Listening with Intention for Stronger Relationships

FutureProof Advisor Podcast

Most people hear, but few truly listen. Matt Halloran, author of 'Shut the F Up and Listen', joins The FutureProof Advisor to explore how deep listening transforms communication, leadership, and client relationships. Drawing from his background in therapy and financial services, Matt shares how a pivotal moment studying with George Kinder shifted his perspective on the power of silence and meaningful dialogue.

Listening, he explains, is an act of love—one that builds trust, strengthens connections, and allows others to feel seen and valued. The key isn’t just in hearing words but in embracing silence, using strategic pauses to create space for deeper conversations. Recognizing different communication styles—whether someone is a skydiver, hang glider, or scuba diver—can also help tailor your listening approach to foster more meaningful interactions.

True listening isn’t about waiting for your turn to speak—it’s about setting aside ego, offering full attention, and making others feel genuinely understood. When we adapt our approach to meet others where they are, we create an environment where they feel comfortable, heard, and empowered to arrive at their own solutions. By mastering the art of listening, we can transform the way we lead, connect, and build relationships.