What’s the secret to a marriage that lasts 30 years or more?

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In this episode, we delve into the concept of being "qualified" in the workplace, examining who gets labeled as such, who doesn't, and the underlying reasons. We explore "competency checking"—the practice of scrutinizing individuals' abilities—and how it disproportionately affects underrepresented groups, often going unnoticed or unchallenged. Our discussion aims to redefine qualifications in a fair, equitable, and actionable manner. Our guest, Shari Dunn , is an accomplished journalist, former attorney, news anchor, CEO, university professor, and sought-after speaker. She has been recognized as Executive of the Year and a Woman of Influence, with her work appearing in Fortune Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, Ad Age, and more. Her new book, Qualified: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work , unpacks what it truly means to be deserving and capable—and why systemic barriers, not personal deficits, are often the real problem. Her insights challenge the narratives that hold so many of us back and offer practical solutions for building a more equitable future. Together, we can build workplaces and communities that don’t just reflect the world we live in, but the one we want to create. A world where being qualified is about recognizing the talent and potential that’s been overlooked for far too long. It’s not just about getting a seat at the table—it’s about building an entirely new table, one designed with space for all of us. Connect with Our Guest Shari Dunn Website& Book - Qualified: https://thesharidunn.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/today/author/sharidunn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesharidunn Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Holding It Together: Women As America's Safety Net with Jessica Calarco | 215 How To Defy Expectations with Dr. Sunita Sah | 271 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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In this episode, we uncover the blueprint for a strong marriage by exploring the lessons learned from decades of love, partnership, and perseverance. Inspired by Ice Cube’s heartfelt conversation with Cam Newton about his 32-year marriage, we dive deep into what it really takes to sustain a relationship for the long haul. What we discuss:The essential ingredients for a lasting marriage, from trust to communicationHow couples navigate challenges like finances, career shifts, and personal growthThe power of commitment, love, and resilience in keeping a marriage aliveWhether you’re newlywed, in a long-term relationship, or simply looking for inspiration, this episode offers powerful insights into creating a bond that stands the test of time.Join the conversation: What’s your key to a lasting relationship? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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Did We Made A Mistake ??We Spent $30K on Our Wedding… Now Our Marriage Feels Like a Disaster! 💔💰 20:02

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Send us a text We Spent $30K on Our Wedding… Now Our Marriage Feels Like a Disaster! We planned the perfect wedding—two ceremonies, hundreds of guests, and over $30,000 spent to make it a dream come true. But now, just a few months later, we’re left wondering… did we make a mistake? The reality of marriage after the wedding is hitting HARD. No more honeymoon phase, just bills, responsibilities, and a whole lot of unspoken expectations. In today’s episode, we’re breaking down: What We’ll Discuss: Did we focus too much on the wedding & not enough on the marriage? How the pressure of a ‘perfect’ wedding can create cracks in a relationship The post-wedding blues & why so many couples struggle after saying “I do” What You’ll Learn: The #1 mistake newlyweds make that sets them up for failure How to keep the love alive when the excitement fades Three key strategies to build a strong marriage before it’s too late If you’re married, engaged, or even just thinking about your future wedding, this episode is a must-watch! Let’s talk about the real side of love after the wedding day. Drop a comment below: Did you experience the post-wedding reality check? How did you handle it? Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE! Your support helps us grow and keep these real conversations going. WATCH NOW & let’s break the silence on post-wedding struggles. #MarriageReality #WeddingRegrets #PostWeddingBlues #HusbandAndWife #RealTalk #RelationshipGoals You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Boyfriend vs. Husband: Why Did He Change After Marriage? 17:45

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Send us a text Dilemma (First-Person Perspective - Wife’s POV) *"I remember when we first started dating—he was romantic, thoughtful, and always looking for ways to make me smile. I’d wake up to good morning texts, random love notes, and surprise dates just because he wanted to make me happy. Fast forward to today, we’re married, and everything feels… different. Now, instead of sweet messages, I wake up to ‘Did you pay the gas bill?’ Instead of surprise dates, it’s ‘Let’s just order takeout.’ I don’t remember the last time he planned something special for us. Even the way he looks at me has changed. It’s not that I don’t love him, but I can’t help but wonder—where did the man I fell in love with go? Did marriage change him? Or did he just stop trying? I don’t want to sound ungrateful. He still works hard, provides for us, and is a good husband in many ways, but I miss the excitement, the little things that made me feel special. I tried bringing it up, but he says, ‘We’re married now, things are just different.’ But why? Why does marriage have to mean the romance dies? Is this normal? Or am I expecting too much? And more importantly—can we bring back what we had, or is this just the reality of marriage?”* --- Episode Introduction Marriage is supposed to be an evolution, but for many couples, it can feel like a downgrade. Today, we’re discussing: Why Do Some Men Change After Marriage? – Is it comfort, societal expectations, or just natural evolution? Does Romance Have an Expiration Date? – We’ll talk about whether love just "matures" or if people actually stop putting in effort. How to Get the Spark Back – Practical ways to rekindle the romance and make both partners feel valued again. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand what really happens when the boyfriend becomes a husband, why the shift occurs, and how to prevent it from turning into a relationship crisis. --- 3 Actionable Goals for Couples Facing This Problem Communicate Needs Without Criticism – Instead of saying “You never do anything romantic anymore,” try, “I really miss when we used to go on spontaneous dates. Can we bring that back?” Make Time for Intentional Effort – Set a recurring ‘date night’ (even at home), and alternate who plans it. Reignite the Playfulness – Bring back what made you fall in love in the first place, whether it’s playful teasing, inside jokes, or small thoughtful gestures. You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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The Catfish & Rejection: One Wild Wedding Nightmare 15:31

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Send us a text In this episode, we delve into the astonishing story of Onijah Andrew Robinson, a 33-year-old American woman who traveled to Pakistan to marry her 19-year-old online partner, only to face unexpected challenges. After using a digital filter to alter her appearance during virtual interactions, Onijah's arrival led to unforeseen consequences. Episode Highlights: The Online Romance: How Onijah and her young partner connected online and the development of their relationship. The Deception Unveiled: The role of digital filters in their communication and the impact of this revelation upon meeting in person. Cultural and Familial Reactions: The response from the young man's family and the broader community in Pakistan. Onijah's Current Situation: Her experiences in Pakistan following the incident and the media attention surrounding her story. Join us as we explore the complexities of online relationships, the implications of digital deception, and the cultural nuances that played a pivotal role in this real-life drama. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insightful discussions on unique and compelling stories from around the world. #OnijahRobinson #CatfishStory #OnlineRelationships #DigitalDeception #CulturalClash #PakistanNews #ViralStories #InternetRomance #PodcastEpisode #SubscribeNow You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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When Love Feels Like a Chore: How to Fix a Marriage That’s Falling Apart 23:25

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Send us a text What happens when your relationship starts to feel like a never-ending cycle of work, bills, school runs, and house chores? When the spark you once had with your partner slowly fades into routine and distance? In this emotionally charged episode of Pod On The Road, we explore the power of breaking free from the mundane and prioritising intentional time together. Inspired by a heart-wrenching dilemma, we share the painful reality of a marriage that’s lost its connection—where a wife’s attempt to reignite their love is met with devastating rejection. After planning a surprise anniversary dinner, only to be dismissed with, “I’m too tired for all that,” she reaches a breaking point. The final blow? Their son whispered to his sister, “I think Mommy and Daddy don’t like each other anymore.” Desperate to fix things, she books a getaway to Hidden Home in Haywards Heath, a peaceful retreat designed for couples and families to reset and reconnect. But when she tells her husband, his response.... You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Welcome Home: How to Greet Your Husband and Set the Tone for Connection 26:03

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Send us a text Ever wondered how a simple greeting could change the entire dynamic of your marriage? In this episode of Husband & Life, we explore the power of welcoming your husband home with warmth, love, and intention. Why Does It Matter? Studies show that couples who engage in small daily acts of affection report higher levels of satisfaction in their relationships. Something as simple as a warm hug, eye contact, or words of affirmation can set the tone for intimacy, communication, and connection for the rest of the evening. What We Cover: The psychology of a warm welcome and why it strengthens relationships How setting the right home environment can impact his stress levels Common mistakes wives make when their husband returns home Practical steps to greet your husband that build long-term intimacy The 1950s housewife approach vs. modern-day marriage—what still works? The Challenge: This week, try greeting your partner with intention and see how it changes the atmosphere of your home. A small shift in energy can transform your relationship dynamics in ways you never expected! Would you greet your husband like they did in the 1950s? Or do modern relationships need a different approach? Let’s discuss in the comments! Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE for more relationship advice, marriage tips, and communication hacks! #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #HusbandAndWife #LoveAndMarriage #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationInMarriage #HowToGreetYourHusband #RelationshipPodcast #HusbandAndLife You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Why do men stay in marriages without love? 15:29

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Send us a text In this week's episode we discuss a video we saw online. Three husbands gather for an unfiltered conversation about the realities of their marriages. They open up about their struggles, admitting that after nine years of being married, they feel disconnected from their wives—confessing they don’t truly know or love them anymore. As they explore the challenges of intimacy, communication, and personal growth, the conversation becomes an honest reflection on the complexities of long-term relationships. You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Can They Save Their Love 24:06

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Send us a text 100th Episode Special! In this milestone episode of Husband and Life, we’re diving into a question that might just save your relationship: Can luxury experiences bring couples closer together? Imagine this: One spouse feels overworked, overwhelmed, and unappreciated, while the other seems to be living their best life, indulging in solo self-care and “me time.” Sound familiar? It’s the perfect recipe for resentment. But what if the solution is simpler than you think—like taking time to indulge in shared, luxurious experiences? Inspired by real-life stories and our own journey, we discuss the magic of pampering and bonding and how places like The Pamper Lounge in Uckfield, East Sussex can turn stress into connection. From romantic date nights to princess-themed family moments, this episode is packed with ideas to rekindle your bond and create lasting memories. In This Episode: The shocking truth behind why shared experiences matter in relationships. A dilemma you won’t believe: when self-care for one leads to burnout for the other. How investing in pampering sessions can transform your love life (and your family dynamic). Simple tips to bring luxury into your daily routine without breaking the bank. Fun Fact: Studies show couples who regularly share meaningful experiences are 68% happier in their relationships! Could this be the missing ingredient in your marriage? Located in Uckfield, The Pamper Lounge offers a range of experiences designed to strengthen connections, from couples’ date nights to family bonding moments and group celebrations. Join us for this celebratory 100th episode as we explore the balance between me-time and we-time. Whether you’re looking to reconnect with your partner or add some sparkle to your family life, this episode is for you! You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Mastering Marriage: How to Be the Husband She Truly Deserves 22:11

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Send us a text In this episode of the Husband and Life Podcast, we explore what it truly means to show up for your wife and become the partner she deserves. Whether it’s deepening emotional intimacy, resolving conflict effectively, or building a legacy of love and respect, this conversation is packed with actionable insights to strengthen your marriage. We’ll cover: Why listening is more powerful than fixing. How to celebrate your partner’s wins and show genuine support. The key to fighting for growth, not victory, during conflicts. What kind of legacy you’re building as a husband and father. This is the ultimate guide to mastering marriage and building a partnership that thrives. Your wife deserves the best version of you—start creating it today. --- Hashtags: #MarriageTips #HusbandAndWife #HealthyRelationships #MarriagePodcast #LoveAndRespect #BeABetterHusband #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageGoals #HusbandLife #EmotionalIntimacy #ConflictResolution #BuildingLegacy You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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No Friendship No Marriage 19:53

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Send us a text "In this episode of Husband and Life, we tackle a heartfelt dilemma from James, a husband who feels like the friendship in his marriage is slipping away. Once best friends with his wife, Lisa, their connection has faded into routine conversations about bills and responsibilities. Now, James is wondering if it’s too late to rebuild the bond they once shared. We discuss how losing friendship can impact a marriage, the signs to watch for, and practical ways to reconnect with your partner. Can love thrive without friendship, or is it the glue that holds relationships together? Tune in as we break it all down and share actionable advice. Don’t forget to Like, Comment, Share, and Subscribe to support the podcast!" Hashtags: #HusbandAndLife #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipHelp #RekindleTheSpark #LoveAndFriendship #PodcastForMen #MarriageTips You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Wildest Stories Of 2024 18:44

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Send us a text Title: The Wildest Stories of the Year: 2024 Wrap-Up! In this special year-end episode of Husband and Life, we’re taking a look back at four of the wildest, most jaw-dropping relationship stories we’ve covered this year. From betrayal to heartbreak, these tales had us—and our listeners—talking for weeks! Here’s what we’re unpacking: Toxic Mother-in-Law Drama: A story of boundaries crossed, family feuds, and a mother-in-law who took manipulation to a whole new level. The Cheating Pastor’s Affair Baby: When faith and infidelity collide, the fallout is both shocking and heartbreaking. “Did My Husband Give Me an STD?”: A wife’s devastating discovery leads to questions of trust, honesty, and health. Sweet Bobby: A catfishing saga so intricate and emotional, it felt like something out of a thriller. Join us as we reflect on these unforgettable stories and the lessons they’ve taught us about love, trust, and resilience. Which story shocked you the most? Listen now and share your thoughts! Hashtags: #HusbandAndLife #YearInReview #RelationshipPodcast #ToxicFamily #Infidelity #Catfishing #MarriageDrama #PodcastForMen #TrustAndLove #RelationshipLessons You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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She Cheated… Should She Tell Him? 21:59

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Send us a text YouTube Episode Description Title: She Cheated… Should She Tell Him? In this gripping episode of Husband and Life, we dive into a story that will leave you questioning the foundations of love, trust, and forgiveness. A wife cheated on her husband two weeks ago and now struggles with guilt. But instead of confessing directly, she recalls a promise he made years ago: “If you cheat, tell me, and I’ll forgive you.” Does that promise still hold up? Should she tell him, or will the truth destroy their marriage? We explore the emotional fallout, the dynamics of trust, and whether honesty is always the best policy. Along the way, we share eye-opening statistics about infidelity: 20% of married people admit to cheating. 60% of affairs are discovered, not confessed. 53% of marriages that face infidelity end in divorce. Tune in as we discuss the husband’s potential reaction, the power of promises, and how to navigate such a complex and emotional situation. What would YOU do? Let us know in the comments! Follow Us: Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more! Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter: @HusbandAndLife Hashtags: #HusbandAndLife #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipPodcast #Infidelity #TrustIssues #CheatingConfession #MarriageHelp #PodcastForMen #Forgiveness #LoveAndMarriage You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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We Listen We Don't Judge 10:40

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Send us a text Episode Description: "Welcome to Husband and Life! In this episode, we’re diving into the viral TikTok challenge, 'We Share, We Don’t Judge.' This hilarious and revealing trend has couples confessing their quirks, habits, and guilty pleasures—while their partners promise not to judge. We’re bringing the challenge to life with some of our own confessions (yes, things get a little too real), along with tips for how you can try this with your partner, your friends, or even your bros. Laugh along with us as we explore why sharing your quirks isn’t just funny—it’s also a relationship superpower. Stick around for practical tips, a ton of laughs, and a challenge that’ll have you seeing your partner in a whole new way. Ready to take on the challenge? Post your confessions in the comments, or tag us using #WeShareWeDontJudge! Let’s share, laugh, and connect—no judgment required." You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Russian Men vs. American Men: Who’s Winning at Love? 22:54

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Send us a text Episode Description: Are relationships shaped by culture? In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the cultural divide between Russian and American men when it comes to love, family, and relationships. From traditional values to modern dynamics, we ask the question: Who’s got it right? On one side, we explore Russian men—often seen as providers who emphasize tradition, family roles, and responsibility. On the other, American men—embracing partnership, equality, and shared responsibilities in modern relationships. Is it about provision or partnership? Does one cultural approach create stronger, longer-lasting relationships? On the other, American men—embracing partnership, equality, and shared responsibilities in modern relationships. Is it about provision or partnership? Does one cultural approach create stronger, longer-lasting relationships? What we discuss: The difference between cultural expectations for men in Russia vs. the U.S. How traditional vs. modern relationship dynamics impact love and family. Can we learn lessons from both approaches to create #RelationshipDynamics #RussianMen #AmericanMen #DatingCulture #CrossCulturalRelationships #ProvidingForYourPartner #PodcastEpisode #HusbandAndLifePodcast #DatingExpectations #Relationships #LoveAndMoney You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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What’s the secret to a marriage that lasts 30 years or more? 17:49

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Send us a text In this episode, we uncover the blueprint for a strong marriage by exploring the lessons learned from decades of love, partnership, and perseverance. Inspired by Ice Cube’s heartfelt conversation with Cam Newton about his 32-year marriage, we dive deep into what it really takes to sustain a relationship for the long haul. What we discuss:The essential ingredients for a lasting marriage, from trust to communicationHow couples navigate challenges like finances, career shifts, and personal growthThe power of commitment, love, and resilience in keeping a marriage aliveWhether you’re newlywed, in a long-term relationship, or simply looking for inspiration, this episode offers powerful insights into creating a bond that stands the test of time.Join the conversation: What’s your key to a lasting relationship? Share your thoughts in the comments! You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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Do You Feel Trapped in Your Marriage? The Emotional Struggles No One Talks About 32:02

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Send us a text Episode Description:** Are you feeling stuck in a marriage that feels more like a cage than a partnership? In this deeply emotional episode, we dive into the struggles many couples face when love feels overshadowed by betrayal, financial pressure, and unspoken resentment. We explore the story of a couple torn apart by infidelity, financial stress, and emotional disconnect. He feels desperate and misunderstood, while she’s carrying the weight of heartbreak, frustration, and the overwhelming reality of their future together. Together, they’re chained to each other in a relationship that feels suffocating. **What you’ll learn:** - The emotional toll of feeling trapped in a marriage - How financial struggles and lack of communication can break a relationship - Why betrayal and resentment can leave lasting scars This isn’t just another relationship conversation—it’s a raw, real look at the painful dynamics that often go unspoken. Whether you’re navigating similar challenges or just curious about the hidden struggles of marriage, this episode is for you. You can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcast Please Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button…

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