219 - Death of a Relationship

Fathers Fire

This week I ponder several conversations with men who are in the process of going through a divorce. I set those conversations against the ideal of having a strong marriage one that is a true partnership with each other and with God.

Honestly, I wrestled with how to discuss it in a way that all would benefit. I knew there are men who are happily married, divorced, widowed, going through a divorce

Top it off had two conversations with different men going through a divorce that made me even more sensitive to how to deliver it.

A couple of observations

* both started with “just friend” relationships on Facebook

* Have you become emotionally disconnected through Social media; bikinis, lingerie, porn

* Be intentional with your relationship

* I don’t go to lunch with other women for business. The women friends I have are our friends

* Know when to talk, when to listen, when to press an issue

* 50/50, 100/100, 180/20

* You can do everything right and still the other person can make a choice that destroys your relationship

* You be the strength. You be the anchor your kids need (she just wants attention)

Relationships can be messy. They can be beautiful. We get the opportunity and challenge to work through them. What have you done to turn your relationship into a true partnership?

Thanks for listening

Jody Sedrick