Loving Your Mean Girl

Extraordinary Asian Women

We all have a mean girl within us, they're the jealous part, the angry part, the gossipy part, the condesending part, the resentful part.
Our mean girl is the part of us that we don't want to admit that we have.
That's because this part has somehow been denied, been shamed, been punished.
And we don't want to admit that we have it, because it means we're not good girls. It's not appropriate for us, because as a girl, we are nice, caring, loving, kind, generous, etc.
In this episode, I shared with you 3 of my mean girls.
The envious/jealous mean girl.
The impatient/high expectation mean girl.
The resentful mean girl.
I worked really hard to get to know them, accept them, embrace them and love them.
I'd love for you to see yours for who she is, let her know that there is nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to hide. It's all a sign that there is pain residing deep within us. And we're here to love them fully and wholeheartedly.