Episode 61: ReesaTeesa2 - Is it the Chuuch or the The Men?

I Can't Fux With You! Confessions of An Uppity Black Woman

We stay with the story of ReesaTeesa this week, simply because there are many #ubw who are in a ReesaTessa tale right now, however, their stories are not magnified on the interwebs for all the world to provide commentary. ReesaTeesa is a #ubw avatar for how we are trained (or rather not trained) to relationship with men. Our training (or lack thereof) rests on concepts of being a virtuous, pure, Christian Woman who pleases God by living her life in a manner that would be pleasing to her HUSBAND. Thus, if the pinnacle of the good, Christian Black Woman is one that lives for her HUSBAND, living with men who are not HUSBANDS, or having children with men who are not HUSBANDS, is judged, hence, what is a #ubw to do? Marry a crazy n*gga, to avoid judgement and condemnation from the CHUUCH, and have the world captivated by a story that is more common than we will allow ourselves to admit. The s*it I went through (and I am still going through) with my ex-husband, could fill a whole book, movie, and television series. Sis, have you asked yourself, is it possible that we will soon get to watch your story?

REFERENCES IN TODAYS EPISODE
Queen Mother Nanny - Goddess of Liberation
Leave the World Behind
Reesa Teesa on Instagram
Reesa Teesa and the The Theology of Partnership @thekristianasmith
Livingstone College
Diary of a Black Church Girl: Toxic Purity Culture, by Crystal Payne

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