Jessika Power: MAFS, Only Fans and Coping With Judgement | #003 Dissolved With Dr Rosh

Dissolved with Dr Rosh

Welcome to Dissolved by Dr Rosh. My brand-new podcast where I’ll be inviting friends, celebrities, and CEOs, to talk about how they are using their influence and voice for good. As an experienced GP, cardiology and aesthetics practitioner who has spent 2 decades working in medicine, I can promise you that this podcast will be the first of its kind. Covering everything from new-age beauty standards to social media and mental health, search Dissolved by Dr Rosh for insightful conversations, with influential people.

In this episode, I talk with Jessika Powers who previously appeared on the Australian version of Married at first sight whom moved to the Uk just over a year ago. By her own admission she openly shares her experience with unhealthy relationships and the underlying reasons as to why she may have entered into them.

Jessika shares her decision to appear on the show along with her experiences of the casting process and the realities of filming [2.58]

Her relationship with husband Mick and affair with Dan [7.11]

Explaining Dans betrayal, how this made her feel and how this affected her in many ways [11.14]

How she uses her platform to encourage people to be kind and how words can hurt [15.44]

Her previous relationships before the show and how she learnt the lesson not to be love bombed [17.00]

What attracts her to toxic relationship [19.47]

How her past relationships have affected her empathy levels and how she is starting to overcome this [22.43]

Does she find it difficult to trust and her new non-toxic relationship [26.08]

Her onlyfans page - why she started, what content she uploads on there and how much money she earned in her first week [31.09]

How has she changed since MAFS? [36.10]

How she portrays herself as relatable to her followers [39.50]

What does the future hold for Jessika Powers?[42.26]

What we can take away from this podcast with Dr Rosh? [46.10]

What can we take away from my podcast with Jessika?

1. Choosing powerful chemistry over true connection will lead us to pick unhealthy relationships which inhibits our best life. Push away from toxic attachments and remember what are your core beliefs when it comes to a relationship, this might be kindness, safety or trust. Partner selection should be through core belief.
2. Emotional numbing occurs when you go through a form of emotional trauma such as past toxic relationships which can limit your empathy levels and emotional range. This can be described as survival mode and can narrow our emotions - to over come this you should engage your emotions in a safe space.
3. Rejection from an early care giver can result in you picking unhealthy partner in later life. The values you pick in unhealthy partners is your way of trying to conquer rejection.
4. Your authentic self will lead to your best life. Try to engage with your own emotions and truly understand what it is you want from a relationship.
5. No matter what you are going through, no mater what struggle, if anyone can get through it, you can.

Topics discussed:

• Unhealthy partner selection
• Harsh realities of social media
• The empowerment of onlyfans
• Betrayal
• Survival mode within relationships
• Chemistry doesn’t mean connection
• How to be relatable

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