How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win with Rebecca Zung: An EOFire Classic from 2021

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From the archive: This episode was originally recorded and published in 2021. Our interviews on Entrepreneurs On Fire are meant to be evergreen, and we do our best to confirm that all offers and URL's in these archive episodes are still relevant.

Rebecca Zung is a Narcissism Negotiation Expert. She was recognized as Best Lawyer in America by U.S. News. She has two bestselling books and 6 million views on YouTube. She has been featured on Extra, Dr. Drew, NPR, Forbes, in Time Mag, Huffington Post, Newsweek and many more media outlets.

Top 3 Value Bombs

1. You alone define your value. Regardless of how the other person makes you feel, you have the power to not give them the permission. A narcissist will do everything to bring you down.

2. The key to negotiating with a narcissist is to build a strategy and have leverage that actually threatens a source of narcissistic supply that is more important for the narcissist to keep and retain than the supply that they get from jerking you around and keeping you miserable.

3. When you’re creating that “magic bullet” leverage, think about what’s going to motivate and squeeze that narcissist, and incentivize them into wanting to come to the table with you by coming up with things that potentially expose them.

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