Coaching Pleasure – The business of becoming a better lover

Crude

Elle, Misty, Frank, and special guest Becka in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to talk about the different types of help people turn to to become better lovers or to enhance their own sexual experiences. With a huge surge in interest in sexual learning in the past years, the Crude team discuss if sex can be coached at all and why people believe it can.

Rebecca is a coach, workshop, and breathwork facilitator, and writer. Her focus is on sexuality, pleasure, relaxation and the exploration of how to live a rich emotional, and physical life. Find her on Insta @feel_more_bln

*What we were reading*

[Book] Avgi Saketopoulou, Sexuality Beyond Consent: Risk, Race, Traumatophilia (2023)

[Festival] Stockholm Scenario Festival

[Workshops] Workshops on seggsual learning from luhmen d'Arc Insta: @luhmendarc_

[Webpage] James Joyce's love farts

"You had an arse full of farts that night, darling, and I fcuked them out of you, big fat fellows, long windy ones, quick little merry cracks and a lot of tiny little naughty farties ending in a long gush from your hole. It is wonderful to fcuk a farting woman when every fcuk drives one out of her. I think I would know Nora’s fart anywhere. I think I could pick hers out in a roomful of farting women. It is a rather girlish noise not like the wet windy fart which I imagine fat wives have. It is sudden and dry and dirty like what a bold girl would let off in fun in a school dormitory at night. I hope Nora will let off no end of her farts in my face so that I may know their smell also."