feel unseen after treatment ends. Highlights: Free Masterclass on Handling the Holidays Join Lana’s free MasterClass on November 20 at 6 p.m. CST to learn how to manage holiday gatherings and traditions when childless after infertility. In this live class, you’ll gain strategies for building new traditions, handling family dynamics, and creating a plan for holiday celebrations. Register here to reserve your spot! When Treatment Ends: What Childless Women Really Want Lana addresses the gap in support often felt after IVF and fertility treatments conclude. Without a plan or follow-up, patients are left to navigate grief, mental health challenges, and marital and social dynamics alone. Lana shares her recent discussions at the American Society for Reproductive Medicine’s Congress, where she raised awareness about the importance of continued support for patients who leave treatment without a child. Real Voices from Infertiole, Childless, Women Who Needed More Lana shares direct feedback from her community of listeners and followers. Hear heartfelt perspectives from women who longed for acknowledgment and empathy post-treatment, as well as a structured care plan including mental health resources, peer support networks, and follow-up care. These women are calling for a roadmap to help navigate the grief and redefine purpose after infertility. Advocating for Better Resources when IVF Fails Lana encourages women to advocate for their needs by requesting additional resources and post-treatment support from clinics and mental health professionals. To the fertility community, Lana calls for a more holistic approach, recognizing that when treatments end, the journey is far from over for many women. Support beyond the treatment room can bridge a painful void. Why It Matters: This episode sheds light on the immense need for a compassionate continuum of care when ferrility treatment ends without children. From practical resources to sensitive emotional support, The "So Now What?" Podcast aims to uplift women who feel left behind and encourages providers to extend the care they give their patients. Links Mentioned: -Register for the Free Holiday MasterClass here - Free Resource: “The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless (…and how to respond) Download this helpful guide to handle common questions and comments that can feel intrusive or hurtful: https://lanamanikowski.com/thingspeoplesay For fertility doctors, fertility clinics, and anyone involved in patient care, this episode is a heartfelt reminder that the impact of fertility treatments extends far beyond conception. Understanding and addressing these needs can help more women feel seen and supported through their childless journeys.…

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Finding Closure After IVF: What to Say to Your Fertility Doctor 11:51

منذ 20 weeks11:51

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Hello, beautiful! I’m so glad you’re here for this week’s episode of The "So Now What?" Podcast. If you’re watching on YouTube, you’ll notice I’m in a different setting than usual. I’m currently in Denver, attending the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) Annual Congress. This episode might sound a bit different, but it’s coming straight from the heart, and I think it’s one you’ll connect with if you’ve been searching for recognition after leaving IVF or fertility treatments without the child you dreamed of. In this episode, I share a deeply personal story about reuniting with my reproductive endocrinologist after six years of wondering what I’d say if we ever crossed paths again. This was the doctor who, back in 2018, told me my only frozen embryo wasn’t viable for implantation. It was a moment that shifted everything for me and my journey to motherhood. If you’ve ever felt like you were left to figure out life on your own after fertility treatments, this episode is for you. I talk about what it was like to finally speak with him face-to-face and express gratitude for his efforts, even though the outcome wasn’t what I’d hoped for. It was also an opportunity to tell him how I’ve moved forward—leaving my corporate career, becoming a life coach, and now dedicating myself to helping women like you who are navigating life after IVF. As you listen, I want you to think about what you would say if you ever had the chance to speak to your own Reproductive Endocrinologist (RE) or fertility team again. What would you want them to know about where you are today? Whether or not you ever get that chance, it’s important to acknowledge yourself for how far you’ve come and the life you’re creating, even though it looks different than what you envisioned. After the episode, I encourage you to take a few minutes to write down what your conversation would look like. It’s a powerful exercise in recognizing your strength, resilience, and everything you’ve achieved since your fertility journey ended. And if you’re still feeling unsure about what’s next, I’m here to help. Book a free Thrive Call with me, and together, we’ll create a plan for how you can move forward feeling fulfilled, even without the children you hoped for. It’s time to thrive again, and I’m here to walk that path with you. Key Takeaways: You’re not alone in feeling left behind after fertility treatments. It’s a common experience to feel lost without the support and guidance you once had. Think about what closure looks like for you. Even if you never speak to your RE again, you can still acknowledge what you’ve accomplished since that part of your life ended. Your story is yours to create. The narrative around living without children doesn’t have to be one of loss or sadness. You have the power to rewrite your story into something beautiful and fulfilling. Resources: YouTube: Watch this week’s podcast on Youtube. Find my YouTube channel here . Free Download: The Top 27 Things People Say When You’re Childless and How to Respond. Grab your free copy at https://LanaManikowski.com/thingspeoplesay Thrive Call: Ready to create a plan for thriving without the children you dreamed of? Schedule a free Thrive Call with me at https://LanaManikowski.com/thrivecall Thank you for tuning in this week. Remember, it’s never too late to discover your meaning and create a life that feels whole, even if motherhood wasn’t part of your story. I’m so proud of you for showing up and doing the work to live life on your terms. Until next week, take care, and know that I see you, I celebrate you, and I love you.…

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