Why Do You Keep Fighting About The Same Things Over And Over?

The Steph & Craig Show

Are you avoiding relationships because you’re not fully healed? Maybe you’re stuck having the same argument over and over again.

On today’s episode Steph and Craig are answering your questions.

They offer up advice from their own personal experiences as well as things they’ve learned over the years navigating healing together in their relationship.

They also open up about what it’s like not having any kids going back to school for the first time in 20 years.

Their conversation covers a wide range of topics. Everything from parenting and healing trauma. To relationships, accountability, presence, authenticity, accountability, self-awareness, past wounds, and more.

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Disclaimer: We’re just sharing our journey with you. We’re not licensed therapists, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Cool? Good deal. We’ll see you soon.

In this episode: 00:00 Accountability and Willingness to Change in Parenting 02:16 Letting Go of Expectations and Allowing Children to Be Themselves 08:41 Starting Relationships with Those Who Have Had Difficult Pasts 14:34 The Value of Being Present in Parenting 16:01 Healing and Self-Reflection in Parenting 18:28 Awareness of Biases and Projections in Parenting 19:56 Radical Accountability and Admitting Mistakes in Parenting 24:58 Striving to Be a Better Version of Yourself as a Parent 26:32 Prioritizing Self-Love and Self-Acceptance in Parenting 30:22 Respecting the Individuality and Autonomy of Children 36:27 The Importance of Accountability and Self-Awareness 45:26 Recognizing the Root Causes of Repeated Arguments 55:27 Regulating the Nervous System for Effective Communication 01:07:08 Seeking Help and Prioritizing Safety in Relationships

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