How to Manage Conflict in Marriage: A Conversation with Dr. Jessica Higgins

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Today we welcome Dr. Jessica Higgins to discuss how to manage conflict in marriage. Dr. Jessica Higgins is a Licensed Psychologist and Licensed Professional Counselor. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and a M.A. in Counseling Psychology. Dr. Higgins is also the founder and creator of Connected Couple, which is a comprehensive, research-based, transformational, relationship program.
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00:00 Introduction
01:07 Why are couples often shocked or surprised when conflict emerges in their relationship, especially in early phases of marriage?
05:15 What do you see as two conflicting needs in a relationship and how this is often a point of tension in a marriage?
13:27 Many times couples will identify "a breakdown of communication" as a culprit of conflict in a marriage? What do you think?
22:04 What is the criticism and defensiveness loop? Why is the criticism and defensiveness loop so problematic?
32:00 Three tips that are simple enough to each be shared in less than a minute, for folks to de-escalate a conflict?
34:33 Can you share with our listeners more about where they can learn about you and your podcast?
35:33: What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave with our listeners?
Where to learn more about Dr. Jessica Higgins: DrJessicaHiggins.com
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1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Why are couples often shocked or surprised when conflict emerges in their relationship, especially in early phases of marriage? (00:01:07)

3. What do you see as two conflicting needs in a relationship and how this is often a point of tension in a marriage? (00:05:15)

4. Many times couples will identify "a breakdown of communication" as a culprit of conflict in a marriage? What do you think? (00:13:27)

5. What is the criticism and defensiveness loop? Why is the criticism and defensiveness loop so problematic? (00:22:04)

6. Three tips that are simple enough to each be shared in less than a minute, for folks to de-escalate a conflict? (00:32:00)

7. Can you share with our listeners more about where they can learn about you and your podcast? (00:34:33)

8. What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave with our listeners? (00:35:33)

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How to Manage Conflict in Marriage: A Conversation with Dr. Jessica Higgins

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1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Why are couples often shocked or surprised when conflict emerges in their relationship, especially in early phases of marriage? (00:01:07)

3. What do you see as two conflicting needs in a relationship and how this is often a point of tension in a marriage? (00:05:15)

4. Many times couples will identify "a breakdown of communication" as a culprit of conflict in a marriage? What do you think? (00:13:27)

5. What is the criticism and defensiveness loop? Why is the criticism and defensiveness loop so problematic? (00:22:04)

6. Three tips that are simple enough to each be shared in less than a minute, for folks to de-escalate a conflict? (00:32:00)

7. Can you share with our listeners more about where they can learn about you and your podcast? (00:34:33)

8. What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave with our listeners? (00:35:33)

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#Modern Husbands #Society #Parenting #Relationship #Podcasting Education #Money #Marriage #Husband #Husband And Wife #Chores #Family

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In this episode we discuss with Chris Taylor various topics including personal finance journalism, tipping culture, impulse buying on social media, the relationship between money and happiness, and the importance of time in personal finance. Mr. Taylor is a Senior Correspondent for Reuters, contributor to the WSJ Buy Side & Fortune, with published articles in the Financial Times, CNBC, Money Magazine, and many more. Takeaways Personal finance journalism should focus on the emotional aspects of money to resonate with readers. Tipping culture is at a tipping point, with people becoming more reluctant to tip in various situations. Impulse buying on social media can be prevented by waiting before making a purchase and creating friction in the buying process. Money can create happiness up to a certain level, but beyond that, the correlation between money and happiness diminishes. The hedonic treadmill is the tendency to always want more money and possessions, but it doesn't lead to long-term happiness. Building wealth and financial security is best achieved by starting early and giving investments time to grow. Time is the most powerful factor in personal finance, and starting early in investing can lead to long-term financial security. Chapter Markers 00:00 Introduction 00:50 Canadian Culture and Healthcare 07:30 Favorite Money Lessons for His Kids 10:30 The Emotional Side of Personal Finance Journalism 12:06 The Tipping Culture Debate 15:00 Preventing Impulse Buying on Social Media 19:20: Happiness and Money 25:15 The Most Important Personal Finance Lesson Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack…

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1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Why are couples often shocked or surprised when conflict emerges in their relationship, especially in early phases of marriage? (00:01:07)

3. What do you see as two conflicting needs in a relationship and how this is often a point of tension in a marriage? (00:05:15)

4. Many times couples will identify "a breakdown of communication" as a culprit of conflict in a marriage? What do you think? (00:13:27)

5. What is the criticism and defensiveness loop? Why is the criticism and defensiveness loop so problematic? (00:22:04)

6. Three tips that are simple enough to each be shared in less than a minute, for folks to de-escalate a conflict? (00:32:00)

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How to Manage Conflict in Marriage: A Conversation with Dr. Jessica Higgins

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1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Why are couples often shocked or surprised when conflict emerges in their relationship, especially in early phases of marriage? (00:01:07)

3. What do you see as two conflicting needs in a relationship and how this is often a point of tension in a marriage? (00:05:15)

4. Many times couples will identify "a breakdown of communication" as a culprit of conflict in a marriage? What do you think? (00:13:27)

5. What is the criticism and defensiveness loop? Why is the criticism and defensiveness loop so problematic? (00:22:04)

6. Three tips that are simple enough to each be shared in less than a minute, for folks to de-escalate a conflict? (00:32:00)

7. Can you share with our listeners more about where they can learn about you and your podcast? (00:34:33)

8. What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave with our listeners? (00:35:33)

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