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#1156 - From Buttons to Beards: Why Kids Develop Strange Fears (And How to Help)
Manage episode 462134691 series 1230931
How to support children through their fears and phobias - whether it's buttons, beards, or anything in between - without escalating their anxiety.
Key Points:
- Children's fears, no matter how irrational they seem, are genuinely frightening to them
- Trying to have rational conversations with emotional children is counterproductive
- Telling children they have "no choice" increases anxiety rather than reducing it
- Creating emotional safety must come before addressing the fear itself
- Gentle exposure combined with patience is more effective than forced confrontation
Quote of the Episode: "Your child is not being difficult. He is experiencing a difficulty. There's a really big difference there."
Key Insights:
- The importance of validating feelings before problem-solving
- Why social normalisation often helps naturally reduce fears
- How creating distance between stimulus and response can help
- The value of giving children agency in finding solutions
- Why parent-led solutions are often sufficient without therapy
Resources Mentioned:
- Inside Out 2 movie review episode (January 16th)
- Happy Families website
- School inclusion policies
Action Steps for Parents:
- Acknowledge the fear without trying to talk them out of it
- Focus on creating emotional safety before addressing the fear
- Look for and celebrate "brave moments"
- Give children agency in finding solutions
- Consider alternative practical solutions (like wearing sports uniform)
- Work with schools to find accommodations when needed
- Remember that most childhood fears resolve with patience and support
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Manage episode 462134691 series 1230931
How to support children through their fears and phobias - whether it's buttons, beards, or anything in between - without escalating their anxiety.
Key Points:
- Children's fears, no matter how irrational they seem, are genuinely frightening to them
- Trying to have rational conversations with emotional children is counterproductive
- Telling children they have "no choice" increases anxiety rather than reducing it
- Creating emotional safety must come before addressing the fear itself
- Gentle exposure combined with patience is more effective than forced confrontation
Quote of the Episode: "Your child is not being difficult. He is experiencing a difficulty. There's a really big difference there."
Key Insights:
- The importance of validating feelings before problem-solving
- Why social normalisation often helps naturally reduce fears
- How creating distance between stimulus and response can help
- The value of giving children agency in finding solutions
- Why parent-led solutions are often sufficient without therapy
Resources Mentioned:
- Inside Out 2 movie review episode (January 16th)
- Happy Families website
- School inclusion policies
Action Steps for Parents:
- Acknowledge the fear without trying to talk them out of it
- Focus on creating emotional safety before addressing the fear
- Look for and celebrate "brave moments"
- Give children agency in finding solutions
- Consider alternative practical solutions (like wearing sports uniform)
- Work with schools to find accommodations when needed
- Remember that most childhood fears resolve with patience and support
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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