Episode 16 | What do we do now?

Hey White Women

In this episode of 'Hey White Women', the first recorded after the 2024 election, hosts Daniella and Rebecca engage in a deep conversation about the role of white women in dismantling white supremacy. They discuss the importance of acknowledging discomfort, the need for collective action, and the power of community in creating change. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of listening to marginalized voices, the journey of healing, and the complexities involved in challenging ingrained societal norms. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they encourage listeners to take action and be part of the solution.

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Uncultured by Daniella Mestyanek Young

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• UnAMERICAN Videobook

Takeaways

• White women have a crucial role in dismantling white supremacy.
• Discomfort and shame can be powerful motivators for change.
• Community and collective action are essential for progress.
• Listening to marginalized voices is vital in the fight against oppression.
• Healing and personal growth are necessary parts of the journey.
• Resistance against oppressive systems is a shared responsibility.
• The complexity of societal change requires patience and understanding.
• Building a better future involves acknowledging past mistakes.
• Empathy and compassion are key in supporting one another.
• The journey towards equality is ongoing and requires commitment.

Sound Bites

"We were always in this place." "You have agency, you have power." "We need to be learning from history."

Chapters

00:00 Deconstructing White Supremacy 03:25 The Cult of Politics and Betrayal 06:22 Agency and Resistance in a Cult 09:48 Historical Context and Lessons Learned 12:35 The Role of Generations in Change 15:36 Understanding Comfort and Discomfort 18:36 The Power of Ex-Members in Cults 30:29 The Quest for Moral Superiority 36:25 Community Building and Running Interference 41:13 The Role of White Women in Supporting Black Voices 44:23 Shared Missions and Collective Responsibility 55:13 The Complexity of Social Issues and the Search for Easy Answers 01:00:30 Understanding Discomfort vs. Danger 01:05:15 Navigating the Journey of Self-Discovery 01:07:29 The Importance of Patience in Growth 01:09:37 The Role of Generosity in Relationships 01:12:39 Challenging the Notion of Earning 01:16:25 The Impact of Capitalism on Relationships 01:19:02 Addressing Societal Issues Together 01:21:13 Building a Safe Community for All

Produced by Haley Phillips