Episode 9: The Amigas Relationship Goals

Chatting With My Amigas

Welcome to another chat with the Four Amigas! This week we discuss our relationship goals, both with our friends and intimate partners. We kick things off by hearing from each of the Amigas about the rules that govern their relationships, from clubbing with friends to navigating loyalty, trust, and how to set boundaries. Michelle breaks down her list of requirements when she meets someone new, and unpacks which of those items are non-negotiable in her dating life. We hear from Daimy as she expands on the rules that govern her friendships, and why she has no space for toxic or needy people in her life. Michelle explains why anyone she commits to needs to also meet the criteria of her close friends, and what being married has taught her. We also discuss some of the rules we have around dating men with children, how to navigate those relationships, and how a previous marriage can deepen your understanding of yourself and how to share a life with someone. Join us for a lively and honest conversation on relationships, life, and the importance of taking risks!

Key Points From This Episode:

• The four Amigas share the rules, and non-rules, that govern their relationships.
• Discover how the four Amigas treat loyalty, jealousy, and commitment in romantic relationships.
• Michelle breaks down her list of rules when it comes to dating.
• Daimy shares how she steers clear of toxic friendships.
• How each of the Amigas approaches clubbing, work events, and travel in their relationships.
• Why Michelle’s partner needs to meet the criteria of all the Amigas.
• Learn about Michelle’s non-negotiables in her dating life.
• Marcy’s advice for anyone who is considering dating a man with children.
• The Amigas share their thoughts on dating a man in his forties who has never been married.
• Why Michelle believes in taking risks and what she has learned from taking chances.

Tweetables:

“They were amazing parents and you leave nobody behind. Somebody falls, you stop, you pick them up, and you move forward.” — Michelle [0:03:58]

“I don't need needy friends. I don't need toxic friends. Like, anything that's negative in my life. No, we don't need it. So I think that's the main priority for me.” — Daimy [0:05:46]

“We both have God as our center. We're a couple of faith, and we try to be grateful and we try to meet personally. I always say I talk to him every day.” — GG [0:07:51]

“You have to grow and change as a couple because when you're in a long term relationship, friendship, or a marriage, or a loving relationship, you have to adapt to those changes.” — Marcy [0:12:35]

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