Why He Keeps Ghosting: The Top 3 Dating Mistakes Women Over 40 Make

Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys

If you’re a single woman dating over 40 and feeling like guys keep ghosting you for reasons you just can't understand—this episode is for you. I’m breaking down the top three dating mistakes I see as a love coach and the underlying limiting beliefs that keep you stuck. Let’s get real about what’s holding you back from finding a truly devoted relationship with Mr. Right.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• Dating Mistake #1: "The Spark Obsession" Ever felt that electric spark and thought, “This is it!” only to ignore red flags as they pile up? I dive into why that intense excitement can often lead us to overlook compatibility and safety. Spoiler: it's rooted in the need for excitement, which can be a limiting belief keeping us in patterns that don’t serve us.

• Dating Mistake #2: "The Scarcity Trap" Sometimes, it’s easy to tell yourself, “There aren’t enough good guys my age,” so you stay with someone hoping their potential will shine through. I’ll discuss how this scarcity mindset leads to endless chances for Mr. Not-Quite-Right—and how to move past it so you stay open to a truly healthy connection.

• Dating Mistake #3: "Over-Compassion" We all want to be compassionate and understanding, but sometimes this trait can become a trap, leading us to ignore our own needs. I’ll share how to set healthy boundaries and avoid settling just to keep the peace.

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