Over The Bridge - Episode 70 - Fatherhood with Kalil Rouse

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Episode 10: From Refugee to Radical 44:09

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When a young Eva Kollisch arrives as a refugee in New York in 1940, she finds a community among socialists who share her values and idealism. She soon discovers ‘the cause’ isn’t as idyllic as it seems. Little does she know this is the beginning of a lifelong commitment to activism and her determination to create radical change in ways that include belonging, love and one's full self. In addition to Eva Kollisch’s memoirs Girl in Movement (2000) and The Ground Under My Feet (2014), LBI’s collections include an oral history interview with Eva conducted in 2014 and the papers of Eva’s mother, poet Margarete Kolllisch, which document Eva’s childhood experience on the Kindertransport. Learn more at www.lbi.org/kollisch . Exile is a production of the Leo Baeck Institute , New York | Berlin and Antica Productions . It’s narrated by Mandy Patinkin. Executive Producers include Katrina Onstad, Stuart Coxe, and Bernie Blum. Senior Producer is Debbie Pacheco. Associate Producers are Hailey Choi and Emily Morantz. Research and translation by Isabella Kempf. Sound design and audio mix by Philip Wilson, with help from Cameron McIver. Theme music by Oliver Wickham. Voice acting by Natalia Bushnik. Special thanks to the Kollisch family for the use of Eva’s two memoirs, “Girl in Movement” and “The Ground Under My Feet”, the Sophia Smith Collection at Smith College and their “Voices of Feminism Oral History Project”, and Soundtrack New York.…

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In this episode we are joined by our good friend Kalil Rouse for the second time. Kalil is a Cambridge alum, teacher and recently became a father with his first child. Kalil shares his journey so far and we go into a discussion on the role of a father, challenges of raising a child in society and even reflect on our own relationships with our respective fathers. Enjoy!

DISCLAIMER: The audio recording for our guest was particularly poor on this occasion - we apologise in advance if it is difficult to hear at times.

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Over The Bridge - Episode 70 - Fatherhood with Kalil Rouse

Over The Bridge Podcast

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DISCLAIMER: The audio recording for our guest was particularly poor on this occasion - we apologise in advance if it is difficult to hear at times.

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Episode 108 - OTB LIVE SHOW - What Is Trauma and Why Should You Care? 45:03

منذ 6 أيام45:03

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In the first part of our recorded live show, we have an engaging discussion on trauma and healing with guest speaker Whitney Iles, founder of Project 507. The conversation explores the definition of trauma, the importance of being trauma-informed, and the various ways to manage and heal from traumatic experiences. Whitney shares insights from her extensive experience in youth and community development, emphasizing the significance of relationships, community, and self-care in healing. .00:00 Introduction and Welcome02:52 Whitney's Journey and Early Career05:32 Understanding Trauma09:37 Healing and Therapy Approaches16:34 Community and Generational Trauma19:40 Cultural Perspectives on Emotional Expression20:30 Therapy and Community Healing21:33 The Power of Dance and Movement22:16 Trauma-Informed Approaches23:48 Building Community Through Shared Experiences25:22 Supporting Loved Ones Through Trauma26:12 The Role of Practitioners in Trauma Work30:15 Explaining Trauma to Young People36:16 Self-Care for Practitioners39:43 Final Thoughts and Resources…

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Episode 107 - Tales from the Public Sector: Teaching and Medicine 54:03

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In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Kalil and Baker share a special two-person discussion focusing on their careers in the public sector. Kalil elaborates on his current role as a safeguarding and attendance specialist leader of education, detailing his journey from studying law at Cambridge to finding fulfillment in teaching. Meanwhile, Baker, a foundation year doctor, shares his path to medicine, discussing the early influences, challenges, and his desire to contribute to communities in need. Both delve into the intricacies, motivations, and the impactful nature of their jobs, providing a candid look at the realities of working in the public sector. They also highlight key traits that make individuals successful in these fields. 00:00 Welcome to Over the Bridge Podcast01:36 Journey into Teaching03:59 From Law to Teaching09:10 The Reality of Teaching11:09 Becoming a Doctor13:13 Balancing Personal and Professional Life17:11 Navigating Social Media as Professionals23:04 Influence of Cultural Expectations25:13 Reflecting on School Experiences27:16 Choosing Medicine29:29 The Reality of Medical School30:49 Public Sector Challenges35:45 Balancing Work and Life in Teaching42:52 Advice for Aspiring Teachers46:28 Qualities of a Good Teacher48:26 Qualities of a Good Doctor52:24 Closing Thoughts and Contact Information…

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Episode 106 - Exploring Professionalism: Hair, Dress, and Code-Switching 1:06:09

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In this episode of Over the Bridge Podcast, Kalil, Bilal, and Baker dive into a discussion inspired by recent personal conversations about the concept of professionalism. They explore the influence of hair, dress code, and the way they speak, especially as black and mixed-race men. The conversation covers personal anecdotes, cultural influences, and how professional norms can differ across various environments like hospitals, schools, and freelance settings. The episode also delves into the subconscious nature of code-switching and its impact on personal identity and professional interactions.00:00 Introduction and Host Introductions01:52 Hospital Dress Codes and Professionalism06:17 Teaching Profession Dress Codes09:42 Freelancing and Dress Codes15:42 Hair and Professionalism35:23 Colonialism and Hair Perceptions36:30 Media Representation and Hair Standards37:22 Generational Shifts in Hair Perception38:13 Professionalism and Natural Hair40:42 Code-Switching in Professional Settings42:05 Accent and Intonation in the Workplace43:21 Language Adaptation and Code-Switching46:29 Cultural Influences on Language56:08 Authenticity in Professional Communication59:02 Future Hair Styles and Personal Identity01:03:24 Live Event Announcement and Conclusion…

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Episode 105 - Black Voices on Therapy 56:20

منذ 5 weeks56:20

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In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Kwaku and the squad explore counseling and therapy. They share personal experiences with therapy, discuss the importance of relatable therapists, and tackle the stigma around mental health for Black men. They also address the different modalities of therapy and the financial challenges of accessing mental health services before addressing the question -- do we all need therapy? 00:00 Welcome and Introductions 02:54 Personal Experiences with Counseling 03:40 The Role of a Safeguarding Lead 04:29 The Impact of Trauma 06:43 Seeking Support and Counseling 11:05 Finding the Right Counselor 17:49 Challenges and Reflections on Therapy 27:11 The Role of Counselors in Modern Society 28:07 The Impact of Individualism on Community Support 30:33 The Importance of Vulnerability in Therapy 33:12 Should Everyone Access Counseling? 36:20 Understanding Different Types of Therapy 43:05 Barriers to Accessing Therapy 52:22 Final Thoughts and Personal Reflections 54:45 Closing Remarks and Upcoming Events…

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Episode 104 - Family Planning Pt 2 (I'VE HAD A VASECTOMY!) 55:01

منذ 7 weeks55:01

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In this episode of the Over The Bridge Podcast, the full cast reunites in the studio to discuss Kalil's recent vasectomy. The cast discuss myths and shed light on common misconceptions with Kalil sharing his journey from preparing for the procedure to the aftermath. They detail everything from the surgical process to post-op recovery and family planning to educate listeners and emphasise the significance of informed decision-making. 00:00 Welcome to Over The Bridge Podcast 01:35 Reunion and Reflections 03:09 Fatherhood Journeys 05:21 Vasectomy Part 2: Kalil's Experience 06:04 The Procedure: Step-by-Step 11:45 Post-Procedure Reflections 12:24 Medical Insights and Advice 22:59 Considering a Vasectomy? 25:07 The Movement Against Parenthood? 27:19 A Personal Choice 28:39 Family Planning and Cultural Perspectives 30:51 The Vasectomy Procedure and Aftermath 41:24 Reflections and Reactions 52:47 Final Thoughts and Farewell…

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Episode 103 - Maintaining Family Ties in the Digital Era 1:11:25

منذ 11 weeks1:11:25

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In this episode of Over The Bridge Podcast, hosts Patrick, Baker, and Bilal discuss the challenges and dynamics of maintaining extended family ties in contemporary society. They explore how generational shifts, social media, and changing social norms affect the way Millennials and Gen Z engage with their families. The conversation delves into personal anecdotes about holiday traditions, the burden of family responsibilities, and the balance between individualism and community. Through contrasting viewpoints, they debate whether today's younger generations can uphold familial bonds as robustly as previous generations. 00:00 Welcome to Over The Bridge Podcast 02:04 Baker's Busy Life as a Junior Doctor 07:08 Bilal's Car Crash Experience 12:42 Christmas Preparations and Family Traditions 14:11 Maintaining Family Ties in Modern Times 33:52 Impact of Social Media on Relationships 38:47 Generational Differences in Work Ethic 52:15 Family Traditions 01:00:49 Transitioning Family Responsibilities 01:08:03 Final Thoughts and Reflections…

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Episode 102 - Family Planning (I'M GETTING A VASECTOMY!) 1:07:54

منذ 12 weeks1:07:54

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In this episode of Over The Bridge Podcast, Kalil opens up about his decision to get a vasectomy. The discussion covers a wide range of topics including the stigma surrounding vasectomies, men's health behaviors, emotional intelligence, and responsibility in family planning. The hosts also explore the implications of hormonal contraception for men, the biological and social pressures on male virility, and the societal expectations that contribute to men's reluctance to prioritize their reproductive health. Throughout the episode, Kalil shares his personal journey and thoughts on taking a proactive and responsible approach to family planning. 00:00 Introduction and Host Greetings 01:14 Health Updates and COVID Experiences 04:11 Family Planning Discussion 04:56 Vasectomy: Personal Decision and Procedure 18:07 Men's Health and Responsibility 32:11 Taking Ownership of Decisions 32:50 Understanding Post-Procedure Care 35:05 Addressing Common Misconceptions 37:20 Reversibility and Sperm Freezing 40:41 Male Contraception Options 57:45 Emotional Intelligence and Parenting 01:05:18 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts…

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Episode 101 - The Responsibility of Podcasting 1:08:04

منذ 14 weeks1:08:04

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In this episode of Over The Bridge Podcast, Patrick is joined by Kalil and Baker to discuss the responsibilities that come with podcasting. They touch on the negative perception of black male podcasts, examining the influence and impact these platforms can have on their communities. They reflect on their personal motivations for being part of the podcast and how they navigate balancing authenticity with the scrutiny of a public platform. The conversation delves into the digital representation of self and the ethical considerations of the content they produce. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:52 Catch-Up with Baker and Khalil 02:19 Baker's Journey from Medical School to Graduation 06:14 Reflecting on the Cambridge Experience 10:36 The Responsibility of Podcasting 11:55 Challenges and Perceptions of Black Male Podcasters 17:26 The Impact of Podcast Conversations on Community 25:17 Balancing Content and Responsibility 31:19 Navigating the Podcasting Space for Growth 32:58 Navigating Controversy in the Public Eye 36:16 The Impact of Fame and Missteps 38:38 The Purpose and Responsibility of Podcasting 43:11 Personal Reflections and Authenticity 52:20 Balancing Professionalism and Personal Opinions 01:03:31 The Digital Self and Freedom of Speech 01:05:20 Concluding Thoughts and Listener Engagement…

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Episode 100 - Navigating Male Friendships 57:32

منذ 15 weeks57:32

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In this episode of the Over The Bridge Podcast, hosts Bilal, Patrick, and guest Kalil reconnect to discuss various aspects of male friendships. They delve into the dynamics of their relationships, reflecting on how life changes have affected their bonds. The conversation covers topics such as the importance of intentionality in maintaining friendships, the challenges of making new friends as men get older, and the need for accountability and honesty. The episode also highlights personal anecdotes, revealing how their friendships have evolved over time and ends on a note of appreciation, sharing what they admire about each other. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:51 Catch-Up with Patrick 02:09 Welcoming Khalil 02:26 Fatherhood Updates 03:59 The Nature of Male Friendships 07:09 Challenges of Making New Friends 13:16 Intentional Friendships in Adulthood 27:24 Navigating Male Friendships 27:43 Drifting Apart Naturally 29:10 Accountability in Friendships 30:21 Calling Out Unacceptable Behavior 34:45 Superficial vs. Deep Friendships 36:22 The Importance of Vulnerability 45:36 Expressing Pride and Gratitude 56:34 Concluding Thoughts on Male Friendships…

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Episode 99 - Is Black British an Ethnic Identity? 1:23:23

منذ 17 weeks1:23:23

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In this episode of the Over The Bridge podcast, hosts Bilal, Kwaku, and Patrick dive into the complex topic of Black British identity. They discuss personal experiences, generational changes, cultural expressions, and the broader factors shaping what it means to be Black and British today. The conversation spans shared cultural markers like music, food, and common experiences, while also touching on how the British environment—including issues like gentrification and globalization—impacts this evolving identity. The episode concludes with reflections on whether being Black British is something to be proud of and the future of Black British ethnicity. 00:00 Podcast Introduction and Hosts Reunion 00:49 Travel Stories and Family Updates 01:56 Funeral Traditions and Cultural Differences 06:28 New Beginnings: Welcoming a New Baby 07:54 Parenting Challenges and Joys 13:23 The Concept of Black British Identity 41:29 Exploring Black British Identity 43:00 The Impact of Environment on Identity 47:49 Cultural Struggles and Middle-Class Blackness 51:06 Black Britishness in Media 59:29 The Future of Black British Culture 01:07:49 Pride in Black British Identity 01:11:11 Mixed Race Identity and Final Thoughts…

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Episode 98 - Cultural Roots and Childhood Memories 1:08:46

منذ 21 weeks1:08:46

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In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Bilal and Patrick engage in a candid discussion about personal experiences, cultural identities, and childhood memories. Patrick, back from his travels, shares his experiences about visiting Thailand and reconnecting with a long-time friend. The conversation covers the influence of West Indian culture in the UK, the importance of family connections, and the dynamics of transitioning these familial traditions to future generations. They also explore questions about their younger selves, career aspirations, and personal interests, including Patrick's passion for music and his decision to join an orchestra. 00:00 Welcome Back to the Podcast 00:42 Catching Up with Patrick 01:56 Patrick's Thailand Adventures 04:09 Travel Stories and Reflections 14:16 Q&A 30:45 Active Weekends and Forest Walks 31:59 Gaming and Dining Adventures 33:01 Family Time and Allotment Days 33:58 Family's Journey to London 37:49 Grandparents' Stories and Legacy 42:02 Cultural Identity and Childhood Memories 01:01:00 Music and Personal Interests 01:05:57 Wrapping Up and Future Plans…

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Do We Need Black History Month? (Re-Release) 1:00:49

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It's Black History Month in the UK and in this week we re-release a throwback episode from the 2018 archives where we discuss - do we need a Black History Month?

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Episode 97: Lessons to Your Younger Self with Tom Swift 1:06:56

منذ 23 weeks1:06:56

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In this special episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, Thomas Swift joins us to discuss lessons learned from the past and valuable advice for the future. Covering experiences from dating to professional achievements and the importance of community, this heartfelt conversation dives deep into life advice for both younger and older selves. We also touch on themes of vulnerability, resilience, and the significance of having a supportive network. Plus, get a peek into the hosts' personal lives, including recent milestones and celebrations. Tune in for an enriching dialogue filled with insights and reflections. 00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement 01:00 Catching Up with Thomas Swift 01:40 Life Updates and Reflections 03:03 The Importance of Community 08:00 Navigating the Modern World 20:27 Advice to Younger and Future Selves 33:37 The Importance of Ownership and Equity 35:12 Balancing Enjoyment and Monetization 37:09 Generational Wealth and Legacy 38:17 Lessons from Parents 42:18 Navigating Political and Economic Challenges 45:14 The Power of Words and Community 50:24 Consistency and Accountability 58:31 The Value of Rest and Time Management 01:02:27 Final Reflections and Parting Words…

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Episode 96 - Navigating Faith 1:39:31

منذ 24 weeks1:39:31

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In this episode of the Over the Bridge Podcast, hosts Bilal and Kwaku share intimate discussions on their personal journeys with religion and spirituality. They examine the impact of major life events, like the birth of a child, on their religious beliefs and the challenges of practicing faith amidst cultural and familial expectations. Their conversation also explores the complexities of organized religion, the inner struggle of self-perception, and the evolving role of religion in modern society. The episode highlights pivotal experiences that renewed their faith and provides thoughtful insights into exploring one's spiritual longings. 00:26 Podcast Introduction and Hosts 01:28 Kwaku's Life Update and Baby News 07:10 Reflections on Religion and Spirituality 08:06 Kwaku's Religious Journey 13:00 Bilal's Religious Journey 15:52 Exploring Different Worldviews 27:22 Revisiting Islam and Personal Reflections 37:18 Community and Identity in Religion 50:54 Revealing My True Name 51:17 A Complex Religious Background 52:23 Navigating Identity and Faith 53:25 Embracing My Name and Heritage 54:16 Christian Upbringing and Youth Leadership 59:28 Questioning Faith at Cambridge 01:00:27 Drifting Away from Religion 01:07:24 A Spiritual Awakening 01:17:51 The Role of Religion in Modern Life 01:30:56 Final Thoughts and Reflections…

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Episode 95 - Healthcare Hangups 52:06

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In this episode, Bilal and Kwaku have an open and candid discussion about men's healthcare. They delve into their personal experiences with the healthcare system, discussing startling statistics about men's reluctance to seek medical help and the stigmas attached. The conversation covers both physical and mental health, touching on societal norms and the importance of being proactive about health. They also explore the gender disparities in healthcare and the impact of upbringing and socioeconomic factors on health decisions. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:47 Personal Healthcare Experiences 01:20 Statistics on Men's Healthcare Avoidance 02:03 Anecdotes and Personal Stories 03:16 Reluctance to Seek Medical Help 06:28 Epilepsy Diagnosis Journey 14:41 Prostate Health and Stigma 21:09 Importance of Regular Checkups 25:19 Surgery and Hair Loss 26:05 Convenience in Healthcare 26:55 The Male Pill Debate 27:18 Gender Differences in Healthcare 29:39 Chronic Illness and Stress 30:35 Socioeconomic Factors in Health 35:48 Personal Experiences with Healthcare 37:45 Mental Health vs Physical Health 46:04 Parenting and Healthcare Responsibilities 49:53 Conclusion and Community Engagement Get in touch: Email: otbpodcastuk@gmail.com Twitter: @otbpodcastuk Instagram: @otbpodcastuk…

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