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Understanding the Elegant Math Behind Modern Machine Learning 1:14:43

منذ 8 أيام1:14:43

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Artificial intelligence is evolving at an unprecedented pace—what does that mean for the future of technology, venture capital, business, and even our understanding of ourselves? Award-winning journalist and writer Anil Ananthaswamy joins us for our latest episode to discuss his latest book Why Machines Learn: The Elegant Math Behind Modern AI . Anil helps us explore the journey and many breakthroughs that have propelled machine learning from simple perceptrons to the sophisticated algorithms shaping today’s AI revolution, powering GPT and other models. The discussion aims to demystify some of the underlying mathematical concepts that power modern machine learning, to help everyone grasp this technology impacting our lives–even if your last math class was in high school. Anil walks us through the power of scaling laws, the shift from training to inference optimization, and the debate among AI’s pioneers about the road to AGI—should we be concerned, or are we still missing key pieces of the puzzle? The conversation also delves into AI’s philosophical implications—could understanding how machines learn help us better understand ourselves? And what challenges remain before AI systems can truly operate with agency? If you enjoy this episode, please subscribe and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. Sign up for our newsletter at techsurgepodcast.com for exclusive insights and updates on upcoming TechSurge Live Summits. Links: Read Why Machines Learn, Anil’s latest book on the math behind AI https://www.amazon.com/Why-Machines-Learn-Elegant-Behind/dp/0593185749 Learn more about Anil Ananthaswamy’s work and writing https://anilananthaswamy.com/ Watch Anil Ananthaswamy’s TED Talk on AI and intelligence https://www.ted.com/speakers/anil_ananthaswamy Discover the MIT Knight Science Journalism Fellowship that shaped Anil’s AI research https://ksj.mit.edu/ Understand the Perceptron, the foundation of neural networks https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perceptron Read about the Perceptron Convergence Theorem and its significance https://www.nature.com/articles/323533a0…

منذ عام واحد 39:57

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In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, author and ex rich person, dives into the old money approach to back-to-school season, a time that can bring up a host of classic etiquette concerns. With her children having successfully navigated private schools, boarding schools, and beyond, Auntie Kiki reflects on the lessons learned over the years. She offers practical advice on everything from dressing your children to reflect your family’s old money aesthetic, to selecting the right classroom supplies, and tactfully engaging in school fundraisers and the parent-teacher association. This only slightly unhinged episode will equip you with the tools to present your family’s best face in this fraught, end-of-summer period, ensuring that your children—and by extension, you—make a lasting impression.

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Back the school...the old money way?

Awkward Etiquette With Kiki Astor

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Behind closed doors: the secret world of private clubs 41:44

منذ 4 أيام41:44

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You're either in, or you're out...and who wants to be on the outside looking in? For many people, the words "welcome to the club" are music to their ears and the fear of being blackballed looms large, because, as the advertaisement famously states, membership has its priviledges. It's a basic human evolutionary need to feel that one belongs, and being excluded or feeling FOMO is far from fun. In this episode of The Awkward Episode Podcast, amateur social anthropologist of old money Kiki Astor dives deep into the world of private clubs, exploring the allure and exclusivity that make them so intriguing. From members-only access to secretive social networks, we unpack the hidden dynamics of private clubs, both old money and new money, and what it really takes to become a part of these elite circles. Whether you're curious about the benefits, the cost, or the true value of membership, we discuss it all—from the history and evolution of private clubs to their modern-day influence on social status and power. We'll also be talking club etiquette. Join us as we break down what’s behind closed doors and why private clubs continue to capture the attention of the wealthy, powerful, and influential. Don't miss this eye-opening episode about a world few ever get to experience!…

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Nautical but nice: mastering the fisherman aesthetic 32:12

منذ 11 يومًا32:12

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The fisherman aesthetic is having a moment, to put it mildly, but those with old money sensibilities have been living with it for generations, sporting weathered knits, salt-washed trousers, and perfectly battered Barbours at their seaside second homes long before even coastal grandmother was just a twinkle in the internet's eye. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Kiki Astor, your old money internet Auntie and the romance author who singlehandedly introduced the hot fishmonger trope, dives deep (pardon the pun) into looking and living effortlessly nautical without veering dangerously close to cliché. We'll be having a conversation on authenticity over aspiration, touch on iconic garments that whisper deadly chic, not deadliest catch, explain the high-low blend that takes your decor from tacky tidal to maritime fabulous, and generally how to achieve the perfect balance, so you're charmingly nautical but never nouveau.…

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Ski and Après Ski: Etiquette on and off the slopes 31:55

منذ 18 يومًا31:55

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Strap on your ski boots and grab a hot toddy—Kiki Astor is taking you to the slopes! In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, we’re diving into the refined (and sometimes ridiculous) world of ski and après-ski etiquette. Whether you're navigating the chairlift like a seasoned Aspen regular, mastering the art of looking effortlessly chic in Gstaad, or figuring out how to sip champagne in St. Moritz without looking like a tourist, we’ve got you covered. Expect cheeky insights on old money vs. new money ski style, unspoken slope-side rules, what to wear (and what not to wear) at après-ski, and how to exude effortless elegance on and off the mountain—even if you’re on a budget. From vintage Bogner vs Gucci to how to be the most charming chalet guest, this episode is packed with tips to help you blend in at the world’s most exclusive ski resorts.…

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How to be charming 28:57

منذ 25 يومًا28:57

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If you regret not having gone to charm school, here is your opportunity to learn the crucial social skills you might have worried you were lacking. First off: curtseying is less important than you might have thought, but there are some crucial ingredients in charm, and they are easier to combine than you might have feared. Social anxiety is no match for the easy to adopt tips your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, etiquette maven and all around charming person, will be sharing with you in this succinct but chock full of gems episode. Listen for 25 or so minutes and become instantly more likable, more trustworthy, and more unforgettable. Talk about a return on investment! Of course, this episode is also stuffed ot the brim with entertaining anecdotes, which makes it a fun listen even if you are already as charming as charming can be.…

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Live a big, beautiful, elegant rich life...on a budget! 40:59

منذ 5 weeks40:59

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Here’s the thing about wealth: it can go up and down. Even old money families tend to lose their fortunes after three generations. The stock market, the economy, your relationships, and your health can all change on a dime...which is why knowing how to still have a rich, happy, fabulous life without two nickels to rub together is the most valuable skill there is. True elegance isn't about being rich: it's about navigating life's twists and turns with grace, and knowing that "this too shall pass" applies to pretty much anything. Life isn't always easy, but it is always possible to romanticize it just a tad and make it feel oh so much better- take it from an ex rich romance novelist! Join host Kiki Astor for an upbeat discussion that will leave you inspired when it comes to living your best, richest life...on a budget.…

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Real romance tips... from a romance writer? 35:00

منذ 6 weeks35:00

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Most of us were raised on Disney-fied takes of princes and princesses, and even if we scoff at that stuff as adults, we still dream of a happily ever after. The romance readers among us may be ashamed to admit that we fantacize about a love like the one we read about in our novels, but let's be real: everyone wants a happy ending. That prince, that heir, or that billionaire might look great on paper, but what about in real life? It's time for some real talk about real-world romance, and who better to give you that straight talk than your Auntie Kiki, an ex rich person turned romance author who married into a real-life aristocratic family? Getting your happy ending takes some work on yourself, darling, and hopefully this episode will inspire you to chase that happily ever after on your own terms, whether you're looking to marry rich, worried about marrying someone your family doesn't approve of, thinking about dating etiquette, or trying to spice up an existing relationship in old money approved, elegant ways. You're going to love this episode, which comes just in time for Valentine's month!…

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FOMO, JOMO, and the etiquette of invitations 54:48

منذ 7 weeks54:48

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Did you ever receive an invitation and promptly contact the host or hostess and inquire about further details, including what you should wear? You may worry that Auntie Kiki will label this behavior as rude, but in reality, if the invitation was not clear enough, that is the hosts' fault, not yours. In this fascinating episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, we will first take a deep dive into Victorian history and culture- after all, those wacky Victorians had invitations and events down to a science, and we still use some of those formulas and wordings today...and then we fast forwrad to modern times, to cover invitations to events both formal and casual. Etiquette coach Kiki Astor will answer listeners' most burning etiquette and social skills questions, such as, is a digital invitation ever appropriate? How do I phrase my invitation? How do you save money on invitations? How do you curate a guest list, be it for a gala evening, a wedding, a cocktail party or a backyard BBQ? What about RSVP's? And how do I deal with not being invited to an event? Which will lead us to a discussion of FOMO and her glamorous older cousin, JOMO, otherwise known as the Joy Of Missing Out.…

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The art of art collecting...on a budget 47:20

منذ 8 weeks47:20

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, and to celebrate the launch of her latest book, Art, Love, and Other Miracles, set in the international art world including galleries in Roma Norte, CDMX, and Art Basel Miami, romance author, ex rich person, and art enthusiast Kiki Astor delves into the fascinating world of art collecting, offering practical tips for collectors at any budget level. Whether you're a seasoned collector or just starting, Kiki provides insights into the nuances of building a collection that reflects your taste and investment strategy. The episode explores the key differences between old money and new money approaches to art, from how they acquire pieces to their philosophies on display and preservation. Kiki also shares advice on navigating galleries, auctions, and private sales, ensuring listeners feel confident in making informed decisions. Tune in for a cheeky yet informative guide to mastering the art of collecting with confidence, sophistication and flair.…

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Timeless or Tired? The Old Money Aesthetic in 2025 43:34

منذ 9 weeks43:34

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New Year, New You... So is the Old Money Aesthetic Out? How does one reconcile reinvention and tradition? In this first of the New Year episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we explore the tension between tradition and reinvention in the ever-evolving world of the old money aesthetic. Kiki talks about her New Year's resolutions and goals, and delves into the delicate balance of maintaining timeless elegance while embracing the excitement and potential of a fresh new year. Listeners will learn how to romanticize their lives in a meaningful, authentic way, on a budjet, naturally, stay true to their values, grow as a person, and stay graceful, fashionable, and elegant in the face of change, all while adhering to the understated luxury that defines the old money ethos, which is, spoiler alert, very much not over. Engage with us as we discuss elegant New Year’s resolutions and the art of navigating reinvention with poise and confidence.…

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Bitter bloodlines: How to resolve family feuds elegantly 31:05

منذ 14 weeks31:05

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Old Money isn’t always old harmony. In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your host Kiki Astor, aka Auntie Kiki, begins by delving into a famous Astor family feud that led to the creation of the Waldorf-Astoria hotel. Using this dramatic historical anectote full of rivalry, egos, and its unlikely legacy as a jumping-off point, Kiki explores the dynamics of old money family feuds and uncovers why even the most "refined" families can find themselves at odds. With the holiday season approaching—a time when family tensions often come to a head—this episode provides actionable advice on how to manage your own family disputes with poise and elegance. Drawing from both etiquette principles and psychological insights, we’ll show you how to navigate tricky relationships, set boundaries, and find peace without losing your cool. Whether you’re sparring over a seating arrangement or something far more serious, this episode is your guide to handling family drama with the grace of old money—and maybe even turning conflict into a legacy of your very own.…

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What is true wealth? It may be more attainable than you think 36:10

منذ 16 weeks36:10

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we explore what it truly means to live a rich life, far beyond the balance in your bank account. Kiki delves into the essence of true wealth through the lens of the old money lifestyle, uncovering how timeless values, understated luxury, and intentional living can elevate your daily experience. Learn how certain behaviors, choices, and mindsets can make you feel impoverished, while embracing old money habits can enrich your life in surprising ways. From the power of generational thinking to the importance of quality over quantity, this episode is packed with tips for embodying the grace and poise of an old money aesthetic. Whether you’re striving for a wealthy lifestyle or just curious about old money values, Kiki offers cheeky insights and practical advice to help you find abundance—no matter your financial situation. Perfect for listeners drawn to old money elegance, luxury living on a budget, and the art of living well. Don’t miss this guide to feeling rich in all the ways that matter!…

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These books will make you look richer, smarter, and more popular 48:39

منذ 17 weeks48:39

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Sometimes it's not the clothes that make the man. It's not which model of Barbour jacket you have chosen, or where you get your tweed suit. What is between your ears is much more important than the Rolex watch on your wrist or the Stubbs and Wooton slippers on your feet. As AUntie Kiki says, education is often free. Obviously, much of this come through in polite cocktail party conversation. But how can you let people know immediately who you are? By the books in your library, on your coffee table, and yes, even in your bathroom. When it comes to letting people know exactly where you fit in in society, which books do almost all old money, elegant, high society people own? In this crucial episode of the Akward Etiquette podcast, Kiki Astor gives you a Grand Tour of sorts, discussing the tomes you must acquire. Show me your library, and I'll tell you who you are.…

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Modern manners? Which etiquette rules are outdated, and why 45:52

منذ 18 weeks45:52

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, hostess Kiki Astor dives into the fascinating world of etiquette and manners, exploring which traditional etiquette rules may now feel outdated and why. From rigid social scripts to the nuances of dining decorum, Kiki examines how changing societal values, cultural shifts, and modern social skills are transforming what we once considered polite behavior. Tune in for an entertaining yet insightful discussion on the sociological and anthropological aspects of evolving social norms. This entertaining episode full of cheekiness and personal anecdotes is perfect for listeners intrigued by social skills, the history of manners, and the evolving landscape of interpersonal etiquette.…

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What's in a name? Trending vs "old money" baby names, name history and etiquette 54:52

منذ 19 weeks54:52

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What's in a Name? Our moniker might be our most important attribute, influencing how we succeed and how we are perceived. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Kiki Astor dives into the delightful—and sometimes awkward—world of names. Starting with the hottest naming trends for 2025, sourced from Nameberry, Kiki explores how some baby names go in and out of style and why certain ones are making a comeback. Next, we go on a fascinating journey through the history and anthropology of naming, from ancestral customs to “old money” traditions that add an air of distinction (or occasional pretension) to family names. As Kiki shares her top tips for selecting the perfect name for a child, you’ll get insight into her curated list of timeless, old-money-approved names that evoke classic sophistication. Next, Kiki tackles the social minefield of name etiquette: what to do when you can’t remember someone’s name, how to handle "name poaching" from a close friend or family member, and whether it’s appropriate to name your dog after a friend. And for those of us with four-legged friends whose names overlap with our human companions, Kiki provides a cheeky yet respectful approach to those situations. Tune in for a fun, informative, and etiquette-savvy discussion on all things names and naming!…

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Awkward but necessary: addressing microaggressions 34:28

منذ 20 weeks34:28

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, your hostess, etiquette maven and romance author Kiki Astor, dives deep into the world of microaggressions—those subtle, often unintentional comments and actions that can have a profound impact on individuals and communities. Although they may seem small, microaggressions accumulate, leading to emotional distress and a feeling of being marginalized. Kiki discusses what microaggressions are, the different types that exist, and why addressing them is crucial for fostering an inclusive environment. Listeners will learn how to identify microaggressions in their daily interactions and what steps to take if they find themselves as victims, perpetrators, or witnesses of these behaviors. While traditional etiquette focuses on smoothing over discomfort, this episode emphasizes the importance of speaking up to break the cycle of microaggressions by educatin yourself and becoming an ally. We'll also discuss what victis of microsaggressions can do. Join us for an enlightening conversation that blends awareness with actionable advice, empowering you to navigate awkward situations with confidence and compassion. This is a difficult, often awkward conversation, but fear not, your Auntie Kiki will address it with a blend of cheekiness and compassion.…

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