S01E02 Why You Can't Find Your Purpose (And How To Change That)

The Enneagram Matrix

📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION (The Hook - First 200 Characters Matter Most)

You've done ALL the work—therapy, books, tests—but you still feel lost. Here's why: You're missing ONE critical skill that changes everything. This episode reveals how to develop it. (197 chars)

🎯 IN THIS EPISODE:

Stef Becker (Sadashiva) introduces Purpose Intelligence®—the missing skill that separates people who drift through life from those who navigate with clarity and direction.

You'll discover:

✓ Why "finding your purpose" is the wrong approach (and what to do instead)

✓ The 3 levels of Purpose Intelligence and why most people get stuck at Level 1

✓ How each Enneagram type develops this skill differently (with specific examples for all 9 types)

✓ The ancient Yoga Sutra practice of "Pratipaksha Bhavanam" and how it builds conscious response

✓ A simple 3-step process: Pause → Decode → Respond Consciously

✓ Real-world example: How a Type 3 uses this process when passed over for promotion

✓ Why challenges stop feeling like obstacles once you develop this intelligence

This week's practice: PQReps (Purpose Quest Repetitions)—1-2 minute micro-meditations you can do anywhere to build your Purpose Intelligence muscle.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 Introduction - Why Finding Purpose Feels Impossible

1:10 The Purpose Intelligence Gap - What Most People Are Missing

2:28 Why Purpose Isn't a Destination (It's a Skill You Develop)

4:58 Level 1 - Pattern Recognition: Seeing the Curriculum in Your Challenges

5:55 Level 2 - Conscious Response: Pausing and Choosing Growth Over Comfort

6:30 Level 3 - Sacred Participation: Co-Creating Your Evolution

7:20 How Each Enneagram Type Develops Purpose Intelligence Differently

11:10 The Ancient Practice: Pratipaksha Bhavanam from the Yoga Sutras

12:30 The 3-Step Process: Pause, Decode, Respond Consciously

18:10 This Week's Practice: PQReps (Purpose Quest Repetitions)

🔗 RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Free Enneagram Matrix™ Assessment (5 integrated tests, 90 minutes)

→ enneagramkeys.com

Pi9™ Purpose Intelligence® Program (20-month transformational journey)

→ enneagramkeys.com/purpose-intelligence-pi9

Valley of Guardians Community (Practice with others on the path)

→ valleyofguardians.circle.so

24/7 Live Meditation Sanctuaries

→ youtube.com/watch?v=oE0epppuIXI

👤 ABOUT THE HOST:

Stef Becker (Sadashiva) is an IEA Certified Enneagram Teacher, Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner, agency CEO, and devoted yogi with 25+ years of classical practice under Gurumatha Amma. Creator of the Pi9™ Purpose Intelligence® methodology, he bridges ancient Yoga Sutra wisdom with modern Enneagram psychology to help you decode your life's meaning.

🌐 CONNECT:

Website: enneagramkeys.com

Instagram: @stefbecker.sadashiva

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/stefbecker-sadashiva

Email: [email protected]

💬 QUOTABLE MOMENTS:

"Purpose Intelligence isn't about finding anything—it's about developing the capacity to decode meaning from whatever experiences you're already having."

"The difference between reactive living and conscious living is Purpose Intelligence. And Purpose Intelligence is a skill you can develop."

"When you develop Purpose Intelligence, challenges stop feeling like obstacles and start feeling like precise invitations for growth."

#️⃣ TAGS:

#Enneagram #PurposeIntelligence #FindYourPurpose #PersonalGrowth #SpiritualDevelopment #YogaSutras #EnneagramMatrix #Pi9 #Transformation #SelfDiscovery #Sadashiva #StefBecker

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