Good Grief: What Not to Say

Life after Babyloss

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The importance of knowing what not to say to someone grieving a baby loss.
Comments that attempt to minimize the loss can be incredibly hurtful and damaging.
Grieving parents often want their child's memory to be acknowledged and celebrated.
Support during grief should focus on being present and listening rather than offering clichés.
Assumptions about a grieving person's feelings or situation can lead to further isolation.
It's crucial to recognize that every loss is personal and should be treated with empathy.

Links referenced in this episode:

www.kikideville.com

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#Fitness #Society #Kids And Families #Grace in Action

Good Grief: What Not to Say

Life after Babyloss

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Takeaways:

The importance of knowing what not to say to someone grieving a baby loss.
Comments that attempt to minimize the loss can be incredibly hurtful and damaging.
Grieving parents often want their child's memory to be acknowledged and celebrated.
Support during grief should focus on being present and listening rather than offering clichés.
Assumptions about a grieving person's feelings or situation can lead to further isolation.
It's crucial to recognize that every loss is personal and should be treated with empathy.

Links referenced in this episode:

www.kikideville.com

17 حلقات

#Fitness #Society #Kids And Families #Grace in Action

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Candles & Community: The Wave of Light Experience 22:18

منذ 33 weeks22:18

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منذ 33 weeks18:47

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Good Grief: What Not to Say 29:21

منذ 33 weeks29:21

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منذ 34 weeks25:28

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منذ 34 weeks25:23

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منذ 34 weeks20:48

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منذ 5 years16:35

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منذ 5 years15:05

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منذ 5 years13:46

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منذ 5 years10:38

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We see you...the Grandparents, the Brothers and sisters, the aunts and uncles, the cousins. Those of you who care not just for us but for our dead children. We see you and we love you for your love and for the grief you too have to process. Grandparents we see the fact that you grieve not just your grandchild but you child who is becoming a different person. we see you all and thank you not just for your love but for knowing that our grief came before yours. And I grieve for all those parents of you whose family didn't know how or couldn't find it in themselves to support you as you needed. The ripples keep growing #babylossawarenessweek you can contact us at info@graceinaction.org.uk Find us on Social Media - https://www.facebook.com/GraceInAction14 https://twitter.com/graceinact https://www.instagram.com/graceinaction14/ https://www.youtube.com/GraceinAction/…

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منذ 5 years16:32

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منذ 5 years16:22

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Babyloss Awareness Mini Podfest Trailer 2:17

منذ 5 years2:17

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Over Babyloss Awareness week we will be having a mini podfest. A short episode which will highlight the people and situations affected by babyloss beyond the obvious. We start on Friday the 9th October

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Life After babyloss Trailer 5:55

منذ 5 years5:55

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