Why You Do What You Do - How Your Childhood Environment Impacts Your Present Perspective

Becoming Wiser

In this episode, I explore the profound impact our past environment has on our present outlook, sharing a deeply personal story to illuminate this universal truth. My childhood experience, shaped by unique family dynamics and traditions, had a ripple effect into my adult relationships, particularly my marriage. Like many, I grew up in a shifting family setting, unknowingly adopting beliefs and behaviors that I carried into adulthood. It was only after counseling that I grasped how deeply rooted these influences were, causing me to reevaluate my own concept of family. Now, I share these insights to help you recognize the subconscious patterns you may also be carrying, so you can cultivate richer, more fulfilling relationships.

Show Notes:

1. Introduction to Dr. Robert Rohm and the episode's focus: how your past environment shapes your current outlook.
2. The changing dynamics of families and their influence on individuals.
3. Dr. Rohm's personal story: being an only child with a significant age gap between his parents.
4. Memories of family dinners and outings: contrasting experiences with his mother and father.
5. Realization of a pattern affecting his adult life, particularly in his marriage.
6. The role of 'Family Night' at the Elks Club during his childhood.
7. The crisis point in his marriage, influenced by past experiences around family dinners.
8. Seeking counseling and the insights gained.
9. The breakthrough moment: understanding the link between 'Family Night' and his outlook on family gatherings.
10. Dr. Rohm’s newfound perspective on what family means beyond shared meals.

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Dr. Robert A. Rohm is a well-known speaker, author, and expert in the fields of communication, leadership, and personality assessment. He is the founder of Personality Insights, Inc., a company that provides resources and training programs to help individuals and organizations improve communication and build positive relationships. Dr. Rohm has authored several books, including "Positive Personality Profiles" and "Taking Flight!: Master the DISC Styles to Transform Your Career, Your Relationships, Your Life". He is also a sought-after speaker and has conducted training sessions and seminars for businesses, schools, and organizations across the world.