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It's Really None of Our Business Podcast

In this episode, we get to know our host Amanda Nielsen.

Tune in to hear her riveting answers to these questions:

What's something that other people like but you do not understand?

What's something you have never been able to do well?

What would you do if you were invisible for a day?

What's your favorite superpower?

What will people say at your funeral?

If you woke up tomorrow and you were a guy, what would you do?

When was the last time you tried something new, and what was it?

What's a belief that you have that other people disagree with?

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WTF AITA for telling my Fiancée I don't like her wedding dress?

So my fiancée and I are getting married in 9 months.

She's been dress shopping with her girls for months now. She found the dress she loved and bought it, and was too excited to keep it a secret. She showed me pics of the bridesmaid's dresses and I told her they were pretty, they match my groomsmen's suits really well.

Anyway, she brought her dress out and asked what I thought. I specifically asked her if she wants God's honest truth and wants me to critique the dress or if she knows she loves it and just wants to show me. She said she wanted my opinion.

She put the dress on and came out of the bathroom and I would be lying if I said I wasn't a little disappointed. She's a beautiful woman and looks incredible in anything of course, but the dress completely dwarfed her and didn't really fit the wedding theme she has worked so hard for. She wanted forestry, magical and whimsical, type theme. Flower crowns on the bridesmaids etc. But she chose a super sparkly dress with a HUGE skirt, which looked nothing like the simple, body-hugging sexy dresses she had been repeatedly showing me. She picked basically a huge Disney princess dress and I just didn't like how it looked at all.

I was honest when I told her I didn't like it and I was surprised she picked it because it just doesn't seem to match her and I just thought it was too much poof and sparkle. She got really quiet and stormed back upstairs, and then stormed out of the house and went to her Mom's. Texted me saying she couldn't believe I would say I didn't like it and what a dickhead I am and has blocked number. This is our first major fight and I'm just so annoyed because I ASKED if she wanted a real opinion and she said yes.

AITA for telling her I don't like the dress?

Edit to add: ahh. Aha. I read my credit card statement. The dress was 9 thousand dollars. Might help explain the reaction. "Oh, you don't like this 9 thousand dollar dress? Great cause I can't return it!" Probably went thru her head. I don't know what to do but sit here and laugh. Is laugh-crying a thing?