What Are the Words My Kids Long to Hear?

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We're all striving to be the best fathers we can be, and sometimes it can be tough to know what to say. Ted Lowe, Bobby Lewis, Maddox Womble, and Reggie Lewis list multiple affirmations kids crave from their dads and examine why those words are so important.

Dads need to understand the power of our words. It's important to be intentional and make sure your kids know that you care. Take a moment to reflect on the words you use with your kids. Are you saying the things they need to hear? It’s okay if you don’t know what to say? Start with this list if you need help getting going:

1. I love you.

2. I like you.

3. You are safe.

4. You are good enough.

5. I’m giving you a second chance.

6. I’m sorry.

7. It’s OK. “Mistakes happen.”

8. I trust you.

9. It’s okay not to be okay.

10. Pause

11. I trust you.

12. You’re really good at that.

13. I’m proud of you.

14. You are beautiful.

15. I love spending time with you.

16. You are not alone in this.

17. I’m here for you.

18. You’re doing a great job.

19. I wish you could see you the way I see you.

20. Thank you.

21. I love watching you play.

22. I love spending time with you.

23. I’m so lucky to be your dad.

24. You are feeling________, and that’s understandable.

25. What’s on your mind? Let’s talk.

26. Let’s spend time together.

27. It’s okay to be sad.

28. It’s okay not to be perfect.

29. Good job.

Today’s Pro Move:
Choose one phrase you heard on today’s podcast that you have never said to your child and say it this week. If you have trouble doing this in person, you can start with a note or a text.
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